Keywords kindergarten; Take good care of
With the increase of more and more only children, they are more and more spoiled and gradually develop bad habits such as not caring about others and being self-centered. Therefore, as the first teacher, parents and kindergarten teachers should seize the opportunity to cultivate a series of caring behaviors for their children, so as to improve their bad habits and lay a good foundation for their future. First, "fun"-the spark of love
Interest is the best teacher in children's study. Under the guidance of interest, children will also be infected and participate in activities.
(1) Set an example of love and launch a "good baby"
The class culture of kindergarten has played a catalytic role. Therefore, we should build kindergarten classes into a caring atmosphere. Here, we can hold a "Love Baby" activity, so that every child's parents can record their children's filial deeds at home and post their photos and records at the door of the classroom as an example. After the activity, many parents feel that their children like to help others at home and learn to take the initiative to care for others. For children with outstanding performance, they can also be used as "angels of love" to greet classmates, teachers and parents. Then do an appraisal once a week. In such an environment, children's awareness of caring for others is constantly increasing, and care is gradually taking root in children's hearts.
(B) enhance the awareness of care and create a "situational domain."
Children's nature is to like games, and we can let them open up a paradise of their own by creating scenes. In this case, children can become doctors, teachers and imitate their parents. In the game, children are constantly choosing roles and slowly experiencing different emotions. Children are gradually adjusting their behavior and learning how to express concern. In children's study materials, there are many stories about caring, such as picture descriptions and children's songs. Then, through the guidance and participation of teachers, children can have a further understanding of caring and receive caring education. For example, this type of teaching material, Skills of Mom and Dad, can let children take the images of mom and dad in the story as an example to realize the fun brought by caring, and can also let children realize the hard-won love, upbringing and hard work of their parents, and educate children to gradually understand how to be considerate of their parents and share some daily housework for them. Second, "help"-the pleasure of love
(A) send a blessing of love in the festival.
On the Double Ninth Festival, we organize kindergarten children to bring food, books, fruits and so on. Go to the nursing home to spend the holidays with grandparents and perform wonderful programs for them. In the laughter of the children, the old people also felt the love of the children. One of them, Xiaoyu, saw an old man locked in bed and unable to move freely, so he chose a big orange, peeled a petal, slowly fed it to the old man's mouth and said, "Grandpa, please eat an orange." Another child named Xiaolong distributed the collected books to his grandparents (everyone sang, danced and played games around them). Children laugh with grandparents, and children gradually understand the fun that caring brings to them.
(2) the power to send love when it is difficult.
When difficulties come, there is always a force that makes people move. This is called selfless dedication-love. For example, teachers lead children to the hospital to visit sick children. See the pain they suffer because of treatment. The children donated their lucky money and pocket money at the first time, offering their love and cheering for them, hoping that they will get better soon. In addition, during the Mid-Autumn Festival, we organized students to hand-deliver their own gifts (such as comic books, pencils, pencil boxes, toys, etc.). ).) Give it to Huainan Kindergarten, a child who helps kindergartens in pairs. In the hand-in-hand activities in urban and rural areas, children are also proud of their actions. Winter is coming, donate some clothes and bedding; When the new year comes, donating some books can bring them surprises again and again.
Third, "family education together"-the resultant force of love
If children are compared to a car, then kindergartens and families are the tires of the car. Only by rotating in the same direction can the car move forward smoothly and quickly. Therefore, it is necessary for teachers to keep close contact with parents in daily teaching, reach an ideological consensus and coordinate children's educational methods. This is the guarantee to consolidate and cultivate children's love.
(a) Festivals-let children learn to be grateful.
While celebrating the arrival of the festival, we also launched a series of caring and educational activities. For example, on March 8th, we will carry out educational activities to love our mothers and grandmothers. Some time before the festival, the teacher introduced the origin and date of the festival to the children, and let them know the hard work of their mothers and grandmothers at home, from which they sprouted the feelings of loving their mothers and respecting their grandmothers. Then, I make a small gift for my mother and grandmother. During the festival, the children's mothers were invited to participate in the celebration activities of the kindergarten, and at the end of the program, they all said "Mom, you have worked hard". Let children understand the importance of respecting their elders in festivals, and also understand that feelings need practical action. Choosing holidays is a good opportunity to cultivate love. We also ask children to do housework for their parents during breaks. For example: folding quilts, cleaning tables, stools and so on. Birthdays of the elderly, parents and children are of great significance in the family. It is a good opportunity for parents and myself to rely on birthdays to let their children know how to repay their debts.
(2) Life-children are polite.
In the life circle outside school, parents' relatives and friends, their children, colleagues at work, etc. Will become the object of children's communication. Therefore, parents' words and deeds when receiving relatives and friends have become the objects of children's imitation. Parents should take the lead in setting an example, actively encourage their children to communicate politely with others, and express their inner gratitude to those who have helped them; I am deeply sorry for causing some trouble to others. In addition, in the face of police uncles, nurses and aunts, children should also be made aware of their hard work and importance to themselves, let them know how to respect them, and pay attention to civilized language when speaking.
In short, love is hidden in the life around children. Any education that nurtures people and minds is not achieved overnight, but the natural result of persistent edification and education, and caring education is no exception. Therefore, we should seize this critical period of caring education for young children, take kindergartens and families as the educational environment for young children, and achieve the ideal educational effect of "moistening things quietly" and "naturally".