Here are some directions to practice.
Overcome the fear of speaking and socializing. Shaking, whispering and stuttering will not leave a good impression on people, so we should overcome social obstacles. You can find a speech pathologist, speech therapist or language trainer.
Just relax。 Similar to overcoming social barriers mentioned above, if you are too stiff or nervous when you speak, you won't give the impression that you are eloquent. Therefore, to take necessary measures to relax yourself, you can imagine the audience as an embarrassed face in underwear, or you can comfort yourself. The worst result is just to make the audience bored (in fact, even this is not so bad). Talking is a natural thing. Don't always give yourself the feeling of being cornered, and worry less about whether you speak well or not and what others will think of you, so that you can speak more smoothly.
Full of confidence Do you think people who speak with confidence look more leadership and eloquence? In fact, when a person speaks confidently, the audience will be more interested in it. So even if you have no confidence at all, pretend to be confident, so that your whole speech will sound more quality and standard. In addition, people who pretend to be confident will gradually become really confident because of psychological hints. Isn't this the way to kill two birds with one stone?
Speak slowly. If you speak fast, even the most eloquent people will make people feel nervous and insecure. Because when a person is nervous, he will unconsciously speed up his speech, which sounds unprofessional at all and exposes his anxiety. Try to slow down your speech. Slow is better than fast.
Pay attention to the audience. People who are good at words attach great importance to eye contact with the audience and interaction with every audience. In this way, people will not feel that this person is talking to the air, but really care whether the audience is listening. Therefore, when you speak, you should always make eye contact with a person, even if you are facing him.
Write a manuscript if necessary. If you want to make a speech, don't feel embarrassed to hold it. In fact, it is very helpful to organize ideas and sentences with speeches. But don't follow the script, remind yourself with keywords, so that your speech will be clearer and easier to understand.
Practice in the mirror. You may think this is stupid, but watching yourself talk will make you more aware of what you need to improve. You can practice directly in front of the mirror, or you can record yourself. Only in this way can you know where you are doing well and where you are not doing enough.
Read more books. Reading can not only increase a person's vocabulary and improve reading comprehension, but also bring you closer to those eloquent celebrities in literary works or history. If you keep the habit of reading, you can learn a lot of incisive words from the characters in the book. Try to imitate their manners or postures.
Attachment: Quotations from Yan Lu
A good man aims at all directions, wandering around the world is success, and wandering around the world is happiness!
Feel the world with your heart and solve problems with love. Without heart, there can be no love. If you have no heart, you can have love!
Everything is impermanent, so calm things with a normal heart.
Lu Yan
China, post-80s inspirational speaker.
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