Educating children is a very important thing, but if parents criticize or even start work, it will only be counterproductive. Psychological research shows that corporal punishment often leads to educational failure. This paper will discuss how to guide children to stimulate spiritual resonance from many aspects.

teach students in accordance with their aptitude

Educate children to "teach students in accordance with their aptitude". In front of children, no matter what his status is, we should respect him and educate him according to his personality, so as to resonate with the soul. Corporal punishment and beating and scolding are not the solution to the problem. Only by going deep into the child's heart can we really find a solution.

Clever guidance

Teaching children not to smoke or drink requires clever guidance. Let children understand the consequences of smoking, drinking and taking drugs from an early age, and realize that drinking and taking drugs are annoying when they see adults after drinking. Parents should not wait for their children to get drunk or find themselves stealing alcohol.

Good example

Parents should set a good example. If the father is an alcoholic, he should confess to his children: "I have this bad habit and I am addicted to alcohol, which is not good." I hope you don't have this problem.

Solve problems together

If children are addicted to smoking or drinking, parents should not blame them too much, but should work with their children to find out the reasons and solve the problems.

Appropriate independent space

Give children proper independent space. To solve children's psychological problems, parents should admit that their children have grown up, give them some satisfaction, and then talk to their children about the dangers of smoking and drinking equally. I'm sure the children will accept it easily.