The disadvantage of intergenerational education is that children need our serious education, but many parents leave their children with grandparents because they have to go to work. This kind of education has many shortcomings. Then I'll show you more about the disadvantages of intergenerational education.
Disadvantages of intergenerational education 1 1. Spoiling children is easy to cultivate "greenhouse flowers" Children are their own pride. For grandparents, grandchildren are the apple of their eye. They are afraid of falling into their mouths and palms. This meticulous care can easily cultivate "greenhouse flowers"! This kind of teaching makes you know that the way of education is easy for children to gradually lose their self-care ability and their adaptability is weak and delicate. Grandparents often meet their grandchildren's demands unconditionally, which will affect their overbearing and willful character.
2. Old ideas are passed down from generation to generation. There is a long time between the age when grandparents live and the age when babies live. Although grandparents have rich life experience, many of their ideas are out of touch with the development of modern society. In the intergenerational education, grandparents will inevitably bring their old ideas to the baby education, and the lifestyle and behavior habits of some elderly people may be subtly passed on to the baby. Some grandparents even have superstitious ideas, which is even more unfavorable to children's values.
3. Replace science with experience. Old people have rich life experience, which may be incorrect, but in the process of intergenerational education, grandparents naturally brought their life experience to education. Due to the narrow knowledge of our predecessors, the educational concept can't keep up with the times, and the disadvantages of intergenerational education appear when "experience" collides with "science".
4. Children and parents are prone to emotional disorders. Babies who live with grandparents for a long time are more likely to have feelings with grandparents and have weaker emotional ties with their parents. In later life, once you leave your grandparents and parents, there may be emotional barriers.
5. The closed environment hinders children's physical and mental development. For many old people, grandchildren are untouchable, untouchable, and everything that may cause harm to the baby should be isolated. In fact, this educational concept is incorrect. The baby is at the age of exploring the world and developing creativity. The older generation should give their children proper stimulation. Children trained by this kind of intergenerational education often lack creativity, accept knowledge slowly and feel dull.
Disadvantages of intergenerational education 2 1. Obsolete concept: Grandparents' education years in intergenerational families are obviously lower than those of their parents, and their education concepts are outdated and backward. In close contact with children, grandparents' ideas will be inadvertently spread to children, while some grandparents will unconsciously impart many feudal superstitions to children because of their low culture and old ideas, which invisibly increases the difficulty for children to accept new ideas and knowledge.
2, it is easy to ignore the growth needs of children: grandparents are not afraid of children falling, or afraid of problems when children play, conservative thinking. It is believed that as long as children don't knock or touch, they don't understand their nature of playing sports and their age and physiological characteristics, which hinders their normal sports and development.
3. It is easy to spoil children. Most grandparents often have the idea that they didn't take good care of their children because of the poor living and working conditions when they were young, but compensated for more love for their grandchildren, leading to excessive doting on their children.
4. It has a great influence on children's personality development. Parenting in different generations may lead to psychological variation of children, resulting in some psychological problems, such as psychological aging, social phobia, eccentric personality, psychological fragility and so on.
It is easy to cause emotional estrangement between children and parents. Children are separated from their parents for a long time, lacking proper communication and exchange, and the distance between space and time will also make the psychological distance between them farther and farther.