Modern society attaches great importance to children's early education. Family is the first place for children to receive early education, and it is the most primitive and basic education they receive in their lives, which is of fundamental significance to children's growth. From prenatal education before birth to enlightenment education after birth, it is the first time that a family has written the first stroke of life on a blank piece of paper in a child's brain. As the saying goes, parents are children's first teachers.
Children come to this world is a blank, and gradually learn to communicate with their parents, learn to talk and learn to walk. From ignorance of external things to a gradual understanding of basic life knowledge and viability, they are inseparable from the influence of family and education. These educations from family are the most basic and necessary knowledge and skills in life development. Second, the infiltration of family education is more natural than school education.
Since the birth of a child, parents are basically around the child all the time, and children have the longest contact with their parents. In daily life, parents or other relatives can exert educational influence on their children anytime and anywhere, such as teaching them to speak, eat and dress, educating them to be obedient, correcting their mistakes, and letting them know what is right and wrong and what they can and cannot do. In other words, parents can only educate their children anytime and anywhere if they fully understand them.
In daily life, parents' words and deeds have a profound influence on their children. Family harmony and strong family atmosphere are objective conditions for a child to grow up healthily. For children's growth, the influence of family environment has played a great role. For example, the child's humanoid performance has a lot to do with the family environment. Families with good atmosphere, children who are generally lively and cheerful, and families with tense family relations, children are generally introverted. This is a typical family influence. Third, compared with school education, the influence of family education is more lasting.
The influence of family education on children is far more important and far-reaching than school education. The affection between parents and children is thicker than water, and the emotional communication between them is everywhere. Children, in particular, are easily influenced and educated by their parents because of their trust and dependence on their parents. Influenced by their parents, some children even have the same hobbies as their parents. If their parents like music, their children may be good at it.
Parents love writing, and children's writing ability will be stronger; Parents like sports, children will love sports and so on. Due to the long-term infiltration and influence of family education, children's hobbies will gradually be fixed, and their study habits, living habits and behavior habits will also be basically fixed, which will accompany their children for life. Fourth, family education is more comprehensive than school education.
Restricted by the national entrance system, the focus of school education is still on imparting knowledge, and other aspects of education are relatively insufficient. The influence of family education on children is all-round and very extensive. The content of education involves people's basic life skills, such as food, clothing, housing and transportation, cultural knowledge, social interaction, worldly wisdom and so on. It's quite comprehensive It can be said that in the education of parents to their children, parents will teach their children these basic knowledge, life skills and social experience without reservation, which children are exposed to at home.
Generally speaking, in the process of human growth, the role of family education is unparalleled. From a small point of view, family education can effectively develop children's intelligence, stimulate children's interest, develop children's personality traits and let children develop good behavior habits in early childhood; Generally speaking, family education determines what kind of outlook on life, values and world outlook children can establish, and can guide children to plan their own road to success and development direction in advance according to their characteristics and hobbies, so that children can avoid detours and be more conducive to their success.
Although school education also plays an important role in children's cultivation, it is inseparable from the cooperation of family education. On the basis of family education, school education can play a better role in educating people. According to the above analysis, in the process of children's growth, family education is more important than school education, which means family education is more important than school education.