Don't let the mobile phone become an obstacle between you and your children.
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Is it a companion to bring a baby while playing with a mobile phone?
In the second season of the recently hit parent-child program "Mom is Superman", Bao Beier's wife Bao Wenjing was scolded by many people. Giant baby mother? .
My daughter Jiaozi is watching cartoons, and Bao Wenjing is watching her mobile phone, without looking up or any interaction. Jiaozi has grown to two years old, and she revealed that children are closer to grandma and nanny. ?
The child's heart is simple. Whoever cares more about her will be closer to her.
Many parents think that they spend a lot of time with their children, only to find that their children are often angry and disobedient in front of them. But I didn't know that children expressed their desires in this way. They are eager for their parents' love and attention. Can you put down your mobile phone and play with me?
The furthest distance in the world is when I am by your side and you are watching your mobile phone.
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If you don't accompany me, I will grow up.
I recently saw a poem called Waiting.
When I was three years old, you told me to wait five minutes.
23 years old, you haven't come back yet.
Dad, I don't want to eat candied haws now.
When I take my children to the amusement park, I often see my father sitting next to me watching my mobile phone, and it is often my mother or the elderly who accompany my children.
At that moment, are the information and games in the mobile phone really that important?
We all know it's not that important, but we often comfort ourselves by saying: I really have a lot of things to do. The mobile phone is working. ?
It is easy to find reasons to convince yourself, so children become victims of these reasons and excuses and become less important than mobile phones.
A friend told me that his children only come to him when they need money.
I asked:? What's your state together? He said sadly. There is nothing to say, I don't know how to express my concern, and children never talk about their own affairs. Once disciplined, it is a conflict and quarrel, and the child slams out the door. ?
This is the only irreversible thing in the world. If you lose it, you can never get it back. It is time.
When a child makes a small discovery, he will be very excited to share it with you. When the child wants to express to you, you look at the phone and say, I'm busy, and so on.
Wait, wait, wait. When you have time, the child has grown up and no longer needs your company.
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That's what children need.
Many parents worry that their children's only hobby is watching TV. Bao Wenjing's daughter Jiaozi's daily communication with her mother is that her mother helps me adjust cartoons.
It's not that children rely on TV, but that they don't know anything more interesting to do.
The child is at 0? At the age of 3, they were not very independent, and the world they saw was arranged by their parents. As the old saying goes, you are old at the age of three and old at the age of five.
Don't think that children at this time don't know anything. This age is an important stage for children to know the world. Children at this time are natural observers and scientists.
As parents, if they watch TV, play mobile phones and play games at home every day, their children will also rely on TV and ipad, and their cognitive ability, observation ability, curiosity, imagination and creativity will be stifled.
In this respect, I think the best model parents are Li and Faye Wong.
As a child with congenital cleft lip, Li Yan is as confident, generous and talented as any normal child. Many people may say it is because she has such a good background. I didn't know that as a star parent, Li Zhen parents spend more time with their children than ordinary parents.
When netizens were climbing the mountain in Faye Li's home, Lu Yu took a picture of this scene and posted it online with various tools and a thick compendium of materia medica.
Many people exclaim that this is how diva stars raise their children.
Li said that since Li Yan was over one year old, he began to take her to climb mountains. When it snows, her height is almost as high as the thatch on the mountain. By the time she was four or five years old, she had been able to complete the 10 km mountain road independently.
If you want to teach your child independence, self-confidence and optimism, you might as well take her to climb the mountain.
If you want children to have aesthetic power, creativity and sensibility, you might as well look at more famous paintings and see the real nature.
How can a child who has never seen a field know where three meals a day come from and how can he know how to cherish food?
A successful parent is not what kind of material conditions he can provide for his children, but what he really does is to accompany his children to experience and know the world and let them grow up from nature.
In real life, all the high-level parents I know attach great importance to companionship and experience. Because they know that interest is not the best teacher, but experience is the best teacher.
It is better to tell it a hundred times than to experience it once. Watching cartoons a hundred times is better than experiencing them once.
For children of a few years old, parents are the world.
Don't let your mobile phone become a cold barrier between you and your children.