What are the ways of kindergarten education? Do you remember the way of education of the older generation? I feel panic when I think about it. Those words are deeply imprinted on your mind. It is said that parents are children's first teachers. Many parents still often educate their children with their own educational methods, which will not only harm their physical and mental health, but also affect their growth. What are the educational methods?
What are the educational methods? 1 There are many educational methods for babies, so what are the educational methods?
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Some children who have just entered school generally report that after each exam, their mother is often concerned about the score or the ranking in the class, while their father is concerned about the children's exam level and whether it is affected by nervousness. When the children do not do well in the exam, the mother will shorten the time of their children's game activities and put more energy into their homework, while the father suggests that the children temporarily release their depression through games and hiking. Dad's suggestion can accurately understand the child's loneliness under the high pressure of homework, and urge the child to have the consciousness of being close to his father for the first time.
Facts have proved that children aged four to eight or nine have gradually realized the true meaning of "a good mother and a good father". When the father is the "supreme commander" of the child, the game mode he advocates is obviously different from that of the mother. On Nana's 6th birthday, her father gave her a magnifying glass. Dad taught her to carefully observe the activities of some larvae in the garden with this magnifying glass, and also taught her to observe the "spores" of ferns with this magnifying glass. Dad told Nana in a very vivid "children's language", "This plant is giving birth to dolls, and their dolls will turn green when they are brought to wet places by the wind. Dad generally doesn't like telling fairy tales. The children close to him probably won't fantasize about being an actor and a star in the future, but he will become a insightful scientific worker. Through the guidance of dad, children may find a new world in what they are used to.
In addition, children who are close to their fathers usually understand the benefits of moderate silence and the privacy of others. Good children should not be "soft ears" and "long mouths" from an early age. This is the weak link of mother education. Some children with low quality who grew up during menstruation know how to enjoy others' uneasy pleasure in criticism from an early age, and have become "short megaphones in parents" since childhood. This bad habit, extending to the child's future, is likely to have an impact on his friends and credit. Children who are close to their fathers have more or less got rid of the problem of spreading acquaintances' privacy, because the principle of men's world is "don't talk about people casually." This ensures that children will not be overly sympathetic and credulous in the future, and at the same time avoid rumors from hurting others or even hurting themselves. Some of the benefits of getting along with dad are non-utilitarian, but of course they can only be understood but not expressed.
In a complete family, the responsibility of the father is very important. In the process of children's growth, parents' education is complementary and indispensable.
What are the educational methods? 2. coax education.
Many parents sometimes like to cheat their children. For example, according to family regulations, children can only eat two pieces of candy a day. The quota is used up, and the children continue to ask for it. Parents couldn't bear to refuse, so they hid the candy in the cupboard and said, "It's finished." Originally, I agreed to take my children to the park, but I had to cancel it temporarily because of fatigue or weather, so I coaxed my children into saying, "It's closed, I can't go."
Children are very good at this. You can step on the chair and take the sugar out of the cupboard. How do you defend yourself? Even if the child is cheated for a while, what will happen in the future? Coaxing children is actually prevarication and deception, because children are unable to carry out their own execution.
Why not honestly explain to the children why they can't eat candy and their attitude towards the rules? Similarly, cancel an outing, please tell him the real reason. If it is because of the weather, let the children know how to compromise with nature; If it is because of fatigue, teach children to learn to be considerate of their families.
Dalangxiao education
Many times, parents especially like to let older children make way for younger children, without asking why. "Let sister, you are a brother to be sensible." "Let my brother go first, he is young."
These well-known rulings did not carefully ask the specific reasons for the children's disputes. What seems to teach young and old is actually a mess of mud. If it is because the younger brother and sister are strong and insignificant, then patiently explain the way of concern and don't hurt the younger brother and sister. In response to disputes, if the older child is justified, he must defend himself; Small unreasonable, also want to criticize.
Whether in kindergartens, schools or society, there is no such rule that older people should be younger. Doing this at home makes it impossible for children to handle problems and disputes correctly. This is a disregard for "fairness and justice" and will directly damage children's values. For older children, they will be wronged and lose their sense of security; For young children, it is difficult to leave home without learning to protect their rights normally.
Threat education
"If you don't listen, I'll take you for an injection!" "If you don't sleep, the mouse will go to your bed soon!" I also heard an old woman scare her grandson like this. Six-year-olds don't like vegetables. Grandma told a story to encourage him to eat vegetables for his health.
"Do you remember the last time we went back to our hometown in the countryside together? It was cloudy, and suddenly, a dirty, unkempt sister rushed out, grabbed the toy in your hand and scratched your hand. That sister is a madman, who specializes in catching children who don't eat vegetables. If you don't eat vegetables again, grandma will throw you into the street of your hometown and let that crazy sister take care of you. "
The child was scared to cry. Although he ate vegetables, he threw up after dinner. Listen to the child's mother, the child will be scared to wake up after sleeping for several nights in a row, and even shout "Don't let crazy sister catch me" in the dream. Grandma was distressed and immediately changed her mouth: "Grandma is talking nonsense, crazy sister won't come. If you don't eat vegetables, don't. Grandma will cook your favorite braised pork. "
This not only causes psychological shadow to children, but also leads to inconsistent educational direction. Children have emotional memories. Burying a terrible wound sometimes takes decades to recover. Don't frighten children like this.
Gaolaoshi education
Don't teach children to tell the teacher everything. Children should know what to say to the teacher and what to solve by themselves.
Teachers, parents and leaders all belong to high-level interpersonal relationships, and what people need most is the recognition and support of their peers. Whether we can live in harmony with our peers is the basis for us to define our identity, determine our sense of belonging, establish a sense of security, and gain joy and creativity.
When you get along with your peers, you should first learn your own ability to handle differences, and try your best to buffer and define the space between yourself and each other in an equal relationship. The sooner you cultivate this way of doing things, the better. Tell teachers that letting high-level authorities solve problems not only gives up cultivating children's ability to cope with conflicts, but also loses the recognition and respect of peers and is marginalized.
Responsibility externalization education
The child fell and touched it. In addition to rushing to help the children up, we also took one of China's most distinctive actions: smashing the ground, smashing tables and benches, and "punishing" these objects that "hurt" the children. If children are caught playing with pets, the elderly will also directly hit cats and dogs.
These behaviors externalize the responsibility that the child should bear, and it is "others" who make him mistake. To put it mildly, this ignores letting children know how to prevent falls and bumps, and how to get along with pets in the future; To put it bluntly, this is an act of evading responsibility and doing things violently.
I met an old woman who treated her granddaughter like this. As a result, the little girl is in a kindergarten in Holland. She fell heavily on the bench when she fell. The kindergarten children isolated her, and the teacher also felt that the children had behavioral problems.
Love children in an appropriate way. Children not only give us the most essential vitality and joy in life, but also give us an opportunity to re-examine life and reflect on personal words and deeds. Taking care of children is a way to practice with them. We are not leading them to grow up, but accompanying them and growing up together. (Text/Wei Koukou)