Regarding the Psychological Counseling Law for Junior High School Students, Rome was not built in a day. Children's psychological counseling is a long process, which requires parents' patience. It is also carried out from the formation of every little thing. From the heart, look at it rationally and have a wise method. At the same time, parents should also understand that a good family atmosphere is really important for children. Parents should communicate with teachers more, keep abreast of their children's situation at school, and report their children's situation at home to teachers. Parents really respect teachers and respect their education and guidance. In order to play their roles, raise their children and wait for the flowers to bloom, they must wait quietly after everything is ready.

? Psychological counseling methods for junior middle school students:

1. rational emotional therapy. This method is mainly used for strong-willed students and self-treatment. This method usually goes through three steps. First, identify the events that are bothering you. Secondly, review the whole event process and analyze the emotional changes and factors that affect emotions. Finally, fight against negative beliefs with positive beliefs.

2. Reward method. Praise and encourage the encouraging behavior of middle school students.

3. Criminal law. Middle school students are an important period for the formation of personality and various values. Teachers and parents should find and stop wrong ideas and practices in time. Punish if necessary.

4. A tourist-centered approach. This method is mainly suitable for students who have been hit hard, perhaps because of family changes and declining grades, and there is no other way. This method takes students as the main body, creates an environment to encourage and support students, amplifies their advantages, and enables students to re-recognize themselves and build up their self-confidence.

5. Settlement method. This method is mainly aimed at some offensive or new bad behaviors. Or for some psychologically sensitive and fragile students. Stop stimulating bad behavior.

6. System desensitization method. This method is mainly suitable for nervous and anxious students. Find a quiet environment, let students spend a moment of peace with the help of relaxing music, and let them fully relax. Teachers use language to slowly guide students out of anxiety and yearn for a beautiful environment: grassland, sea, blue sky and so on.