Parents should look at today's children with today's eyes. Children have independent personalities, so we should treat them equally, respect them and educate them scientifically according to the laws of their physical and mental development. Parents should cultivate an atmosphere of equality and democracy in the family, so as to establish a good parent-child relationship.
Second, read some books on education to supplement the knowledge of educating children.
Family education is a comprehensive science, which requires parents to keep learning. In order to educate children, parents should learn some knowledge about children's physiology, psychology and education, master the principles and methods of scientific parenting, and constantly improve the level of family education. Only when parents always remember to arm themselves with scientific knowledge can they better grasp the characteristics of children's growth and development at all stages and educate their children correctly.
Third, find the right way to educate children.
In fact, educating children is a fun thing. If you find the right education method, then educating children is one of the greatest pleasures in life. Teenagers have both class characteristics and personality. Our current teaching organization mode is organized in the form of classes. A class is organized together, the teacher lectures in front and gives lectures to a group. This is a class organization mode. And each student's understanding is different. Every student has a free will and a unique personality.
Fourth, educate children to pay attention to the following aspects.
1. Psychological shadow
Many parents have said this in the process of their children's growth, such as: don't run around, be careful to pick up garbage and cheat you away; If you don't listen, I'll hand you over to the bad guys. These "wolf" words have invisibly caused certain psychological pressure to children. Children will think that the outside world is dark and there are many bad people, which will naturally lead to the psychology of escape or prevention.
2. Parents are overprotective
Some children are too protective of children. They are afraid of falling into their hands and melting in their mouths. They are not allowed to touch anything in daily life. For example, if a child touches a broom, the parents will say, "Be careful, how dirty it is, put it down quickly"; When the child wants to wash the dishes, the parents shout, "Don't move, it will break." These small details make children timid because they have not gained experience in trial and practice. Children are still protected when they grow up. It is this kind of umbrella that causes children's timidity.
3. Children communicate too little and are not suitable for strangers and groups.
Some children seldom associate and play with children of the same age except with their parents and elders, so that their communication skills are not exercised. Gradually, they are afraid to meet strangers and speak in front of everyone. No matter what kind of family, try your best to provide more and better educational resources for children, and every child deserves to be given as many opportunities as possible.
4. Success comes first.
Don't expect too much from your child's grades. You can give some positive help when you let nature take its course. Secondly, you should pay attention to children's physical and mental development, cultivate children's fine character, and establish a correct outlook on life, values and world outlook. Set an example and constantly encourage and motivate children to become useful people to society.