First, the way of yelling will only make children feel scared. You know, if you educate your child by yelling, it will make your child feel scared inside. If children are afraid, it will become more difficult to educate them in the future. For children, they want to be close to their parents, instead of being scolded and yelled at by their parents. It is very angry to teach children the feelings conveyed by yelling, which will make them feel that their parents don't love them.
Some children may resist this way of education, but the way of resistance is not correct, and they may directly refute their parents or even treat them like parents. Then, the contradiction between the two will only intensify, and parents can't really educate their children in the future. This is not only bad for children, but also bad for their relationship. This will only make the child worse, or make his character feel inferior.
Second, the way to educate children in a low voice is to respect them. I believe that the original intention of parents is only to educate their children. So no matter which way we use, how to make children accept this is the most important thing, so we must pay attention to educating children. We can educate in a low voice. In other words, when we educate our children, we can talk to them in a friendly way instead of shouting. When you are angry, don't say anything when you think of it, which will be very sorry for both of you, especially when parents say these words calmly and want to make up for their children, but there is no way. Therefore, parents don't have to educate by yelling, but they can educate in a low voice, which is more acceptable to children.
When parents have a cordial conversation with their children, the children's emotions can also be alleviated, so that the communication between them can be more relaxed, parents can express their ideas well, and at the same time, children can listen. When children can listen to these words in their hearts, then education has a real role. At the same time, this way is to respect children and let them understand their parents' ideas. Whether it is communication between adults or between parents and children, we should learn to respect each other. The way of yelling is definitely disrespectful, but it may intensify contradictions, which must be noted.
Third, think with children's thoughts. Parents can also try to think from the child's point of view. After all, we used to be parents' children, so we can understand parents' thoughts at that time. As a child, we can understand children's thoughts better. When we can look at the problem from the perspective of children, this problem can really be solved.
The core of the problem may be nothing more than the child's mistake, or the communication between two people is not in place, resulting in contradictions. In this case, what's the use of yelling to educate children? Besides expressing our emotions, can we really ease the parent-child relationship? So at this time, our better way is to calm down, try to think with children's ideas, see through the essence of the problem, and then communicate with children.