First, now the children are facing an epidemic, and they don't start school or go out. He can understand, but it is not easy to cooperate! Children are at the age of being playful and active. Suddenly, they are bound in the room and really need to adapt!

Second, children's self-control ability is relatively poor. Faced with control, they can't go out to play, so they look for games and mobile phones. Some parents think it's better than crying in the house, so they let it go. But as a person, he also has a positive side in his heart, and he is still uneasy in the face of wasted life. Such contradictory psychology is easy to make children feel anxious.

Third, in the face of online teaching, many children are uncomfortable and rejected, or some children have changed from curiosity at the beginning to numbness and boredom now, and there have been many situations in which they can't learn, and their left ears listen to their right ears, which also makes them very confused, at a loss, and even hate themselves and lose confidence in learning. At this time, if there is a teacher to enlighten them, everything will be fine and go back to the past.

Fourth, sharpening the knife does not mistake the woodcutter. A good attitude and proper methods are only good for the child, so it is necessary to prescribe the right medicine according to the child's situation. A good medicine will make children refreshed, happy and regain self-confidence.

Of course, psychological education should be targeted, inspiring and inspiring, and it should be started at the right time, not too frequently, otherwise the effect will be discounted.

Actually, I don't think it's necessary to take a heart class. Parents and children are anxious because they have different positions in class and playing games. Parents are reflected in learning, and children are reflected in playing. So how do you relate these two opposing problems?

Because each level of the game is very short, as long as it passes, there will be praise and rewards, which will make children feel more fulfilled.

What about reality? In the face of parents' quarrels, scolding, beating and belittling, children are full of fear and lack of self-confidence.

At this stage, parents should think about it. Since you can't change your child, change yourself. You can give your children more encouragement and even give them some rewards.

After class, I will play chess, exercise and chat with my children. Divert the child's attention, try to make him less exposed to games and stick to it for a while.

Some parents and students are worried about online classes, but I don't think it is necessary to take psychological education classes. As long as we step back, nothing will happen.

First of all, find out the reasons why parents and children are suffering around online classes.

Parents want their children to study hard in the online class, and the children have done as required. Everyone is happy and not painful; Parents want their children to study, children play games, but they don't study, and parents are very painful; Children are forced by their parents to study and are not allowed to play their favorite games, which makes them very painful. This kind of torture is quite painful for both parents and children. It is the inevitable product of the irreconcilable contradiction that children want to play games and parents want their children to stop playing online.

Second, the solution.

When we know the reason, it will be easy to solve it without psychological education. Parents should not force their children to listen to online classes, but let their hearts go. He can play games if he wants, but for the sake of his eyes, he should limit his time. Let's take a step back and see if it's vast. Is online class important? A little bit. But relative to children's physical and mental health, family harmony, the affection between parents and children, what is the lack of knowledge in online classroom? Think about it, is it necessary to make a series of relationships at home so tense?

Finally, it is not a digression.

Children's self-discipline can't be cultivated overnight, and it hasn't appeared in online classes, but parents don't care much. If you don't want to take online classes, you can take less classes; But the game should also be moderate, you can read some extracurricular books, and it is also learning and accumulation. If the two sides compromise a little and take a step back, they will not suffer or be anxious.

After returning to school, the knowledge of online classes has a learning atmosphere, and with the face-to-face supervision of teachers, children can make up some with their heart. More importantly, we may have to make up for lost time, don't worry.

In short, as long as the online class is underestimated, the problem will be solved, and there is no need for psychological counseling at all!

Online classroom live broadcast for a week, the feeling effect far exceeds expectations. The rapid development of national infrastructure and science and technology really impressed me, which was unimaginable with the support of such a large-scale transportation in the past. It is not necessarily right to share my personal feelings with you.

First of all, talk about the benefits of online teaching, such as:

1. The course is rich in content and has a large carrying capacity.

2. Live broadcast is rich in forms

3. High participation rate and attendance rate

4. Full of learning motivation

5. There are various ways of interaction.

Let's talk about the shortcomings and look forward to improvement.

1. Students should strengthen self-control in their studies.

2. Online learning habits need to be cultivated.

3. The learning effect will be tested by time.

4. The hardware conditions for learning are expected to be further improved.

5. The sense of presence is not as good as that of traditional teachers.

6. The family burden is heavy.

Many parents and students suffer from webcasting. Is it necessary to take a psychological education class? In my opinion, there is no need to take psychological education classes, just understand why parents and children should take online classes!

I believe that children must be very excited and active when they first start online learning. However, after a few classes, children will feel bored. There is no learning atmosphere in the school, and no classmates can communicate with them. It's boring to watch the teacher in the video in class. You can't ask the teacher if you have any questions you can't answer. Many parents can't do it. Coupled with more homework, parents have been worried, increasing the psychological burden of children. Another point is that I am more casual at home and always want to play mobile phones and games.

Parents' pain comes from their children. At home, when they see that their children don't take online classes seriously, they will be anxious, for fear that their children will fall behind in their studies and can't keep up with their learning progress. Moreover, parents should keep an eye on their children's online classes, take homework, check homework, upload homework, and accompany their children to get up early in the morning to study. There are also families with two children who are simply too busy and overwhelmed. It's okay for children to be obedient, and they are afraid that children will not listen, don't go to class online well, and always think about games.

Children will definitely be more casual at home than at school. After all, it is reasonable to be playful without the learning atmosphere of the school. Parents should also understand their children, don't give themselves too much psychological pressure, make a reasonable study plan for their children, and combine work and rest. As long as they finish their homework and class carefully, it is ok to play for a while.

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Just get used to it. To take a step back, if it turns out that online classroom has been the main teaching method for a long time, then it is also a kind of pain if students suddenly turn to face-to-face classroom. Personal opinion, for reference only.

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But it should be:

Before family planning, children in ordinary families only care about life and don't care about raising.

After family planning, children become precious pets. Family planning 10 for more than 20 years, there is a terrible saying that we have raised a group of emperors, grandchildren and grandfathers.

Writer Bi Shumin stood up and said: If a hen only lets her lay an egg all her life, then it is not too much to love this egg.

Today, several generations, exquisitely raised and pampered, 456 adults are around their children, and they can't manage to grow into children. You must follow the child's temper. If he wants to play with his mobile phone, he has to give it to him. If you don't give him a mobile phone, you will lose your temper, even abandon your reason, go up and beat your parents, or jump off a building in a fit of pique. Squeeze threats against parents.

Didn't we raise our children from childhood?

There is also a cartoon that says well that all the certificates in the world must be tested, and only parents can go on the road without taking the test. This is the most terrible thing in the world.

How did our tortured relationship with our children form?

If my child is in junior high school now, will our relationship be saved?

I think I have answered this question many times. Sometimes I really don't want to elaborate.

1. Give parents the love they deserve, take responsibility and establish prestige.

Parents' centripetal force comes from three aspects: love, justice and prestige.

Before the child 1 year old, it is easiest to cultivate centripetal force, that is, dependence on you. Miss this best opportunity, or before 12.

Professor Li Meijin: Please take good care of your child before 1 year old, say no to your child before 6 years old, and pay attention to psychological support before 12 years old.

During the attachment period, what children need most is the company of their parents.

Psychologists did an interesting experiment, putting the little orangutan in a big room. There are two iron shelves in the room, one is bare without any decorations; Another iron shelf is covered with flannelette, which looks like a female orangutan, with food and playthings on the ground.

Then, observe whether the little orangutan eats or not. Is it fun? Or a female orangutan? It turned out that the little orangutan screamed in fear in the face of a strange room, then climbed up the simulated female orangutan frame and hugged it tightly.

It only comes down when it is hungry. After eating, it will quickly get up and hug the furry female orangutan.

This experiment proves that young people need attachment to caregivers more than toys.

When a child is one year old, every time a familiar face appears, he is hugged and stroked by a familiar caregiver, and the restless baby can immediately calm down; This attachment and security are often satisfied, and the baby will feel happy and relaxed. On the contrary, the baby will be restless.

Therefore, experts suggest that 1-2 fixed caregivers should be guaranteed for infants under 3 years old (especially1year old), instead of constantly changing caregivers.

Therefore, it is suggested that all young people who are about to embark on the road of parenthood should understand that when preparing for pregnancy and raising children, they must be psychologically prepared, and they should take care of their children themselves in the first year after their birth, no matter how hard it is! Don't let your children leave you, especially in the first year!

Of course, attachment always exists before the child 12 years old. Attachment is inversely proportional to age, and the younger the child, the more important it is.

Summary: When children are young, they are most familiar with their mothers' feelings. The characteristics of mother's life, even the characteristics of heartbeat, and the breath of mother are all a comfort to children. This is the so-called mother-child connection.

Children have natural dependence and trust on their mothers.

Attention should be paid to let children distinguish between right and wrong from an early age and establish the concept of right and wrong. If it is combined with justice and takes care of children, it is good for children and themselves.

If the child did not establish the concept of right and wrong when he was a child and did not develop good moral character: he did not know how to treat others and himself; What should I do to my parents and myself? How to study and study? What about spending money? Should we control our desires?

If these right and wrong problems cannot be solved. Then the back will definitely become unmanageable. So, when the child is young, tell him how it can be right and how it can be wrong.

After all, we annoying children are the result of our training. This is heartless. But the truth is.

Then, at this point, our authority is at stake. Our unrequited and selfless love is just a cancer. Some parents are reluctant to admit it. But it's not true. Some children will become a knife to torture their parents when they grow up.

Actually, this is normal. Every child will go crazy at the age when he should grow up.

The key is how long do we let him grow?

2. What should I do if I lose my authority over my children today?

The best way is to get it back.

Then we should love, take responsibility and struggle.

Naughty children will thank their parents who once competed with them in the future.

If you give up, you will regret it.

If the child is reading, he must read. Almost all teachers and books are helping you to be a filial child.

This is for sure, don't doubt it.

Don't let children only see money. If that's the case, your children won't see you if you have no money in the future.

Mercenary people are not good for family and society.

What if some parents say they can't manage it?

Now that the child is still young, you care about the money he spends on food and clothing. You said you couldn't care about him. What about the future?

Mastering the economic lifeline is a part of power and authority.

Be hard on yourself and your children.

If your fence is not strong, you can't keep the children in the wind.

Work hard, earn money and read some books. If you can't stand it, just dress up, or download the audio of the lecture from your mobile phone and listen to it. Don't always watch and play with your mobile phone, set an example for your child.

Working hard is for this half-life, and taking care of children is for the second half-life.

Put forward clear requirements for children's learning. Not too high. It can be a little lower. Let children have a sense of accomplishment and make better choices.

Don't always compare your child with his inferior classmates. Don't compare children with others.

According to children's intelligence, put forward requirements for children's learning level. Have a goal and a bottom line. Don't force the child, but also let her jump and eat peaches.

Insist on accompanying children to do their homework.

This companion doesn't do his homework, so you have to sit there and do nothing. Don't form this habit.

Children don't do their homework well when they are very young. Can you ask him if he has any difficulties in his homework and needs help? If it helps, how long will it take to finish? Then help, then give the time to the child and let him finish it independently. You just collect your homework.

If you don't know the children's problems, you can read and write completely. Children who don't write carefully can hardly study hard.

Be sure to show your goals and requirements unswervingly.

If you can't reach it, really give him a punishment.

What children can know is cultivated by their parents when they were young.

If so, children will form habits, and the older you are, the more you will save energy. It's like training a group of good horses without whipping them yourself. Just like lighting a fire, the fire of life will burn more and more brightly after it is lit.

3. I also hope that enthusiastic parents and friends have excellent teaching methods to discuss here, so that more people can benefit. Let us all have a chance to learn.

Some parents are really resourceful, more resourceful than experts.

In short, this torture has to continue to torture each other. Until the running-in is good:

I remember a poem saying:

Parents can also copy this sentence:

I think so, too. Today, I called the parents of a student who didn't hand in his homework or attend class. As a result, the father's phone rang and no one answered; On the phone of the child's mother, I heard that "this number does not exist." Helpless, I told the children about the situation in the parent group WeChat, and the result did not reply. Later, the class teacher called me and said that the child was bored with the computer all day because of online classes. So I ran away. Therefore, psychological nursing and psychological class intervention are still needed in special periods.

It's not necessary. Everything has to get used to it, and so does the live broadcast. Parents are anxious about their children's ability to receive live broadcasts and feel that their children are not at ease in going to school under the teacher's eyes. In fact, whether a child can adapt to the live broadcast depends on his self-discipline.

Like home isolation, it was hard at first, but now it's all adapted. Children do well in online classes and perform well. Just urge them to play games properly. If your child's grades are poor and his eyes are not seriously left in online class, then you should keep an eye on it, otherwise your child's study will fall behind more and more, and sometimes you will be very worried! Now suffer and be responsible for the children! Children are anxious, communicate with them more, it will be fine! There is no need to take psychological education classes now!