Chen Meiyan, president of Kaohsiung Juvenile Family Court, has rich experience in hearing juvenile cases. After taking office, she actively introduced various professional resources, including experts in psychological counseling (business) and parenting education, to jointly deal with complex family relations and the physical and mental development of teenagers. I hope that the parent education courses provided by the court can help many parents who are experiencing family conflicts to see family problems, put aside their opposition and learn to accompany their children to grow up healthily.
Parents' divorce has a serious impact on children's physical and mental health.
Whether the adolescent family is sound is closely related to whether the husband and wife have good cooperation and correct parenting concepts, which is why the juvenile and family courts spend a lot of resources to provide parenting education.
Dean Chen Meiyan shared that in the previous case, he once met a teenager who broke the law. After investigation, he found that the teenage father was drunk and would abuse his wife and children. Finally, the teenager was hospitalized for violent injury. Although his father was sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment, this result made him hate his children even more and felt that everything started with children. After the father served his sentence, because the mother did not apply for a protection order and did not win the custody of the child, he went out of thin air, and the child had to continue to live with his father and live a life full of pressure and resentment. Children grow up gradually, because of the long-term lack of fatherly love and abandoning their resentment towards their mothers, so they often go outside the school to find a "big brother" who can see his existence and work together to find a sense of belonging and identity. For him, he has food and shelter and a big brother, who takes care of himself even more than his biological father. Naturally, when his eldest brother met with problems, his younger brother had to stand up for him, which eventually led to his behavior becoming more and more deviated, and then he fell into gangs and was involved in crimes.
In addition to parents' divorce, it is prone to family problems, and it is also possible to spoil or be too strict with children and fail to see their real physical and mental needs. Especially in the process of raising children with inconsistent behavior values, children will learn the disorderly family get along mode, and do not know the standards and boundaries of getting along with others, which will easily lead to behavioral deviation and criminal behavior.
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The court observes the space of parent-child interaction.
Parenting education courses help parents face problems.
In fact, children will encounter many doubts in the process of growing up, whether physically or psychologically, parents also need to learn in the process of upbringing. Therefore, the court continuously links relevant professional resources and offers parenting courses with different attributes, so as to help parents in Taiwan Province Province attach importance to the sound growth of teenagers or better cope with family problems that may arise during the separation process.
Various parenting education courses and lectures offered by the court not only allow parents or family members to participate independently according to their needs, but also face the increasingly serious problem of juvenile delinquency. If it is found that the cause of juvenile delinquency is related to parents' neglect of discipline, the court may also, according to the degree of juvenile delinquency, require the legal agent or guardian who neglects discipline to receive parenting education counseling for more than 8 hours and less than 50 hours, or even impose a fine or publish the name of the legal agent or guardian.
No single parent faces divorce.
In addition, for disturbing family affairs, the court will invite non-profit organizations or experts in various fields according to different topics and attributes to help the parties focus on the best interests of minor children. For example, some couples are conducting divorce proceedings, some are mediating, and even custody has been awarded to one of them. Through parenting education courses, parents can learn to raise their children together and let their children "not be single in the face of divorce". Among them, the course includes discussing the divorce status of parents and children, helping children adjust their emotions and get along with different guardians, and repositioning the relationship after divorce to help participants minimize the negative impact of divorce on their children.
Service Fortress of Comprehensive Family Resources —— Family Service Center of County Court
When the family encounters irreconcilable disputes and opposites, the parties are always in mental and physical anxiety and pain. In order to help the parties who come to court, at present, local courts all over the country have "family service centers" stationed in the courts, which can help the parties to seek help at different levels when they encounter various family problems. In the service center, there are related stationing resources of counties and cities, including social administrative services, employment services, and resource services of the Immigration Bureau that provide services for new residents. There are also household administration services that can provide protection orders and immediately apply for settlement, as well as legal aid lawyers' settlement services provided by the Legal Aid Foundation, which provide free legal advice. In addition, there are psychological counseling, marriage counseling, parents counseling and other resources to gather all units that can help families, so that helpless parties can get help and children can get the best protection.
The court has always played the role of settling disputes and terminating litigation. However, from the way of dealing with juvenile and family affairs, the court is no longer a cold government office, but can provide parents with opportunities to understand their children's world and more places to successfully resolve family disputes. The court really does more than we know!
Consultation space in court
Note: Court Family Service Center is a social welfare resource window set up by municipal and county (city) courts, which can provide assistance to minors and children who have family affairs such as divorce and custody, and provide services such as accompanying court appearance, psychological support, parenting education and consultation, legal consultation and linking related welfare resources. At present, it is available in law schools and Kaohsiung Juvenile Family Court all over the country. The full name is "OO County (City) * * * Family Service Center in Court".
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