Spending more time with children is good for babies.
1. Children are more independent.
Unlike mothers, fathers mostly take care of their children in a "free-range" way. Their carelessness will give children more opportunities to try, so children can be more independent.
2. A more stable mood
Women tend to be more emotional, while men are more calm. Therefore, in the process of dad taking care of the baby, this stable emotion will also subtly affect the child, so that the child will think of positive communication to solve the problem after encountering the problem, instead of crying with emotion.
3 Growth is more comprehensive
Psychologists point out that children often regard their father as their idol before 12 years old. Indeed, most mothers need to spend more time doing housework, and their knowledge will be slightly narrower, so the children accompanied by their fathers tend to have wider knowledge and stronger hands-on ability.
Spending more time with children is good for babies.
4. More exploratory.
For the "destructive power" of children, mothers often think that children are in trouble again, or they have to clean up the "battlefield" themselves, while fathers often allow and even encourage the existence of this destructive power like an older child. This makes children who spend more time with their fathers more exploratory and can stimulate their potential imagination and creativity.
5. Children's social skills are stronger.
Boys who spend more time with their fathers will have stronger masculinity, such as courage, openness and perseverance, while girls who spend more time with their fathers will also show more optimism, tolerance and self-confidence, which will affect the social interaction during their children's growth.
Dads can try this.
1. No matter how busy you are at work, you should make time to accompany your children with high quality.
Many parents misunderstand "companionship" and think that companionship means spending more time with their children 24 hours a day, so they feel stressed. In fact, high-quality short-term companionship is far better than low-quality long-term companionship (anxiety, nagging, playing mobile phones).
Dad can spare 30 minutes to 1 hour to play games with his children after he comes home every day, or take them to outdoor activities on weekends. No matter how busy you are at work, you should take time to accompany your children with high quality.
2. Communicate with your child more and participate in his psychological growth.
Many fathers are "embarrassed" in the process of getting along with their children and don't know what to say to them. In fact, the communication between father and son/father and daughter is particularly beneficial to children's psychological growth.
3. Let children participate in understanding their own work and understand that you are paying for him.
Letting children know about your work is also a way to interact with them. A mother told me that their company organizes a "parent-child day" every quarter. Usually, mothers take care of their children, while fathers seldom take care of their children.
In fact, by letting children know about their father's work and even observing the way you work hard, these are good AIDS to enhance parent-child relationship. And my father can't always complain, "I 1 support you so hard?" Instead, tell the child, "Dad loves his job very much, and hard work will make you live better, because Dad really loves you and mom!