The critical period of children's growth
There are many details about the growth of children, and these details are also the "grand finale" of life. If you don't realize the responsibility you should always keep in mind, you may miss the critical period of your child's growth, and the later education will be very difficult.
Righteousness, courage, and gentleness.
Education is not catharsis but restraint. Don't educate children when they are angry. We should put two idioms in education: "Be confident and stick to the right words." Change it to "rational and straightforward, reasonable and well-founded, and speak tactfully." Attitude should be as sincere, gentle and patient as possible.
Conversation should not be a serious education.
You can't turn a conversation with children into serious education. The child 13 years old may not even give you a chance to criticize.
It makes sense to do small things.
In order to avoid didactic education as much as possible, we are used to educating children to "think about the motherland and look at the world", "do great things" and "make great achievements". In our culture, there is a lack of tradition of experiencing happiness from a small matter and a lack of meaningful understanding of doing some small things.
Discover the child's talent.
There are great differences between children, and not everyone can be a great man. So simple comparison can't solve the problem, and it is very important to help children discover their talents. The so-called advantages and disadvantages can not only make children not feel inferior, but also make children see the advantages of others without being proud.