How to write a speech on family education 1 Parents should attach importance to family education.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children are most likely to imitate their parents' words and deeds. Only by organically combining family education with school education can they receive the best educational effect. Every five days in school, teachers consciously cultivate children's character, conduct, will and interests. And children are easy to accept and grow up. However, in the past two days on weekends, children are easily spoiled by their parents at home, and they have no regular study and life. After five days, they forget the good habits cultivated at school. Only when parents realize the importance of family education and take the initiative to do it well, can children grow up healthily, grow into towering trees that shelter from the wind and rain, and become the pillars of society.
Second, parents should set an example.
Children need to develop good study and life habits, which are most influenced by their parents. You told your children not to throw clothes about, but you left them on the sofa when you got home, and you kept asking them to tidy up their clothes. Will the children do as you say? Children are not allowed to watch TV and play games online, but when children are doing their homework, parents are staring at loud TV programs or sitting in front of the computer and playing all kinds of games selflessly. What do children think and how do they feel balanced? Therefore, parents should set an example and ask their children not to do it. First of all, they should not do it themselves. The best way is to accompany the children to do their homework, or when the children are doing their homework, parents can read books, newspapers and do some housework quietly, so that the children can feel that their parents are not at leisure when doing their homework, so that the children will have a sense of balance and be willing to do their homework.
Third, strengthen communication with children.
Parents should communicate with their children more, even if they are busy, they should spare some time to talk, chat and tell stories with their children. In parent-child communication, we should pay attention to scientific methods: First, we should be good at listening. Only by listening to children's hearts and understanding their thoughts and needs can we give them targeted care and help, and it will also make future communication easier. Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, children will be willing to talk to you, and parents can learn more about their inner world.
Fourth, learn to appreciate your children.
Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. Encourage and appreciate children more, and constantly cultivate their self-confidence, self-improvement, self-esteem and self-reliance. Appreciation is love for children. If our parents can find the advantages of their children with loving eyes and point out and correct their shortcomings in the right way, can you do it? ,? Are you great? With the encouragement of parents, many children change in happiness and grow up in happiness. Don't criticize a child just because he didn't get a high score in an exam, but encourage him to speak? Did you do well in the exam? 、? Did you do well in the exam? Help children analyze the reasons why they didn't do it right or well, find ways to do it, and don't be helpless when they encounter such problems next time. Appreciating children will bring them happy motivation and upward self-confidence. The secret is that it removes the huge stone of inferiority that is pressing on the child's heart, so the child's potential erupts like a volcano.
Fifth, create a good learning environment for children.
Environment can easily change a person, especially a child. Some people say that children's brains are fertile soil, and weeds will grow if crops are not planted. This shows the importance of the environment to children's growth. Husband and wife love and family harmony will make children feel the existence of love and the warmth of home. The affection between parents and children is irreplaceable by any affection. Parents should cherish this affection. A harmonious family has a positive influence on children. Only when children live in a loving family will they have the interest and motivation to learn, and they will know how to love others and society. Parents should always read books and newspapers, so that children can feel that reading books and newspapers is a very happy thing. After a long time, children will naturally like to learn.
Recently, through communication with parents, I found that many parents have some problems in their children's education. Combined with these problems, I put forward some suggestions for family education.
First, family education should be adhered to? Health first? .
Health refers not only to the absence of disease or illness, but also to a completely good physical, mental and social state. In other words, a healthy person should have a strong physique and an optimistic mental state, and be able to maintain a harmonious relationship with the social and natural environment in which he lives.
When educating children, we must see whether it is conducive to their physical health, mental health and social adaptation. Many parents have to cope with meals in order to let their children go to extra long classes. Compared with your child's health, which is more important, specialty or health? Some parents even let their children do exercise when they have a fever and an injection, instead of taking a good rest. Is children's health more important than academic performance? There are also many parents who, when educating their children, open their mouths and say, Look at him. Why are you so stupid? , or: You are my shame! ? Wait, these words are not good for children's mental health. Is it important for children's health or for us to release our emotions?
The other is good social adaptation. Many parents arrange their children's time very full in order to let them do more problems and learn more specialties, so that they have no time to play with their classmates and friends. We should consider it calmly. The ultimate goal of children's study is to make a living. If it becomes a learning machine, how can children talk about life? How to let children learn to get along and learn good social adaptation? These problems, when we arrange children's life and study, should be considered as a whole and adhere to health first.
Second, family education should be humanized.
It sounds bad to treat children as adults, but in fact, many parents really don't treat their children as human beings. When communicating with children, most parents show paternalism, so you should be condescending. Children are our wealth and an important part of our family. When dealing with family problems, we should consider children's feelings and listen to their opinions.
I once met a parent whose children were learning roller skating, because of the poor quality of roller skating, their own strength was small and their learning speed was slow. As soon as the mother's parents were in a hurry, they went over and kicked the child down. Is the child itself a tool for parents to save face? Do parents treat their children as human beings? We still have a child with us. Now in the third grade, parents let their children practice learning every day and rarely let them play. Looking at this child now, he is not only extremely athletic and short, but also has a young mind and can hardly communicate with children. I don't think this parent treats the child as a human being. At the school gate, I also saw a scene of a mother kicking her child step by step. The child obviously has something to say, but the parents don't give the child a chance and kick the child into school. I don't know whether this parent regards his child as a treasure or a thing, at least not like a person.
As parents, we really work hard, and sometimes our children will be disobedient, but we must try our best to restrain ourselves before getting angry and try to reason with our children in an equal tone. Children need respect as much as we do, because they are human beings! The child is herself, so don't pin all your parents' hopes on the child, because he will be very tired!
Third, family education cannot be blindly followed.
Many parents choose to follow blindly, learn dance and participate in TV performances in the development of their children's specialties. Let's go dancing, too Learn the violin and take the exam. Let's learn the violin, too In short, I see the radiant side of others and rarely consider the feelings of children.
Our children are one of the victims. Li Yixuan began to learn piano at the age of four and a half. Actually, she doesn't like it. I stubbornly believe that the piano is very useful for girls' temperament, so I insist on letting her practice. Li Yixuan likes painting very much. I didn't give her a chance to study because I didn't have time. It was not until I was six and a half years old that I signed up for a painting class at the repeated request of my children. There is also a child around me who likes painting very much, but her mother thinks that dancing can improve her child's temperament and has always insisted on letting her children learn. It's one thing that children don't like it, and the impact on their hearts caused by the blow in the learning process is probably irreparable. When rehearsing dance in the children's class, I saw that many children who had studied dance were not particularly outstanding. On the contrary, some movements are very uncoordinated. Should dancing be a compulsory course for girls? (And, of course, taekwondo for boys. When we choose our children's specialties, it is best to combine their own characteristics and hobbies, and never blindly follow them. Only with hobbies, our study will last and get better results.
In addition, many parents see some articles about family education, or posts in class, or hear other parents' teaching experience, and often feel good, so they quickly use these methods to do experiments for their children. These parents may forget that every child has his own characteristics, and it is his own child who hurts the most by adopting other people's methods. Every child has his own habits and must not blindly follow the educational methods. What we want to learn is a concept, a scientific concept of family education, and it is by no means the operation method of others.
Fourth, example is better than words in family education.
Every child is born without any shortcomings. Many shortcomings of children are mainly problems of family education. I really want to remind parents that when you reprimand, blame or complain about your child, think about what you have done first. Some parents complain that their children are unsociable and introverted, so do you spend much time with your children? Does the child have a favorite group? Have you created opportunities for children to integrate? Some parents complain that their children don't study hard. Are you serious when dealing with problems? Did you give serious guidance to your children when they were reading? Some parents complain that their children swear. Do you usually say it? Some parents complain that their children are unsanitary, so what do you usually do? When we calm down and think carefully, we will find that many problems are caused by parents, and many bad habits directly affect children's study and future life. So parents and friends really need to review their own problems. Habits are not formed in a day. If you want your children to be excellent, you must first be an excellent parent.
How to write a good speech on family education (1) Parents should set an example and be role models for their children, schools should actively guide them and both sides should work together.
We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are the best role models for children. Only when they do it themselves will the children follow suit. If you just preach and teach, but you can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the education in it won't work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't know how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example, which made him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, under the inculcation of the father and the school teacher, the child has not only made progress in his studies, but also made gratifying progress in other aspects, becoming a sensible and good child.
(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.
My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.
(3) Cultivate children's interest, interest is the best teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that it was ok to play and play new tricks, such as making slides. When you show them to other children, you will have a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English now. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested in learning, and says to his mother, There is a classmate in my class who speaks English very well, and I want to be like him? . I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I know my son's Chinese is not very good, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.
(4) Punish children appropriately, actively guide them and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. When we learned about it, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son and pointed out that it was wrong for him to hit me. The son also admitted his mistake. Now my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is quite fun.