In fact, many people often encounter such things. For example, in the bathrooms of shopping malls, many mothers will take their little boys to the ladies' toilets. Because the child is young, the mother seems to think it's no big deal. In fact, doing so will confuse the baby's gender. For another example, in the north, many people like to take a bath in the bathhouse, and some mothers will take their children with them, which is wrong.
I visited a Weibo the other day. Tiantian's father Sean said that he loves his daughter very much. His way of expressing love is limited to kissing the child's cheek and forehead, and he never kisses the child's mouth. This is his bottom line.
Indeed, parents should educate their children from an early age, no matter who they are, don't kiss easily, so that children can learn to respect themselves from an early age.
Everyone's boys and girls are born with labels, but gender awareness can be cultivated. Some experts pointed out that the germination of children's gender awareness is about three years old. Therefore, parents must not miss this time. After all, gender awareness is very important for a child's sound personality.
So, how to cultivate children's gender awareness? We can do it. 1, the choice of clothes styles and colors should be differentiated.
Boys should choose blue and black clothes and pants. Girls should choose pink and yellow skirts. Although what color a child likes doesn't mean anything, instilling such awareness from an early age will give children a preliminary understanding of gender.
2. There must be a distinction between bathing children.
When children begin to have their own consciousness, they should also pay attention to taking a bath. Boys had better take a bath with their fathers, while girls must have their mothers.
3. The choice of toys should be different.
Toys for girls are generally beautiful dolls and animal dolls, and boys can choose cars, toy guns and so on. This can cultivate girls' gentle character and train boys' resolute, tenacious and brave character, which is very beneficial to children.
4. Differences in children's talent cultivation
Boys can cultivate more sports talents, while girls are more trained in physical and temperament. Fathers can take boys to climb mountains, swim and play football, thus cultivating a hard-working character. For girls, mothers can take their children to dance and sing more and cultivate elegant temperament.
After three years old, remember to sleep in separate beds with your children.
Neither boy nor girl should share the bed with their parents after the age of three. Not sleeping together is an important part of cultivating gender awareness.
6. Secret protection
Teach children the importance of privacy, don't take off your clothes in front of others, don't touch important parts, and tell parents in time if you have any questions.
7. Let children know their gender.
Parents must always tell their children their gender and let them know the gender differences.
The cultivation of gender consciousness is a new proposition. After all, many parents didn't care about their children's training for many years. Although it has been put on the agenda of education now, don't push it too hard. The cultivation of children's gender awareness must be gradual. Don't set too high a demand for children just because adults are too anxious. After all, children are still young. As long as parents are patient in education, children will grow up healthily.