Don't let children lose at the starting line, just like putting a spell on their parents' heads. Most parents are anxious because their children just go to kindergarten, fearing that their children will have various crises because they don't work hard enough. It is this kind of educational deception and trap that not only deprives children of a happy childhood, but also makes parents miserable.

Faced with all kinds of educational scams, parents didn't realize it at all, but willingly entered them and became lambs to be slaughtered.

In education, the common "deception"

1, don't lose at the starting line

Many educational institutions always use the banner of "Don't let children lose at the starting line" to incite parents' emotions and anxiety. Once parents really stop to listen to the comments of every educational institution, their nervousness will be doubled instantly, and they will naturally fall into the scam set by educational institutions, so they will willingly open their wallets and pay not only money, but also their children's energy and time.

2. Many skills are not burdened.

Nowadays, many interest classes always tell you how excellent other people's children are under the banner of "skill is more important than quantity", but if your children don't sign up for several interest classes, they will be eliminated in the future competition.

After all, there are not a few children who become famous through hobbies. After parents know this situation, the idea of giving their children a happy childhood will be instantly stifled. Children will desperately go back and forth in various cram schools in addition to normal campus courses every day. Although I learned it properly, I never saw the smiling face of the child again.

3. If you play again, your heart will be scattered.

Whenever we meet children who have a good time on holiday, many people will say: if we play again, our hearts will be scattered. In fact, this statement has some truth.

However, if it is frequently announced in the mouth, it will definitely make children feel bored, and such an educational concept will also make children fall into the mood of being tired of learning. The breeding of this kind of emotion is not good for the education and skill development of the later children, but will only make them slaves to study.

4. Happy education

Many parents always indulge their children under the banner of "happy education" without any plans and plans, and the things that children like to do most are of course inextricably linked with "playing".

If there are no rules and Fiona Fang, children will lose their framework, which is likely to make them lose their rules in their later life and study, thus losing their competitiveness.

What principles should children's education follow?

1, there are rules, know how to advance and retreat.

A child is like a small tree. Only by pruning regularly can they become towering trees. In the process of children's education, rules are absolutely indispensable, such as filial piety to parents, independent study and good habits. These can't be ignored. Only by understanding the importance of rules can we know how to advance and retreat and become a good boy envied by everyone.

2. Positive and optimistic attitude

For every child, a positive and optimistic attitude is a valuable asset that cannot be ignored in their life, and it will play a vital role in the process of interpersonal communication and the struggle in life. It is very important for children's cultivation, but it can not be ignored for children's mental development.

A positive and optimistic attitude is largely influenced by daily life, especially by parents. Among many influencing factors, parents' influence is the most important and efficient.

Especially in the critical period of children's character formation, parents who often accompany their children will fully absorb the positive energy transmitted by their children, lay a good foundation and pave the way for their future character education and development, and make their children more outstanding and popular.

3. Keep your character and imagination.

Every child is a white picture, and in the process of education, parents are painters. Every measure of education will leave a deep impression on children's life.

But in many educational concepts, it is very important to keep children's personality and develop their imagination. As long as these two points can be achieved, even if the competition is fierce in the future, children will not be overwhelmed, because some of their own personalities and labels will not be ignored by others at all. Such a child is expected and envied by every parent.