It can be seen how important a person's self-confidence is. Without self-confidence, it is easy to be suspicious and alert to the environment. In the process of children's growth, parents' education will deeply affect their behavior when they grow up. Teaching children to be confident and brave is the spiritual source of children's continuous release of potential.
1, close contact with children.
For example, talk about their respective studies, work and work; Anecdotes and difficulties in the class, let the whole family share the joys and sorrows, and participate in game activities with children. In this way, children will become more and more cheerful and lively, learn to treat people, learn to communicate with others, and make their lives full of confidence and courage.
2. Increase children's successful experience.
The condition of cultivating children's self-confidence is to let children get successful experiences, and too many failed experiences often make children doubt their abilities. For younger children, they lack life experience and life experience, have not experienced the ups and downs of life, have not been tempered by life, lack toughness, and often suffer from setbacks. Too many failures can easily destroy their good hopes for cattle work and lead them to establish the image of losers in their hearts. For those children with poor self-image and learning difficulties, we should increase their successful experience.
3. Warm family atmosphere.
A warm family atmosphere will make children confident, bold and more relaxed. Because if a child is scolded by his parents all his childhood, it is difficult to appreciate the joy of success. Over time, he always felt that he couldn't do anything well, and gradually began to doubt his ability, forming a self-evaluation system of inferiority. Therefore, allowing children to make mistakes is the minimum tolerance that every parent should have.
It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish.
If parents always care about their children and don't let them do anything by themselves, they will never grow up. Parents don't want anything to be arranged by the Ministry. On the contrary, children rarely have the opportunity to show their talents, and they will feel the pride brought by success. Let the children do it and guide them how to walk, which not only cultivates their self-confidence but also their ability. At the same time, take children to neighbors, relatives and friends' homes, and let them try cooperation, friendship and success in contact with others, play, games and communication with peers, thus enhancing self-confidence and eliminating inferiority complex.
5. Set a good example for children.
Inferiority is an acquired emotion. If parents always say "I can't do it", children will not only imitate their parents' attitudes, but also think; "Parents can't do it, and I can't do it." Therefore, parents are fearless in the face of difficulties and strive to overcome them in order to cultivate the confidence and self-esteem of the next generation.
When children are young, you can show them the following picture books and teach them to be confident and brave!
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