1, the benefits of adult human nature education
Same-sex parents are models of children's gender awareness, while heterosexual parents are models of children's learning and getting along with the opposite sex, which plays an important role in children's growth. Therefore, both mother and father should actively cooperate to raise children together and give them a good growth environment. When the children are older, parents of the opposite sex should pay attention to their discretion when getting along with their children, and not be too intimate, so as not to lead to the formation of imperfect personality. Let me introduce the benefits of adult sex education.
1 beneficial to physical and mental health. After teenagers enter adolescence, with the maturity of sexual development, there will be a series of physiological and psychological phenomena, such as menarche of boys' sperm and menarche of girls' menstruation, which will suddenly produce sexual impulses with the awakening and development of sexual consciousness. If sex education can be carried out in time, boys and girls can correctly treat and deal with these sexual physiological and psychological problems, which is of great significance to promote their normal physical and mental development and prevent physical and psychological diseases.
2. Conducive to the cultivation of sexual morality. Timely sex education in adolescence is conducive to guiding teenagers to abide by the social morality of sexual intercourse and sexual behavior. Being a person with noble sexual morality can effectively prevent puppy love, premarital sex, teenage pregnancy, sexual perversion and sexual crimes.
3 is conducive to the prevention of diseases. Diseases of male and female reproductive organs are mostly caused by inattention to sexual physiology and mental health. Strengthening sex education for teenagers can nip in the bud and greatly reduce the incidence of sexually transmitted diseases and sexual dysfunction after marriage.
The sooner you talk to your child about sex, the better. The most appropriate way to conduct sex education for preschool children is to give appropriate responses to children's questions or related behaviors in peacetime and do it imperceptibly. Give the child a hint: once there is a sexual problem, he doesn't need to know it through other channels. He can get it from his parents. It is not a shameful thing to talk about sex. Doing so is actually conducive to improving the child's complete personality.
Gender education that needs to be known before marriage
Why should sex education be conducted at school, but not at home? From the perspective of the white tiger boy, this issue was also raised at the headquarters meeting. White Tiger Child Record, the original explanation: "Why doesn't the father teach the child by himself?" For blasphemy. The way of teaching well illustrates the changes of yin and yang couples, and it is impossible for father and son to teach each other. "It means that a father can't teach his son, so it's not serious.
During the Eastern Han Dynasty, sex education was regarded as a compulsory course in schools for aristocratic children. It can be seen that people's sexual concept was still quite open at that time, and they attached great importance to research issues. Let's take a look at the gender knowledge we need to know before marriage:
The most important part of preventing male infertility is premarital sex education. China's marriage law clearly stipulates: "lineal blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations, people with physical defects who can't have sex, and sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, leprosy and mental illness can't get married without being cured." Marriage law is a law to ensure the normal combination of young men and women, establish a happy family and ensure the quality of childbirth. Must be carefully studied and implemented.
Pre-marital health examination is of great significance to ensure the married life and fertility of both men and women. Premarital examination includes general examination, reproductive organ examination and necessary laboratory examination. In order to discover the defects of reproductive organs or sexual dysfunction in time, which is very important to prevent male infertility.
Inbreeding is closely related to the occurrence and continuation of genetic diseases and should be avoided. We should actively prevent all kinds of acute and chronic infectious diseases, such as mumps, which may be complicated with orchitis, causing testicular atrophy and affecting spermatogenic function. Unexplained swelling, hardness, unevenness and pain, etc. Once found, it should be checked in time. Workers who stand for a long time, such as teachers, may have varicocele, which affects the metabolism of testis and reduces the quantity and quality of sperm. Therefore, occupations prone to varicocele should appropriately increase exercise and reduce standing posture, which is also a measure to prevent male infertility.
In addition, employees who are often exposed to radioactive substances, work in a high temperature environment, and have more exposure to poisons should pay attention to protection, because testicles are very sensitive to radiation, high temperature and poisons.
Sexual life and fertility are also closely related. If impotence, premature ejaculation and abnormal ejaculation occur in sexual life, don't blame each other and treat them correctly with a scientific attitude. Under the guidance of doctors, most couples can be cured through cooperation.
2. The content of adult human nature education
As long as there are holidays that can turn the weekend into three days, such as Valentine's Day, Memorial Day and National Day, many couples will choose to spend it under the covers.
Fierce quarrels often lead to intense exercise under the bed. Arguing can lead to an increase in dopamine and adrenaline levels in the body, which can cause you and your partner to get excited in other ways, such as a room. Every couple will occasionally have conflicts. After the conflicts, sharing rent will often make your relationship more harmonious.
When you go on holiday, you can fully enjoy your private time. In fact, sharing a room during the holiday will help you and your partner rekindle their love and become more intimate sexually. If you are used to planning travel time, remember to arrange room sharing time, such as staying in the hotel until the early hours of the morning or going back to your room after dinner to enjoy a pleasant evening together.
A little aggression, coupled with a sense of urgency, usually has unexpected results. This is also one of the mysterious elements of romance. You don't know what will happen. If you are in the mood, you can try to tear each other's clothes, skip the foreplay and enjoy a different roommate who is out of step.
Maybe sometimes all he needs is a simple, familiar and satisfied roommate. If he is at a low ebb these days, it is also a good way to express love and support. Choose a position that you and your partner like.
If you attend a boring party or family gathering, you can make this night different in this way. Sneak out quietly and find an empty bedroom. The possibility of being caught will make your sex life more exciting and have a different kind of fun. It can also give you a reason to look forward to family gatherings.
Everyone has sexual fantasies. As long as you both feel comfortable, there is no reason to refuse to turn them into reality. Whenever possible, we should try our best to satisfy each other's sexual fantasies. For example, if your partner always dreams of sharing a room on the boat, why not rent a boat and enjoy a romantic night in the sea?
If you are pressed for time, you can enjoy fast room sharing. But make sure that the other party is voluntary, otherwise it will cause disgust. When she agreed to share a room, maybe what she really meant was disapproval. So really understand each other's thoughts and don't cast a shadow over your long-term sex life.
Take time and thought to prepare for a romantic evening. Candles, music or some champagne can help you and your partner reach an emotional agreement, and then slowly enjoy every minute together.
Changing the location of sharing a room will add spontaneity to your relationship, which will make your partner more eager to share a room. People often enjoy the same room at the same time and place, which will make your sex life colorless. If you are in the laundry room together, you might as well try it here. It's fresh and doesn't need laundry detergent.
Rain, snow and hail, when these bad weather comes, there is no reason to refuse to share. You can use your imagination as much as possible, and you work together for a common goal. For example, break the number of times you share a room every night. When your sexual ability is finally released, you may be exhausted, but you are satisfied.
You often tell your children to play outdoors, but in fact, you can also move sex outside. If you happen to be camping in a tent, then this is a good opportunity. But make sure you are exposed in private places, not in public.
Trying new positions will bring different happiness to your partner, and you will also know which position will help her reach orgasm and which position is feasible. Changing your posture often can keep your sex life fresh, and you will be more willing to enjoy it often.