All children are beautiful, so are we, if we understand our souls with love. The following is a book on adolescent psychology: insight into children's souls.
brief Introduction of the content
In this book Understanding Children's Soul, Bert hellinger, a wise old man in his 90s, tells us a profound story which is related to the fate of each of us, and leads us to explore and pursue new horizons and answers with shocking insights: instead of asking "What's wrong with children", ask "What's wrong with me?" What happened to us? What happened to our family of origin? What kind of heavy family fate does the little child bear? What kind of life secrets are hidden behind those obvious fates? "
Brief introduction of the author
Bert hellinger, a famous German psychotherapist, founded and integrated the "family system arrangement", which caused a sensation throughout Europe. In the past ten years, the United States and other European countries and regions have been scrambling to invite Hellinger to give speeches and demonstrations. Since 200 1, Hellinger has come to Chinese mainland twice to hold a seminar on "Family System Arrangement", which has aroused great repercussions among hundreds of clinical psychologists and psychology enthusiasts who attended the seminar. Hellinger was a priest for twenty years in his early years. After he resigned as a priest, he began to devote himself to psychoanalysis. Finally, in the training of family therapy, he formed his own family system to arrange treatment methods. Hellinger currently lives in Germany.
Editor's recommendation
You may ask yourself over and over again, asking everyone who may give you an answer: What happened to my child? What happened to him (her)?
He/she is inexplicably ill, his words and deeds are different, and he/she is even tired of school, playing truant and taking drugs. He wants to run away from home again and again, and even wants to commit suicide ... You can even try to review yourself, learn to adjust yourself, and try to communicate ... But all your efforts are in vain, and it seems that you can't change the direction of your child's life at all.
Open the book Insight into Children's Soul and explore in the dark for so long, you may see some light and even feel relieved. ...
Hellinger's quotations:
Parents and children, what does this mean? It means that children accept life from their parents. There will be no other parents except them. Therefore, they are * good parents, * possible parents, * suitable parents.
If children have a very heavy fate, then they not only look at their parents, but also look forward to many generations and see the source of life. If children can get life from the source and see their own life, after several generations, their hearts will suddenly be enlightened.
Many diseases and accidents are the result of guilt. People feel guilty, and people are eager to free themselves from guilt through punishment, especially through their own death.
Children are the perfect relationship between husband and wife. Partnerships are designed for children. A partnership without children is incomplete. Nowadays, many people only consider men and women when discussing partnership. In the early days, it was obvious that the child would be born one year after the wedding. The goal of partnership is children. Only through children can the partnership become complete. Children are the obvious result of partnership.
catalogue
The first part of the child's soul
Chapter 1 Helping children facing challenges 3
Background 3
Binding 5
Kevin's permutation 1 1
Victim 14
I'll take you to your father's 15.
Child care worker 19
I am 20 years old for you.
Conscience 28
Helping an autistic sister 30
The daughter who committed suicide was 36 years old.
Adopted children 40
Adopted children
The consequences of strong x 52
Disabled children 54
Guardianship 57
Forgiveness and persecution
Another kind of love 77
Chapter II Resonance 80
All the children are beautiful, and so are their parents.
The soul of the family 88
Chapter III Another Expression 97
language barrier
Are you out of your mind? 107
Secret 1 15
Help others in harmony 123
Reconciliation with opposites 124
Chapter IV Street Children 125
Real life 125
Case: Please 126.
Case: Love 132
Chapter V School 137
Systematic education 137
Dear mom 140
Who belongs to the system? 142
Students with learning difficulties 146
Female students suffering from anorexia 149
Go all out to save parents' children 152
Teachers and parents 154
Mom, I will die for you.
Body puncture 16 1
Children with difficulties 16 1
Hidden love 162
Short life 17 1
I love your father very much.
Mom, I will do anything for you.
Hailingge Education 188
The second part is the course of love
Chapter VI Mysterious Conscience (I) 193
Introduction 193
Display: Guangming 194
Display: Breakthrough 197
The way to success 198
Show: Our Occupation 200
Show: Success with Your Partner 203
Paradise on earth 207
Display: Happiness 208
Presentation: Question 2 13
My book 2 15
Display: in vain 2 15
Chapter VII Mysterious Conscience (2) 2 19
Introduction 2 19
The first dimension: "Now is enough" 2 19
The second dimension: "Now I stop" 220
The third dimension: you are better-now we are the same.
Fourth dimension: I am worth 226.
The fifth dimension: well done
The sixth dimension: manipulating the game 227
The seventh dimension: "Oh, I recognized you so late!" " 227
The eighth dimension: let's stop here now.
The ninth dimension: Go to hell.
Tenth dimension: I'm done here.
The eleventh dimension: Enough 229
Twelfth dimension: right 230
13th Yuan: You scoundrel.
Chapter VIII Men and Women, Past and Future 233
Story begins: two kinds of happiness 233
Two in one 235
The position in your mind is 24 1.
Power supply and resistor 244
Questions and answers 246
Short arrangement 248
Questions and answers 252
Children 255
Child's sacrifice 258
Conclusion no 263
Attachment 268
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