Being alone at home is both scary and lonely.
The laughter of his companions outside, like a sweet lollipop, attracted him and made him want to eat.
Suddenly, he remembered those cartoon animals falling from the sky with umbrellas.
So he happily took out his mother's umbrella and climbed up the window of the house with both hands and feet.
Open the umbrella and "fly away" from the home on the fifth floor.
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After that, the boy who was rushed to the hospital suffered a whole body fracture.
His parents also regretted it and blamed him for not being alone at home.
Many netizens questioned why parents didn't open the security window on the fifth floor. Why not give children safety education and guidance at ordinary times?
At this time, I met a netizen in the comment area. There is also a 3-year-old child in her family who was told that all the animation performances were fake. After I was 4 years old, I realized that Santa Claus is also fake. My mother bought all the gifts he gave me.
The netizen's words surprised me.
It is necessary and normal to strictly educate children to stay away from dangerous goods such as water, electricity and high altitude.
However, telling children that cartoons are all false, bluntly saying that myths and legends are also false, killing children's imagination of beautiful things, killing children's expectations for the future, and biting children's childlike innocence as a mask is completely an act of cutting off food.
As parents, how should we do a good job in education and teach children to distinguish dangers while protecting their childlike innocence?
Most picture books and cartoons that protect childlike innocence and young children tell stories about animals they are familiar with.
Can animals talk? Of course not.
However, the children are not tired of this picture book and comic book.
You don't have to tell him that animals can't talk, and he can see it.
Picture books and animations about magic, like the rose fairy, need to tell the truth to children seriously.
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My second treasure likes to watch this cartoon for a while. I wonder how many wand toys I bought.
One day before going to bed, I told her the story of the picture book "We are not afraid of the cold". The protagonists are squirrels, hedgehogs and rabbits.
After repeating it three times, the little girl suddenly said to me seriously. "Mom, take a wand and turn me into a rabbit!"
I was going to get her wand toy, and she stopped me and said, "no, that's fake." I can't change it. "
Please find the real wand.
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I have a black face. Where can I find a real wand for her in this world? Or turn her into a rabbit's wand? Ah!
Seeing the child looking into my eyes, I brought her a wand toy and said, "honey, there is no magic in this world, but I can imagine it myself."
Have you ever seen rabbits in life talk? However, if we imagine it can talk and we speak for it, won't it become a rabbit? "
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Bauer raised his head excitedly, no longer caring about the magic of authenticity, and let me continue to play games with her.
In fact, children are not ignorant. There is no magic in this world.
However, she has a strong curiosity and expectation for this magic.
If our parents just say, "You are so stupid, where did you get the magic?" ? Deceive children.
Just as adults can't accept cruel facts, so can children.
Please encourage children to imagine and protect their inner curiosity.
The child will grow up. As they grow up, they naturally have the ability to discover and distinguish.
However, if you have imagination, they can explore more future worlds.
What is the definition of allowing imagination, making rules and guiding healthy development? Voltaire, a great writer, said, "Everything imaginable is essentially something in memory.
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You know, children are more imaginative than adults.
Because they have a lot of interesting things stored in their memories, but they don't have the troubles of adults.
Children's interests and dangers can be completely divorced from education.
A few years ago, there was a short story about learning the cartoon "Big Big Wolf Roasting Pleasant Goat". Many parents still remember the accident of tying their companions to a tree and burning them to death.
Network diagram: the scene of the incident
After the incident, everyone pointed the finger at the animator.
So after that, if dangerous actions appear in many animations, you must add "This is a dangerous action, don't imitate it".
For young illiterate children, this story is like a gobbledygook.
It is also impossible to rudely prohibit children from watching cartoons.
Therefore, our parents should not let their children watch cartoons by themselves, but must take time to watch them with their children and find dangerous plots in time.
It is necessary to tell children clearly that this is a very dangerous behavior and action, such as floating down from the air with an umbrella or diving directly to the other side. Imitation is strictly prohibited.
It creates imaginary boundaries for children, just like making rules in a game.
If you are worried that children won't remember, we should always repeat this danger warning in their ears.
Then, after the children firmly remember what their parents said, as Montessori, an education expert in the 20th century, said:
"What adults say to children, just like carved on marble, will always be engraved in his heart.
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Find childlike innocence and set an example. Last Children's Day, a happy party was held in Bauer's kindergarten.
That night, on the small stage, several lovely "little animals" happily discussed the details of the next "animal sports meeting" in the forest.
Exaggerated movements and lively animal calls made the parents and children in the audience laugh.
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At this time, there was a discordant voice. "It's boring.
Can animals say that? It's all a lie. I have no strength at all.
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Looking sideways, a 6-year-old boy frowned and looked impatiently at the stage. His mother watched her play with her mobile phone.
I suddenly fell in love with this child. In life, his parents will definitely tell their children as seriously as their original netizens. Don't believe in fairy tales. Don't trust comics. It's all a lie to children.
It is conceivable that when the boy grows up, the childlike interest in the child's heart will be farther and farther away from him, and there will be fewer and fewer things that can make him happy in his future life.
This reminds me of the writer Qian Zhongshu and my daughter Qian Yuan.
Qian Zhongshu likes to play with Qian Yuan since he was a child, and Qian Yuan also calls his father a "good friend".
Network diagram: Qian Yuan paints for his father.
Qian Yuan was terminally ill in hospital, and wanted to continue to write an interesting story about "Dad teased me" in his hospital bed, which was attached to his mother's manuscript of "The Three of us".
It can be seen that Qian Zhongshu's childlike innocence has a great influence on Qian Yuan's life.
Therefore, psychologists and parenting experts encourage and advocate parents and children to play role-playing games together.
Only when parents always have a child's heart can they have the imagination to have an "unrealistic" dialogue with their children and establish a good parent-child relationship.
End: I often take Bauer out for a walk at night and guide her to look up at the sky.
If you see the moon, ask Sister Moon to say hello. When you see the twinkling stars, you will ask me if I don't want to know the taste of "star candy".
Every time the child will be happy to do it, but asking questions is incredible.
When I asked you if you wanted to go to the "Yuezi House", the child said with a serious expression, "Mom, the Yuezi House is very high.
We can't go! "
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I encouraged her. "Now we can't go, but you are a thoughtful child. I believe you can take your mother to Sister Yue's house in the future.
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Bauer was very happy to hear that.
Jumped up and said to the moon, "Sister Moon, wait for me!" " "He shouted.
Imagination is the source of creativity and the only characteristic of children on the road to success in the future.
Feng Zikai said: "I believe that the heart of a child cannot be lost.
As long as we don't lose childlike innocence, family, society, country and the world will be warm, peaceful and happy.
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Dewey, a famous educator, once said: "Education is growth, and there is no other purpose except itself.
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It can be seen that childlike innocence education is to let parents and children always have childlike innocence, grow naturally, and be positive with their children, thus becoming better people.
How do you teach children to distinguish between dangerous plots and stories of gods (children)? Looking forward to your wonderful experience sharing!
Introduction: Kim Hee-Bauer is raising a baby mother born in the 1980s, with two children, and teaching by example.
Strive to be a beam of light that illuminates the child's growth path.
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