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The education of boys must be strict.
What is the correct way to educate boys?

1. Basic etiquette education.

Today's children will face a broader and more civilized society than now. Education is the detail, from the basic social rules to the etiquette of dealing with people, we should teach our children slowly and immerse ourselves in the bits and pieces of daily life.

Observe public order, don't talk loudly in public, say hello politely, try not to cause trouble to others, and do your own thing. Parents should also set a good example for their children in every specific life situation and guide them with reminders and suggestions.

2. Establish boundaries with others.

Close lovers and friends need a sense of boundaries, let alone ordinary people. Helping children to establish boundaries with others from an early age, cultivating children's empathy, and learning empathy reflect good quality and respect for others.

Don't take other people's things casually. Ask for each other's advice before physical contact. Don't squeeze or grab. Civilized queuing. Don't just think about your feelings. Learn to be considerate and humble.

3. Teach children to manage their emotions.

An educated person will not vent his emotions all the time. Patience and peace, knowing how to express your emotions correctly, are not only conducive to children's interpersonal communication, but also conducive to children's better adaptation to society in the future.

Teaching children to manage their emotions is also an emotional intelligence education. Because children are young, they don't know how to express and vent their emotions when they are angry, depressed and excited. At this time, they need the active guidance of their parents.

When children express their emotions by crying, splashing water, rolling, etc. Parents should not coax him at once. When he is fed up with troubles, he will obey, then comfort him, listen to his heart, and convey such a message to the children: if there is anything, it will be fine. Please, crying won't solve the problem.

4. Parents should set an example and don't indulge their children.

In life, when a child makes mistakes or misbehaves, adults often excuse the child with excuses such as "he is still a child" and "very interesting". This is irresponsible behavior for children.

Even the youngest child should learn the correct view of right and wrong. Only when children know whether their actions are right or wrong can they form a correct concept.

Wrong behavior, if adults don't stop it in time, children will only aggravate practical jokes and even lead to great disasters in the end.