There must be a lot of feelings after watching a film and television work. It's time to take time to write. So can it really be written? The following are my parents' opinions on family education (5 selected articles). Welcome to read, I hope you will like it.
Parents' feedback on family education 1 After listening to President Wu's lecture on family education, I feel that I have benefited a lot. In particular, one example impressed me deeply.
President Wu said that when the power engineering team set up cables in the deep mountains, it was extremely inconvenient to pull the cables from a mountain ridge to the opposite side because of the deep and dangerous ditch. Smart construction workers operate like this: first fly the kite and let it land on the opposite ridge. Then, gradually thicken the "kite line". When the kite string is thick enough to bear the weight of the cable, the cable is finally pulled smoothly.
This ingenious method is amazing, and its process is more intriguing. Imagine: If there is no ingenious process of "the kite line gradually thickens", can the thin kite line successfully pull the cable? Everyone knows that, of course not!
However, in the process of educating children, especially in the process of changing the poor students, many teachers and parents just ignore the ingenious process of "making the kite line thicker gradually", and the result is naturally counterproductive.
This reminds me of some of my own practices.
When I took this job for the first time, most of my classmates were not enthusiastic about learning, and more than half of the boys didn't hand in their homework for a long time ... I started by organizing students to run the relay race every morning to cultivate students' awareness of being the first. This awareness has been transferred to all aspects of study and life, and the class style has gradually improved. In view of the fact that students don't like learning, I will start with reading story books to make students love reading and learning. ...
In short, the solution is always more difficult than the reality. The premise is to pay enough love and patience.
Parents' Views on Family Education On Thursday, they were invited to attend a special lecture on family education given by Director Du of xx Primary School in xx County. Teacher Du elaborated on children's study, daily behavior habits and safety education around the theme of "caring with heart and cultivating children's good habits".
After listening to Mr. Du's lecture, I felt a lot as a parent. My children have learned a lot during the period when they came to school, and they are much more sensible than before. This is due to the care and teaching of teachers and the training provided by the school to parents. Through the cooperation with teachers, I realized some ways to educate children:
1. Parents' words and deeds will directly affect children's thoughts and behaviors. In the future, we should teach our children by example, and everything is beneficial to their mental health.
2. Cultivate children's interest in learning. Guide children according to the teaching objectives of various subjects, so that children are willing to learn, be diligent in thinking, be good at observing, and develop good hygiene habits and safety awareness. Teach children to obey traffic rules seriously and improve their awareness of self-prevention. Live and study happily, be a good student with excellent academic performance, and lay a solid foundation for a successful life in the future.
3. Arrange the children's spare time reasonably, and give them other hobbies on the premise of completing their family studies, so that they can be a well-developed child.
4. Always keep in touch with the school, especially with the class teacher. For a first-year student, he does not have the ability of self-study, and he is educated by his personal hobbies. Children spend most of their time at school. Only by keeping in touch with the school at all times can we have a more comprehensive understanding of children, and through the efforts of schools and parents, children can get a happy education.
5. Create a good learning environment for children. A good learning environment is conducive to cultivating children's ability to learn and think independently; It is conducive to cultivating children's interest in reading and enhancing the communication between parents and children's hearts.
A person's fate depends on a person's personality, and the cultivation of perfect personality depends on the cultivation of good habits and good psychological quality and moral cultivation. But these things should attract our attention from an early age. Especially in the golden age of children's growth, many factors will affect children, mainly including family, school and society. Therefore, we should all work together to do a good job in children's education.
Thanks to the leaders and teachers of xx Primary School for providing such a platform for parents to improve their progress. It is precisely because of your unremitting efforts and selfless dedication that you sacrificed your precious rest time to provide us with such training lectures, which truly embodies the noble character of teachers' teaching and selfless dedication.
Parents' Reflection on Family Education 3 Children are the hope of the family and the future of society. It's human nature to aspire to success, and parents all over the world want their children to be admirable heroes. However, for one reason or another, the result is often counterproductive. We see too many parents beating their breasts and shaking their heads and sighing for their children's disappointing performance. Therefore, how to educate children, especially how to do a good job in early childhood education, has become a difficult problem for every parent. As a parent, I also encountered this problem. My mother and mother-in-law sometimes say, "I was alone with three or four children, and you were so busy." Are current parents "weak" or "difficult" for modern parents?
After listening to Zhang's lecture on family education in the county, my eyes suddenly opened up. His easy-to-understand and humorous language greatly touched my heart and led me out of the misunderstanding of family education. The nearly three-hour lecture made me realize:
First, good family education is a catalyst to optimize children's minds.
From infancy to infancy, with the growth of age, children will eventually enter the big society from the small family environment and get in touch with people and things outside the family. The truth, goodness, beauty, falsehood and ugliness in society come into children's field of vision from time to time, so it is not feasible for adults to adopt the method of isolation, because TV videos in the family will constantly reflect the reality of today's society from different angles, and the problems are both positive and negative.
Children, especially young children, lack the rational ability to distinguish right from wrong, but they have more acute sensory ability than adults. They are very sensitive to the intimate and terrible things happening around them, and this sensitivity is a good foundation for cultivating rational discrimination. As parents, we should make use of this extension to help children cultivate their discrimination and psychological endurance in social life, screen social information and optimize their young minds. If parents can focus on the characteristics of children's young age and weak acceptance in daily life, they can help children understand the right and wrong in society, let them feel the bright side of truth, goodness and beauty, and also recognize ugliness and meanness, which can help children enhance their sense of justice in promoting good and eliminating evil, thus resisting the erosion of ugliness and darkness on their hearts. Therefore, parents should do a good job in optimizing their children's thoughts, which will help stabilize society and the country.
Second, let children feel happy in life and study.
First of all, create a relaxed growth environment for children. Don't have too many bans to restrain children, don't complain and blame children, and don't abuse and punish children. Let children develop freely, show their nature and talents. Only in this way can they grow up carefree, live happily and feel the happiness of life.
Secondly, in the game, let the children fully show themselves. The happiest time for children is often the happiest time to have fun, but nowadays children seem to have lost the conditions and courage to play. They are worried about being scolded by their parents while playing. Then how can we make children have fun and have fun? First of all, we should have a childlike innocence, be able to stand in the children's position, go deep into their hearts, understand their thoughts and needs, give them the right to play, create interesting spaces and environments, let children release themselves and fully enjoy their happy childhood, and draw the sky blue and happy pink of childhood on their youth memoirs. Third, give children more choices in activities.
Young children are small, but they have complete personality and dignity. They are independent people and should have the right to choose themselves. They will put their enthusiasm into the things they choose, put all their enthusiasm into them, and enjoy happiness with a happy mood, so as to relax wholeheartedly and achieve the ultimate goal of the activity.
Finally, children are allowed to make "mistakes". The physical and mental characteristics of children determine that they learn and grow through constant attempts, and mistakes will inevitably be made in the attempts. Those "mistakes" are generally because children lack life experience and knowledge. We should carefully analyze and fully understand children's "mistakes", treat children with a scientific method and a tolerant attitude, and let them freely know, explore and create the world in a relaxed environment. While enjoying happiness, we should absorb the nourishment of knowledge, spend our glorious childhood easily and happily in the growing ring, and create a happy life in the future with a happy rhythm.
Third, pay attention to cultivating children's independent self-care ability.
(1) Learn to take care of yourself
Let the children clean up the toys and put them in a fixed place. Children don't manage their toys well. When they want to play with a toy and can't find it, parents should not find it for him easily, but take this opportunity to educate their children. Parents can ask their children, "You should finish collecting toys by yourself. Think about it. Where did you put this toy? " This will not only make children realize that they are doing their own things, but also cultivate their ability to take care of themselves independently.
(2), undertake simple housework
Although the child is young, he can do some housework within his power. For example, you can put bowls and chopsticks before meals; Wipe tables and chairs; Sweep the floor; Take out the garbage; Wash your little clothes. As parents, we must insist on letting our children do it themselves, and never do it for them.
(3) Self-help labor
Self-help labor is the labor that children take care of their own lives and keep the environment clean and tidy. As preschool children, the requirements of self-help labor are: learn to wash hands, face, brush teeth, wash feet, cut nails and so on. Can initially do a good job in personal hygiene; Can wear clothes and tie shoelaces; Learn to sharpen pencils and cover books; Be able to organize and take care of your school supplies.
In short, teaching children to learn to do their own things can not only cultivate their independence, but also cultivate their love for labor. This is of positive significance to the growth of young children.
Fourth, create a good growth environment for children and set a vivid example for them.
The so-called "those who are close to the ink are black" means that the environment has a great influence on people. Indeed, different environments will have different growth processes and will create different personalities.
/kloc-On the afternoon of May 3, I attended a family education symposium with the theme of "Improving the level of family education and paying more attention to the healthy growth of children" in Yangchuntang, Qingyuan, and I was deeply touched.
Schools can build such a good platform for parents and schools to exchange and learn. As parents of students, we are very grateful to the school! As a parent, I can only sum up the cultivation of children's good behavior habits in two words: helplessness. Children just listen to the teacher, but at home is different from at school. Why? Because of the sacred position of teachers in children's hearts, teachers love them most, teachers can do anything, and teachers do not compromise. Teachers are the best motivators for children. When children need praise and help, as parents of their first teachers, we are not as experienced and patient as school teachers. I think that when children enter school, our parents should also enter school, study with their children and graduate together. ...
According to the spirit of this report, combined with the good practices and shortcomings in our family education, after careful reflection, I will pay attention to the following aspects in future family education:
First, care for children and let them grow up in a happy environment.
Family environment is very important for children's growth. Because of the nature of our work, we can't spare much time to spend with our children. Children have been in full-time care at school since kindergarten, and now almost all of them are brought by grandma in the first grade. What's more, neither side pays attention to their emotional control. Being a typical loving father and strict mother at home, there are often some unnecessary quarrels and conflicts, which give children a feeling that their father can be presumptuous at home and lead to poor academic performance. This lesson is extremely profound and irreversible. The characteristic of education is irreversibility. In this regard, we must correct it in time. First of all, the two sides communicate with each other, understand each other, eliminate misunderstandings and spend more time with their children. If children want to thrive, they should create a happy environment, so that children can feel the warmth of home and the happiness with their parents.
Second, set an example and cultivate children's good conduct.
The first is that parents agree. Both husband and wife should be highly consistent in educational principles and concepts, and should not fight with each other, leaving their children at a loss. Secondly, we should form good living habits. Good habits benefit people for life.
Third, respect children and improve their good personality.
In the education of children, we should treat them as subjects with independent personality and respect them, and we should not do everything instead, let alone spoil them. When you encounter something, you should discuss it with your children, let them participate in family management, and learn to handle some basic affairs. Don't think that they can ignore their opinions just because they are young. This is not desirable. The core of people's mental health is self-esteem and self-confidence. As long as self-esteem and self-confidence are achieved, psychological problems rarely appear. If you don't take children seriously, you can't talk about cultivating children's self-esteem. Help children deal with interpersonal relationships. At this stage, children's interpersonal relationship is mainly partnership. Good peer relationship can make children get respect among peers and have a sense of belonging to love, which is very important to cultivate children's self-esteem and self-confidence. At the same time, it is necessary to cultivate children's modest personality, lower themselves and learn to be tolerant and harmonious.
Fourth, persevere and strengthen children's quality education.
We should strengthen self-reliance education. Let children learn to do their own things, establish the spirit of "suffering" from an early age, learn to take care of themselves, and understand the hardships of life. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to cope with setbacks from an early age. We can start with some small things, such as not rushing to agree to children's requirements and let them grow up in "adversity". It is necessary to cultivate children's broad interests and hobbies. This in itself is a manifestation of loving life, which can promote children's positive psychological development and is also an important way to improve their comprehensive quality. It is necessary to provide various conditions to cultivate children's interest, especially reading interest, select some books with profound thoughts, and cultivate children's habit of "deep reading".
Due to my limited professional knowledge, these experiences are superficial. I suggest that schools organize systematic lectures on family education on a regular basis through the platform of parent school, so as to improve the level of family education of parents as a whole and cooperate with the teaching work of schools to achieve coordinated and sustainable development.
Parents' views on family education. Children's education is the most concerned and confusing issue for parents. After listening to Professor Wang Renyuan's lecture today, I fully realized the importance of family education. Educating children should start with the education of parents and families. Parents should set an example and actively cultivate their children to form good habits from an early age. Children have strong plasticity, and childhood is the golden age of education. Grasping this important period is very important for a child and even a family. By listening to today's lecture, I have the following experiences:
First of all, parents should attach importance to family education.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children are most likely to imitate their parents' words and deeds. Only by organically combining family education with school education can they receive the best educational effect. Every five days in school, teachers consciously cultivate children's character, conduct, will and interests. And children are easy to accept and grow up. However, in the past two days on weekends, children are easily spoiled by their parents at home, and they have no regular study and life. After five days, they forget the good habits cultivated at school. Only when parents realize the importance of family education and take the initiative to do it well, can children grow up healthily, grow into towering trees that shelter from the wind and rain, and become the pillars of society.
Second, parents should set an example.
Children need to develop good study and life habits, which are most influenced by their parents. You told your children not to throw clothes about, but you left them on the sofa when you got home, and you kept asking them to tidy up their clothes. Will the children do as you say? Children are not allowed to watch TV and play games online, but when children are doing their homework, parents are staring at loud TV programs or sitting in front of the computer and playing all kinds of games selflessly. What do children think and how do they feel balanced? Therefore, parents should set an example and ask their children not to do it. First of all, they should not do it themselves. The best way is to accompany the children to do their homework, or when the children are doing their homework, parents can read books, newspapers and do some housework quietly, so that the children can feel that their parents are not at leisure when doing their homework, so that the children will have a sense of balance and be willing to do their homework.
Third, strengthen communication with children.
Parents should communicate with their children more, even if they are busy, they should spare some time to talk, chat and tell stories with their children. In parent-child communication, we should pay attention to scientific methods: First, we should be good at listening. Only by listening to children's hearts and understanding their thoughts and needs can we give them targeted care and help, and it will also make future communication easier. Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, children will be willing to talk to you, and parents can learn more about their inner world.
Fourth, learn to appreciate your children.
Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. Encourage and appreciate children more, and constantly cultivate their self-confidence, self-improvement, self-esteem and self-reliance. Appreciation is love for children. If our parents can find the advantages of their children with loving eyes and point out and correct their shortcomings in the right way, "You can do it" and "You are great", with the encouragement of their parents, many children will change and grow in happiness. Don't criticize a child just because he didn't get a high score in the first exam. Encourage him to say "He did well in the exam" and "He did well in the exam", help him analyze the reasons why he didn't do it right or well, find ways to do it, and don't be helpless when encountering such problems next time. Appreciating children will bring them happy motivation and upward self-confidence. The secret is that it removes the huge stone of inferiority that is pressing on the child's heart, so the child's potential erupts like a volcano.
Fifth, create a good learning environment for children.
Environment can easily change a person, especially a child. Some people say that children's brains are fertile soil, and weeds will grow if crops are not planted. This shows the importance of the environment to children's growth. Husband and wife love and family harmony will make children feel the existence of love and the warmth of home. The affection between parents and children is irreplaceable by any affection. Parents should cherish this affection. A harmonious family has a positive influence on children. Only when children live in a loving family will they have the interest and motivation to learn, and they will know how to love others and society. Parents should always read books and newspapers, so that children can feel that reading books and newspapers is a very happy thing. After a long time, children will naturally like to learn.
Children are the only parents. Parents have the responsibility and obligation to educate and train their children well. They don't want their children to make great achievements in the future. They just want their children to grow up healthily and happily, with self-confidence and self-improvement, independent personality, interest in learning, enthusiasm for life and love for others and society.
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