The first book: "Mom, please love me like this" Lin Ju.
Lin Ju, a graduate of Psychology Department of Peking University, is the first educational expert in China who combines family education with life growth.
Taking 30 true stories as cases, this book tells the physical and psychological development of children at all stages of their growth.
These stories cover all aspects of problems encountered in the process of accompanying children to grow up.
For example: how to satisfy children's sense of security? How can we give children a stress-free world? How can we understand children's "bad" behavior? ……
The second book: "Meet Children, Meet Better Oneself" Ceci Goff
The author is a doctor of education, a psychological counselor, a practicing consultant, and the director of the youth counseling department of Star of Tomorrow.
David Thomas, Ph.D. in Sociology, has been writing for Parents' Life magazine for a long time and has been invited as a guest by national TV and radio stations for many times.
Melissa Chevatsan, doctor of education, founder and executive director of "Star of Tomorrow", once taught postgraduate courses.
Meeting children and meeting yourself better is a spiritual growth course written by three American education experts for parents all over the world. This book holds that we often educate our children not because of love, but because of fear.
It is these fears and love in parents' hearts that make family education fall into a misunderstanding. For example, many people are the parents they dreamed of when they were young, and they dedicate what they wanted to have when they were young to their children now. Therefore, educating children is more about meeting the needs of parents than children. To solve women's problems, we must first solve parents' problems-the latter is the most important. As the book says: "The reason why we become parents is not to write about children's lives, but to purify our hearts and let us completely change ourselves. Only by understanding this can we have the opportunity to progress, grow and mature. "
Book 3: Give me your hand, son. Heim Guinot.
This is a good book about the way parents communicate with their children. Parents can help children grow up to be brave, kind and responsible. Love alone is not enough. Good parents need skills. How to acquire and use these communication skills is the main content of this book.
The author introduces Heim G Guinot, doctor of psychology, clinical psychologist, child psychologist and pediatrician. Adjunct Professor of Psychology at the Graduate School of new york University, postdoctoral fellow at Ajder University of the Philippines.
The fourth book: "Make rules with children like this, and children will least resist" George M. Capaca.
The author is a well-known parenting expert and a professional clinical psychologist.
Books: The book "Making rules with children in this way, children will not contradict at all" is a "sunflower book" for parents to get along with "stubborn children".
Most children are unwilling to obey the rules properly, especially in the rebellious period, and have strong resistance to the rules.
Say watch TV for 20 minutes, and I will start cheating when the time is up; I decided to do my homework for 30 minutes and then have a rest. As long as my parents are not staring, I can play without doing my homework 1 hour. ...
The cases in this parenting book are rich and easy to understand, and the suggestions put forward by the author are very operable. As long as parents are willing to work hard, they can find the parenting answers they need from the book.
The fifth book: "A good mother is better than a good teacher" Yin Jianli
The author is an education expert with a master's degree in education. He has been teaching for many years and is now engaged in family education research and consultation. The author is familiar with school education, has profound research on family education, and has cultivated an excellent daughter by herself.
Features of this book:
First, a good mother is better than a good teacher. For the first time, some refreshing family education principles are put forward, so that parents can have rules to follow when educating their children;
Secondly, the book gives many simple and practical operation methods, and the perfect combination of theory and practice makes parents not only gain a lot of effective experience at once, but also improve their educational awareness. It is a model of seeking truth from facts about family education and the most practical reference book for parents.
Third, "A good mother is better than a good teacher" not only tells you how to improve your child's grades, but also tells you how to teach your child to be a man and how to cultivate a self-conscious, self-reliant and self-reliant child.
The Sixth Book: Non-violent Communication in Marshall Luxembourg
In 2006, the writer Dr. Marshall Luxembourg won the Bridge of Peace Award from the Global Village Foundation. He found a way of communication, according to which talking and listening can make people feel connected and live in harmony, which is non-violent communication.
The douban score of this book is 8.4, which I think is also recommended by many people. We get along with children every day, and I don't know how much "violent communication" we use. Often children do something wrong, and we can go on without scruple. This book will tell us how to improve this situation. It is also a book worth reading and rereading. After reading it, there will be a lot of practical exercises.
The seventh book: "Who took away the happiness of children" Li Yueer
This book was written by Li Yueer, who is known as "the Gospel of God to children and parents".
She explained the child's happiness in the clearest and most vivid language. Through 190 stories in life and teaching, she deduces a series of practical and effective methods, and establishes a humanized and rational happy communication platform for parents, teachers and children, which makes children extremely willing to cooperate with educators.
The experience of reading this book will be a process for educators to learn the wisdom of love, which is not only useful for educating children, but also of far-reaching significance for improving educators' self-cultivation.
Book 8: Grasping the Sensitive Period of Children, Sun Ruixue.
This book contains more than 200 real cases of children (0-10 years old) in the sensitive period, all of which are recorded by parents or teachers, with comments from Sun Ruixue.
In the history of Chinese and foreign education, this is the first time to reveal the life phenomenon in a sensitive period on a large scale, comprehensively and deeply. It is like a golden key built after 10 years, which leads readers to understand the law of children's growth and crack the secrets of children's hearts.
The ninth book: "How to say that children will listen, how to listen to children will say" Adele Farber and Elaine Mazlisch.
The authors are internationally renowned experts in parent-child communication. Their works are not only welcomed by parents, but also recognized by professional authorities.
Give parents a chance to practice at their own pace (or with friends), and provide many examples that parents can learn from, so that they can find the method that suits them best. "
Book 10: unconditional parenting of Alfie Cohen
Xiaowu, the translator of this book, has said on many occasions that it is easy to love an obedient child, but it is more difficult to love a less well-behaved child. But it is by loving children who are not easy to love that we can develop our true love and do things that are not easy to do, thus exercising our abilities. This book is very suitable for reading when it is difficult to refute children. You can find different feelings in the book.
Educator Yin Jianli said: "Unconditional parenting" is a realm, not a set of methods. The method is limited and the realm is infinite. Parents should read this book, which will bring you endless methods and strength.
These are the ten parenting books recommended today. No one is born as a father and a mother. It is necessary for every parent to keep learning. Parents, read books!