By the time he came back, the child had forgotten his father's words and began to throw things in the car again. At this time, my father transferred the photos he had just taken and told the story just now. The child stopped littering as soon as he remembered. Father took the opportunity to say, "If there is garbage in the car, put it in the bag first, and then throw it into the trash can after getting off the bus." The child nodded happily.
The Spring Festival holiday passed quickly. Before leaving, my father specially told the old man to tell them all the children's bad habits. When it happened that day, he said that the old man saw that his son's education had a good effect and was very supportive.
Compared with cities, the environment in rural areas is still worse, and people do not pay attention to it. The child's grandmother doesn't think there is anything wrong with littering. Influenced by the environment, the child soon forgot his father's teaching and returned to his old bad habits. After my father knew about it, he thought about it and finally got what he wanted. He built an online photo album, uploaded all the photos he took when he went home during the Spring Festival, and then taught his old mother a trick.
Parents miss their children, so children don't miss their parents! Not long after, the child opened the photo album, looked at the photos and happily recalled the happy time with his parents. Then grandma came over and looked at the photo album with the children. They talked about the scene while watching. When I saw my father take a picture of my child throwing candied haws into the trash can, my grandmother immediately said, "Remember this picture? Dad took this photo to praise you for not littering. You dropped food on the table again today, and the ground was covered with oil. You almost fell yourself! "
Hearing this, the child blushed. He felt that he should not forget his father's teaching, nor should he let his grandmother work hard to clean up the oil on the ground. Although the child didn't say anything, grandma had seen his determination. Sure enough, the child never threw anything again.
It can be seen from this story that correcting children's bad habits can't be done once or twice, especially some stubborn bad habits, which need repeated teaching from family members. For parents who can only see their children once a year, it is impossible to educate their children by going home only during the Spring Festival. Parents must be good at playing indirect roles such as good memories and the guidance of the elderly. Online photo albums well reflect the indirect effect, which is much more direct than constantly calling home and nagging the same words in children's ears. Children will be upset if they talk too much, but if they concentrate their memories in carefully designed photos, they will have a silent enlightenment. Under the correct guidance of the elderly, children will make up their minds to correct their stubborn bad habits.
The combination of direct action and indirect action can make parents who are not around their children achieve the maximum effect of "remote control" parenting education. Through video chat, online photo albums and the correct guidance of the elderly, distance is no longer an obstacle to parenting education. Parents can still shoulder the main responsibility of educating their children and cultivate their excellent character. The new way of communication can also help children master the computer, network knowledge and application technology that modern life and office depend on as soon as possible. Therefore, even if the children are not around, parents don't have to worry too much about the old people spoiling their children. As long as parents are good at using modern educational means, they can greatly eliminate the harm caused by intergenerational education and give children excellent character.