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Can "humiliating" education really ruin a child's life?
Can "humiliating" education really ruin a child's life?

The answer is yes, and a lot of facts have proved it.

Children go through several stages: family education, school education and social education.

In children's enlightenment and primary school, children are in the most critical period of growth and development, and it is also the initial period of understanding the world. Family education accounts for a large proportion, and children need the care, love, companionship and enlightenment of their parents. Parents play a key role in the healthy development of children's body and mind.

In the middle school stage, the proportion of school education is greater than that of family education, and children mainly study at school and spend more time.

So what is "humiliating" education?

Most of the reasons are that children's academic performance is not ideal, and they do not meet the expectations of parents or teachers, which leads parents or teachers to become angry from embarrassment, abuse, criticize, verbally attack or physically hurt their children, causing serious mental and psychological trauma to their children and bringing serious consequences to their growth, development and cognition.

There are also some children who made some mistakes because they did something they shouldn't have done, which caused humiliation and abuse from parents and teachers.

Because children don't study well or make some mistakes, parents and teachers don't adopt positive, reasonable and positive educational methods, and they don't care about their children from the perspective of caring for them, so children will have feelings of resistance and confrontation.

No matter how small a child is, it is also an independent individual. He needs equal treatment, equal communication and exchange, more care, love and guidance from his parents, and more inculcation and training from his teachers.

After the child is humiliated, his cognition will be biased, and there will be resistance and confrontation in his heart. They will no longer accept the advice and advice of their parents and teachers. They will not study hard and will not pay attention to the ideas of their parents and teachers. Some will give up on themselves, some will collude with some bad children in society, and some will do things that hurt families, society and others.

I hope that parents and teachers will give positive and reasonable education in the process of children's growth and development, and don't ruin their lives because they can't enjoy themselves for a while.