A pair of parents want to take their children out to see the world and broaden their horizons in the summer vacation, so they plan to take them out for a trip. The plane tickets are all bought, but when we are about to leave, the children don't want to go out anyway. When his parents asked him why, he said, "I'm gone, how can I keep up with my studies?" My grades are almost in the cram school. How can I go out for so many days alone? " This story also reflects that children in big cities like Beijing and Shanghai are not easy to learn.
I have also heard all kinds of stories about children from many friends who live in big cities. Perhaps in a big city like Beijing and Shanghai, the school doesn't leave much homework, and children can finish their homework easily, but it is not easy to get good grades, especially to compete with those equally excellent children. After class, extra efforts are needed. And in big cities, children are more competitive, so the pressure is greater.
In addition, in fact, for children, it is not the study on campus that makes them hard, but various interest classes and special classes outside the school. After class and weekends, children and parents have to shuttle between various extracurricular classes. Because everyone else is learning, you will fall behind and feel inferior if you don't learn.
I also heard from a friend in Shanghai that her children go to an international bilingual school. Besides finishing their homework, they often speak English when they get home. And when you enter school, you should not only interview children, but also interview parents. Interviewing parents is not only about academic qualifications and knowledge level, but more importantly, if parents are in a bad state, their children will not be admitted.
Because the school believes that if parents are in a bad state, it means that parents have poor self-discipline and lack self-management ability. Living in such a family, children will also lack self-discipline, and schools want top-notch children in all aspects. Invisible, this will bring great psychological pressure to children.
Therefore, the resources in big cities are good, but the competition is fierce, and children are affected by the environment and it is hard.
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