The characteristic of children's development is 12 years old. At different ages, each child's development characteristics are different, and some may change with the changes of environment and education, but the general direction will not change. The following are the development characteristics of 12-year-old children.

The characteristics of children's development 12 years old 1 12 years old is the last stage of early education.

12 years old is a teenager and is also suitable. Have tolerance, can tolerate the shortcomings and flaws of others, and no longer have some hard requirements for others. Like what you have to do.

The catharsis of nervousness

Because of tolerance, the tension is much less than before. However, when parents are critical and stressed, there will still be some minor problems, such as blinking, mumbling, stuttering and eating hands.

Sexual consciousness

Girls' physical development and sexual consciousness have changed a little, with the most growth in figure, chest and weight. Balanced figure, full chest, height has reached 95% of adults.

If a girl lives in a happy family, she will look forward to wearing a bra to menstruate, which is the arrival of happiness. As a mother, I should be a good friend of my daughter and make her feel proud, honored and happy as a woman.

Menstruation has just come to the stage, the amount is not large and irregular. Regarding gender, she will learn from her mother, tell her how she feels and ask her questions. Therefore, it is necessary for her children to talk to their mothers like friends every night.

Boys develop at different rates at this age. The fast-growing ones are mature, and the slow-growing ones are as short as those of 1 1 year. It developed rapidly, and his yin [stem] and scrotum grew a lot. The villi at the root of the vulva neck have grown out, and the color is very dark. As a parent, especially my father, we should give guidance, because he is curious.

Why is your body like this? How can it be changed? Will be shy, nervous and at a loss. Parents should tell their children normally and let them know that it's nothing, just like losing their teeth at the age of eight, which is a normal development phenomenon.

12 years old is not very interested in adult sex, just immersed in his interest in sexy places. For example, I know what shooting is, although I may not have experienced it. I like to attend school parties and pay great attention to my clothes. Both men and women like to take part in group activities. This stage may often be the stage of puppy love, so sex education, sexual awareness and sexual concept are very important for children.

Don't worry about diet, you'll never get enough to eat.

Sleep more regularly and ask for sleep on your own initiative.

He began to pay attention to appearance and moral consciousness. He will take the initiative to take a shower and start to care about clothes.

I am fond of and interested in the opposite sex.

In terms of money, pocket money is paid regularly so that children can have their own plans. For example, prepare birthday gifts, holiday gifts, and arrange activities for friends on weekends. Because he has a plan to spend money and a desire to make money. He will be willing to take on housework at home and do everything that can make money.

interpersonal relationship

The relationship with family has eased, compared with 1 1 year.

My relationship with my parents is much better.

Between brothers and sisters. Under six years old, 12 years old has a good relationship, but 6~ 1 1 year old has a bad relationship. It is normal for parents to treat their children's fights with a normal heart, which is a way of learning. In this process, he learned how to deal with contradictions and how to get along with others.

Not too exclusive to the opposite sex, very enthusiastic about school activities. If it is convenient for parents, some adult parties can also bring their children to participate, and fully support him to participate in activities held in the class and various activities between children. Of course, although he is supported to participate in various activities, some safety education, sex education and some rules in the early stage have already paved the way for the children!

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7- 12 years old is a very important development stage of the whole childhood. The characteristics of children's physical and mental development at this stage are mainly reflected in: children's height and weight are in a relatively rapid development stage; The external organs have developed rapidly, but the perception ability is not perfect enough; Children are in the transition stage from concrete thinking in images to abstract logical thinking; Emotions and feelings are more clear.

The rapid development of children's body and mind is manifested in the following aspects: children's height, weight, brain, nerve and motor skills have made great progress; The development of large muscles can ensure that children engage in various simple activities; Children are quite skilled in intuitive action thinking and gradually master specific image thinking; Children's vocabulary has grown rapidly and they have basically mastered various grammatical structures; Children begin to show certain interests, hobbies, temper and other personality tendencies, as well as the tendency to play with their peers.

Main points of family education guidance content

(1) Strengthen children's nutrition, health care and physical exercise. Guide parents to lead their children to actively carry out physical exercise; According to children's personal characteristics, find a scientific, reasonable and acceptable diet for children; Scientifically match children's diet, so as to achieve balanced nutrition, diverse types, appropriate proportion, quantitative diet and proper deployment; Constantly learn new ideas and knowledge about children's nutrition.

(2) Cultivate children's good living and hygiene habits. Guide parents and children to work out their children's family life and rest system; Actively use rewards and neglect to correct and eliminate children's bad behaviors and hobbies; Lead children to have regular health check-ups.

Extended data:

Do a good job in safety education to reduce children's accidental injuries. Guide parents to improve safety awareness and eliminate harmful factors in the living room and surrounding environment as much as possible; Use good examples to influence, educate and enlighten children; Combined with children's life and study, safety education should be given to children in the process of joint participation to improve their awareness of life; Pay attention to children's physical fitness and improve their self-protection ability through activities.

Cultivate children's good interpersonal skills. Guide parents to pay attention to their children's daily communication behavior and give timely help and guidance to their communication attitudes, behaviors and skills; Pay attention to cultivating children's interests, hobbies and specialties, and enhance their self-confidence in communication; Carry out role-playing games to help children practice social skills at home, actively create opportunities for children to communicate with their peers, and cultivate children's habit and quality of being willing to communicate with others.

Characteristics of children's development 12 years old 3 7- 12 years old:

7-/kloc-The most important lesson for children aged 0/2 is diligence, earnestness and hard work. At this age, children will question your praise for him. For example, if you tell him that he is the best in the class, he will begin to evaluate the truth of your sentence. Therefore, the more specific your affirmation or negation, the better. The farther away from his grades, the more you pay attention to his character, so as to cultivate a child with character.

At this stage, the child's brain develops rapidly and begins to know that the world is not only black and white, but also gray areas. He knows that he is not a completely good boy or a completely bad boy. They can understand that poor math and good English can coexist in them. At this time, parents can establish their children's future success by affirming their children's past achievements.

Children aged 7- 12 will have mood swings due to hormones, and they will also have some self-control, abstraction, imagination and moral ethics. At this time, if parents have a good relationship with them, it will have a greater impact on them.

Children will gradually find their own interests and give up easily. At this time, parents should encourage more and don't give up easily. We can tell them that diligence, persistence and perseverance are good characters.

Don't do everything for him in life. Housework is a good way to cultivate children's sense of responsibility. Involving children in housework can make him understand that he is a member of the family. If he doesn't contribute to the family, he can't enjoy the rights in the family. Parents lead by example is the best way.

At this time, parents should also encourage their children to open their hearts and share their feelings and moods with their parents. It can be on the dining table, while driving, while reading and before going to bed. Lower your command attitude and preach less. If you don't communicate with your child well, your child's rebellious mentality will become more and more serious.

These classes for children aged 0- 12 have little to do with intelligence. You can imagine a healthy and good-natured child who will have no problems in his studies.

Nowadays, parents generally have a kind of anxiety, that is, they are afraid that their children will "lose at the starting line". Although parents want their children to grow up happily, it is difficult to restrain their inner anxiety and competitive pressure from external incentives. I think if a child loses at the starting line, he will never have a chance to turn over. This kind of thinking is understandable. Then, let's think about the children who grew up around us. What are they like now?

Parents are usually glad to hear that their children can skip advanced placement, because it represents their superior intelligence. Jiang Peirong, an education expert who graduated from Massachusetts Institute of Technology, once asked the parents of children who skipped advanced placement, how is their children getting along now?

One parent said that if I had to do it all over again, I'd rather not let my children skip class, because today's children are very lacking in self-confidence.

Children's intelligence has kept up, but their physical development has not kept up with their peers. Many topics that can be discussed between peers cannot be integrated into children. Over time, there is a sense of inferiority.

Jiang Peirong himself had a classmate aged 14 when he was studying at MIT. Because my IQ is higher than ordinary people, I also lost the happiness that my peers should have. This classmate is a gifted child. If other students have any unsolved problems, he can solve them quickly. One day I saw him lying in bed moping and asked him why he was unhappy. He replied that he couldn't find a girlfriend.

Now our education, let kindergarten children learn the content of primary school, let primary school students learn the content of middle school, and middle school learn the content of university. When the children go to college, they will go back to make up their homework in kindergarten. At this time, it will take a lot of effort to make up. Therefore, as parents, we should let our children study courses at the right age.