Many parents will perfunctory their children: you picked it up in the trash can, or you jumped out of a stone.
Perhaps such an answer will make children stop asking questions, but such an answer will not only make children's cognition go into a misunderstanding, but also miss the opportunity to give them the first lesson in sex education.
If you avoid this question, children will notice your strange attitude, which will make them have the illusion that it is shameful to discuss where they come from. When the child asks this question, don't be shy and tell the child generously:
Dad's sperm touched mom's egg and formed a fertilized egg. This fertilized egg is you. You grew up in your mother's belly, and finally your mother gave birth to you, and you came to our house.
China's parents' traditional thoughts are very shy about the topic of sex education, and many parents' attitudes towards sex education are basically evasive.
I think children will naturally understand when they grow up. But what if his understanding started with being violated? Or did he know it was violated too late and didn't know it?
Therefore, it is necessary to educate children about sex from an early age, not only to answer their curiosity about the body, but also to let them better protect themselves.
How do parents educate their children about sex? Let's start with these points. 1) Teach children to know their own bodies.
Tell your child that you can't let others touch and look at your body.
You can use the opportunity of swimming to tell your children that the parts covered by swimsuits are private parts, and you can't show them to others or be touched by others.
Don't let the opposite sex kiss and touch yourself casually, whether it's a friend or an elder.
2) Teach children to respect their bodies.
Teach children to take a bath and change clothes as soon as possible, give them a separate room, and parents should also pay attention to dressing in front of their children.
When taking children to swimming pools, bathhouses and other places, take them into the dressing room of the corresponding sex.
3) Let children know what sexual assault is.
Tell your child that only you can touch the urine and private parts, and no one else can touch them, even through clothes.
If someone tries to invade, they must refuse. If the other party doesn't stop, run away immediately and call for help.
4) Teach children how to protect themselves.
Tell the children not to stay alone with any man in a confined space. Can't eat food given by strangers, can't accept anything given by strangers.
When you feel violated, you should try to leave and tell your parents what happened.
China is short of sex education at present, and some countries will conduct systematic and comprehensive sex education in schools. However, our country is not perfect in sex education, so we need parents to educate their children about sex.
This is not only to educate them, but also our best protection for him.