In family education, parents should give more guidance and let their children grow up, instead of worrying too much about the consequences of their children. After children leave society, they are independent people. They have the responsibility and need their parents to guide them to grow up. We can't simply catch the child. After all, children will leave their parents' sight and start to contact and associate with others. The ultimate goal of education is to let independent individuals form ideas, have independent mental state, and have their own opinions and ways of doing things. Only well-educated people can be educated and have spiritual independence. But nowadays, parents always have a quick success and instant benefit mentality, and always think that paving a good life path for their children will surely succeed.

Whether the child is willing to cooperate with our parents' arrangement. In my opinion, it is also necessary for parents to teach their children to be independent and brave. As for whether the child is willing or not, it depends on the specific situation and the child's own personality and development level. At present, some parents always encounter the phenomenon that their children make mistakes. Every child is an angel and a hope, but parents often worry that their children will always encounter setbacks and will not meet good opportunities. How can a child grow up when everything is perfect? In fact, each of us is an independent individual, has our own values and judgments, and has our own personality and understanding. It is impossible to ask our children to be perfect, not to mention those problems that need to be solved independently in life. Parents are likely to feel anxious because of their children's mistakes and are not responsible for their children's future.

Therefore, parents do not need to worry that their children will make low-level mistakes, nor do they need to be discouraged by their children's mistakes, nor do they need their children to feel guilty because of their mistakes. If everything is all right, let the children solve this difficulty independently, let the children learn how to solve this problem, and let the children not be afraid of making mistakes. If they make mistakes, they will correct them with actions. I am an educator. In my opinion, it is very normal for children to make mistakes, but if they deliberately pursue perfection for their children, it is actually not conducive to their intellectual development. Let children learn not to be discouraged when they encounter difficulties in the process of growing up, and face them bravely, and gradually they will reflect the image of courage and independence in their children. Parents can also better understand their children's growth.