First of all, husband and wife should talk about this topic calmly. No parents don't want their children to be well, and then work together for a common goal! Tell each other, what is the purpose of doing this? What am I doing this for? Only by understanding each other's thoughts can we understand each other to the greatest extent. In this process, we can find a way acceptable to both sides and resolutely implement it in this way. We can't change our minds halfway. Effective communication is an important step to solve this problem! To take a step back, if no consensus can be reached in the process, then both husband and wife should at least do one thing, that is, don't argue in front of the children and don't tear each other to pieces. This is very unfavorable for the growth of children!
Secondly, the more the couple's educational concepts are not unified, the more they need to study together! Leave professional things to professional people. Since you don't agree with each other's ideas, then find a platform or teacher that everyone agrees with, follow the pace of the teacher, be close to the truth, and help the children grow together!
I hope I can help you.