As a parent, every time I see the news that minors are sexually assaulted, I feel that sex education for children is really important and urgent.
When is sex education better?
I think sex education is not divided into morning and evening, but the content and form are slightly different. The purpose is to teach children to learn to protect themselves. When children learn to distinguish between sexes and know that they are boys and girls, sex education can begin.
When children can distinguish between sexes, sex education can begin.
What aspects should sex education start from?
1. Tell children that the bad guys may be around us. Influenced by fairy tales and cartoons, children often think that bad people are as terrible as wolves, with red eyes, sharp teeth and ferocious faces. Therefore, adults should tell their children that bad people are no different from us. They may be our familiar uncles, aunts, grandfathers and even teachers, and the bad guys are around us.
2. Teach children how to distinguish bad guys.
Protect private parts. Teach children to know their own bodies, and tell them that the parts covered by small vests and underwear are private parts, and we need protection. In this world, only mom and dad can look at or touch us in the shower. If someone tells me to take off my underwear and vest and look at or touch our private parts, he is a bad person. I should tell my parents at once, which is a very important thing.
Don't look at or touch other people's private parts. If someone is naked in front of us and then asks us to look at or touch their private parts, we should refuse and take it as a very important thing to tell our parents.
Don't look at nude photos. If someone shows us pictures or videos of naked uncles and aunts, he is a bad person. We should refuse and tell our parents, because it is very important.
Don't play sleeping games. Mom and Dad love us the most in the world. We only sleep with mom and dad, so can grandparents, and no one else can. If someone wants to play sleeping games with us, he is a bad person. Say no and tell mom and dad.
There are no secrets you can't tell. If someone does something bad to you and says no, I will kill you and your mother, then he is a bad person. We must tell our parents something very important. Mom and dad love us very much and will help us get rid of the bad guys. We have no secrets from mom and dad.
At present, sex education in schools is still relatively lacking, and more parents need to participate and learn how to give sex education to their children together. I hope more and more children can protect themselves from sexual assault.