First, because there are fewer children in each family, parents pay more attention to their children's education. Children born in the 1980s basically don't know what a key school is and what a school district is, especially in rural areas. Everyone studies in the same school, and there is little difference in the quality of education. Nowadays, children living in urban areas often choose to go to school by subway and other means of transportation in order to attend key universities. In order to pass the boring time on the bus, many students watch some useless videos with their mobile phones. No wonder recent students have such a high myopia rate, and they all wear glasses. I randomly accosted a fifth-grade pupil on the subway. According to him, it takes 45 minutes to go to school by bus every day. I asked doubtfully, is it worth it? He said that this phenomenon is becoming more and more common, especially for junior high school students. After all, in order to attend a key prestigious school, although the nearest place to his home can walk to and from school, the school ranking is not high. It was his parents' idea to go to a famous school.
Second, students nowadays are learning to compare with others more and more. A lot of comparison psychology comes from parents. On the way to work, I passed a primary school, and many parents drove their children to drive large-displacement luxury cars. Young children actually know many models and even know their prices. Originally, the width of the traffic road was limited, but now it is surrounded by some such cars, causing traffic congestion, but some children feel that they have a row. Looking back on my childhood, my parents picked me up by bike, even if it was rainy, that is, under an umbrella and wearing a raincoat. What a wonderful time it was. It is rare to see this situation now, and even fewer parents take their children home by bus.
Third, with the development of the times, children nowadays require special skills. More than ten years ago, the place where teenagers often went on vacation was the Children's Palace. Nowadays, children's remedial classes are all aristocratic sports that burn money. Some children's families are not rich, but they seldom participate in children's go-karting and often participate in competitions. The organizers of many activities have gone against the original intention, and held various competitions in order to make every participating child get the ranking. The child gained fame, but the actual level did not improve. It is really expensive for children to go to summer camp and winter camp now. Commercial activities have touched children.
Fourth, many parents choose international schools for their children from kindergarten, and some primary school students begin to study abroad. Studying abroad has extended from higher education to compulsory education. In front of relatives and friends, everyone really began to show off. Quietly ask parents how much your child has learned.
Finally, I hope parents and society will give their children an innocent environment. Don't use packaging to shape children from the perspective of capital, but return to the true essence of education and cultivate children with examples.