Third, your children agree with your way of education. Some parents "can't say good things" when they are anxious and angry, which makes people uncomfortable and unacceptable. The parents mentioned above don't let their children swim, and there are problems in educational content, educational methods and methods. In life, there are many examples of this ignorance. For example, some children finish their homework and say to their parents, "I have finished my homework, can I go out to play for a while?" Some parents may smile and say, "Good boy, go out and play for a while, not too long." The child ran out to play happily. Some parents may seriously say, "You only know how to play, but don't know how to read more?" The child hung his head and was unhappy. The next time he does his homework, he may think: I won't let him play anyway, just do it slowly. That's why I dawdle. If parents want their children to read books and preview their homework, they should explain the truth to them in advance. On the basis of arranging proper play, they should say to their children, "arrange your own time and don't forget to preview." The child will be obedient.
When children have shortcomings and mistakes, it is more important to pay attention to the ways and means of criticizing children. We must first consider how criticism can be easily accepted by children. Finally, parents should be reminded that the key to making their children obedient is parents. And realize that it is normal for any child to be disobedient sometimes. We should take an analytical attitude towards children's disobedience. Children who obey their parents may lack independent thinking, which is not conducive to healthy development. The reason why model education is more effective for children is that children's thinking characteristics are concrete images. In other words, the specific image has great attraction, appeal and persuasiveness to them, and it is easy for them to imitate and accept. The power of example is infinite. Children imitate their words and deeds from the beginning, and once they understand them, they will study, live and work like role models from the outside to the inside, and forge ahead along the path of role model growth.
Parents' role model education for their children is actually to educate their children to be human beings, that is, to ask them to be the kind of people who can be called "role models". This kind of education should be fruitful, and parents should pay attention to two points in education.
1, the choice of role models
It should be said that every child needs one or several characters as an example of worship. This kind of role model can be found in real life, in history and in artistic images in literary and artistic works. When choosing role models, we should choose those who are good enough for children to follow, and they can be real hero model figures.