In life, we should respect children, treat them equally, establish a relationship of mutual trust and form close friends with them. Only in this way can we win their trust. Parents should love their children. Maybe you will say that this truth is very simple, but some parents' love can't be understood and recognized by children, so I often give my naughty son a cordial hug, a shallow smile, a persuasive persuasion and a small gift, which will make children naturally feel the love given by their parents and enhance their trust in their parents. Therefore, our parents will apply love to cultivate their good behavior habits.

Two. The premise of good communication between parents and children is listening.

Parents should put down their lofty posture, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and calm down and listen to everything their children have to say, even if you are busy at this time. Has your smiling face increased this day? Whenever I ask my son this question, he is always excited to report everything to me. When he expresses his views on things, I will respect his opinions, discuss with him and give him enough confidence and self-confidence. I think it is very important to cultivate children's character. Listening is an art as well as a kind of learning.

Three. Encourage children to dare to meet challenges.

Today's era is an era of fierce competition, so it is necessary to cultivate children's sense of competition and the spirit of daring to meet challenges from an early age. I often encourage my son to say: you are great, you are so smart, and you can answer such a difficult knowledge correctly. My mother admires you. He was very happy to hear this, and he also mobilized his learning intention. I kept cheering him on when he was in trouble. At this time, I will work hard with my child and infect him with practical actions.

Four. Teach children to treat setbacks correctly.

People will inevitably encounter setbacks in their lives. Suffering is a great wealth of life. Misfortune and frustration can sink people, forge people's strong will and achieve a full life. Suffering is a good teacher in life. He can teach children how to use gratitude. Treat all problems with heart and bravely participate in social competition.

Five. Cultivate children's adaptive potential

In practice, we use our intelligence and other factors to control ourselves according to the ever-changing objective situation. Self-remoulding. Since ancient times, it is the basic potential of survival to realize the unity of subjectivity and objectivity to ensure the normal progress of practice. In this era of rapid changes and fierce competition in human society, people need stronger adaptability. Whoever has strong adaptability will survive, develop better and succeed.

Six. Read books with children.

Parents and children can read together, and children can get happiness and satisfaction from it, feel love and warmth, and sometimes even be more interested in the book itself.