A child opposite my home is studying in a private primary school here. It can be said that his character and study are excellent. Take it home every Friday afternoon and send it to school on Sunday afternoon.

In general, on Friday and Saturday, parents are whispering and children are jumping around happily. On Sundays, they often hear the mother's roar or the child's howl like a pig.

Because we are both in business, but we are separated from his house by a wide street. If the mother is yelling, the child just doesn't listen. Tell him not to watch TV. He insisted on watching TV and told him to pack his things and go to school quickly. He still had his mobile phone. ...

Dad is a math teacher in a primary school, and his family is mainly responsible for children's study. Generally, fathers don't shout loudly, but children howl like pigs.

In fact, dad didn't hit him, just stared at him and he cried. He said one more word and began to cry hard. Then his grandparents immediately came to protect the children, saying that they were too strict with them. It's hard enough to go to a private school.

Once, because of children's learning problems, dad and grandparents had a quarrel. There may be many people who say, isn't that what it is to let grandparents live by?

In fact, every family has a difficult experience. His father goes to work every day, and his mother does some small business at home. He can't do it without the help of his parents, let alone have a child.

Mom and dad may be a little strict with their children, and grandparents love their grandchildren. Why send it to a private school? It is because grandparents are too protective of their children that the couple can't do it.

In fact, his children are the kind of obedient children. Last semester, they took part in the county-wide composition competition, and My Hometown won the first prize, with excellent results.

However, as long as he is a child, he will have shortcomings. His children usually don't like outdoor sports. After finishing his homework, he either plays with his mobile phone or reads books. He doesn't go to the supermarket.

Taekwondo and playing basketball are good words. I put on my glasses early when I was only in the second grade. What can we do?

I can understand a mother who has a bad temper in front of her children, because we are both parents of ordinary families. We should not only do our own work well, but also take care of our children's study.

However, we are also human beings, with emotions and tiredness. If my husband understands, we can also talk to each other and comfort each other. As mothers, we will be really anxious if our husbands leave us alone.

Sometimes children are too skinny or work too slowly. When you are impulsive, you must warn yourself that this is your own! Of all the mothers, he only chose me. He trusted me so much and relied on me so much. I want to love him! Beating and cursing can't solve the problem! Beating and cursing really can't solve the problem!

Every time something unpleasant happens with your child, after both sides have stabilized, you should communicate well with your child, let go of your mother's authority, listen carefully to your child's views on this matter, and tell your child your difficulties. In view of the differences in this matter, negotiate a treaty that both sides can abide by, with your mother taking the lead and your child supervising.

I really haven't met parents who don't yell at their children. However, every time we yell at our children, we should communicate well with them and find out the best way to get along. Never finish yelling, it will only make them more and more rebellious.

This does exist!

The eldest daughter is now in the sixth grade, and before the third grade, it is definitely the kind that makes me doubt my life! The original harmony between husband and wife became faster, and husband and wife pinched each other. I almost had a cerebral hemorrhage myself. In the face of the child's indifferent attitude, I had to sacrifice it immediately. If I die, I will be liberated …

However, we persisted! The first thing is to have a good talk with your husband and cooperate fully. Then let the child know that life is her own, and the mother is here to help her, not to censor and provoke her. Similarly, my mother is also an emotional person. Mom will correct her problems in time, because she loves her and is afraid that she will delay her life because of her willfulness and carelessness as a child.

As for learning, mom and dad's high education can't be inherited, but learning methods and attitudes can be used for reference ... Attitude, attitude towards learning, attitude towards life, and attitude towards the future are the most important ~

During this period, my husband and I often objectively and calmly analyze educational methods, discuss how to cooperate, and try our best to be consistent in thinking and behavior after our children are asleep and their emotions are average.

In the fourth grade, my angel child came back. Up to now, she has a correct attitude and good habits. She is completely self-sufficient in her main courses and has a wide range of interests ~

Every time the baby teaches homework, it almost makes me angry. As long as I do my homework, I'm so angry that my chest hurts and I have to take medicine. In the past two years, because one person has two children, all the children have to educate themselves and feel like a bitch. Faced with the pressure of teachers, I sometimes feel like a stepmother as long as I teach homework. In the second half of this year, I adjusted myself and tried to control my tone and temper. In fact, she was forced to do homework for her children. Some children have high understanding and learn quickly, while others have low understanding and learn slowly. At this time, parents' patience is even more needed, because after a long time, you find it useless to be angry. Your anger will only make children more and more ignorant, so it is better to adjust from our parents.

Our twin, the boss, doesn't have to worry about finishing his homework at all. They can write a lot of words that they haven't learned, read books by themselves, and make handwritten newspapers, which can basically be done independently. Young and old [angry] alas! It's a long story My hands are shaking and my legs are numb with anger. I can't help shouting and sometimes fighting. I look miserable and guilty. When you don't do your homework, you are cute and sweet. Later, I felt that it was not good to reflect every day. I want to control my temper, so I put a spell on my child: If I am in a particularly bad mood, you shout: When the flowers bloom, remind my mother to control and stabilize my mood. And all three of us have made evaluation forms, and we can score each other every day. Yesterday, the first day, although a little impatient, but generally much better, each other's emotions are very happy, insist! Is victory!

My child also had the problem of procrastination in homework at first, and I became angry and became a bitch, but I gradually found that the more angry you are, the more you yell, the more your child will delay, so I changed my plan and implemented a policy of encouraging and rewarding. If you finish the homework according to the quality and quantity, praise her more, buy her delicious food, or let her play with her mobile phone for a while and slowly encourage her to finish her homework independently, so children should pay attention to methods and not blindly.

At the sight of the word "bitch", people can easily think of a hysterical, flustered and angry woman. If you put this image on helping children do their homework, it will be very noisy. If you look at your mother like crazy again, the child is crying and crying. This is tutoring children to learn, and it is obviously "torturing" children.

Because I am engaged in family education, I often meet different types of parents, especially various mothers. There is a kind of mother, whose education level is not high, but she is very temperamental. Take tutoring children to do their homework, and always face them calmly. Encourage more than criticize, praise more than dissatisfaction. Although children sometimes encounter problems in their studies, mothers can always guide their children calmly and inspire them to think. Even if the child can't do it for a while, he can try his best to teach the child. With such a mother to accompany her children to study, their academic performance will get better and better. This just shows that mothers who know family education are more likely to turn parent-child companionship into a beautiful enjoyment than mothers with empty minds.

Actually, it's easy to be a bitch mother. She hardly studies, studies family education knowledge, has no modern concept of parenting, and has a strong sense of self-reflection. She never knew her own shortcomings and deficiencies, and almost lost her thinking ability. It is a great misfortune for a child to have such a mother, because such a mother can hardly read the inner world of the child, let alone make the best use of the situation and know to put the responsibility on the child. It is not good to cultivate children's good habits at ordinary times, nor is it good to spoil children. Is it fair to children? Obviously unfair, because children's good synthesis, quality and ability are carefully cultivated by their mothers (fathers), that is, they are trained to be human and do things first, and then these good qualities are reflected in their studies.

1, mothers must study child psychology. Only by understanding the child's psychology can we truly understand the child's inner feelings, needs and demands. Take homework as an example. If children can be trained to have fun, chat and play games before doing their homework, they can relax their tired brains. When children feel happy and peaceful from their mothers, they will feel particularly safe inside. As long as the mother guides the child to find the goal of doing things and learning, with a little guidance, the child can do it happily, without repeatedly urging the child, let alone forcing the child to learn.

2. Cultivate children's awareness of obeying the rules. Why do many mothers often get hysterical when their children do their homework? The main reason is that they want their children to study, and the children are disobedient. I want to help my child with his homework, but the child can't understand. As a result, my mother was angry and annoyed. In fact, if mothers only give priority to cultivating their children's awareness of obeying the rules, they can let their children know what to do first and then what to do after school every day. Rules are the basis of children's behavior, and there are clear rewards and punishments. When children don't implement the rules, it's easy for them to know how to implement them correctly as long as their mothers guide them patiently.

Parents should cultivate their children's study habits. For homework, it is not complicated in itself. It is nothing more than guiding children to sort out a few homework first. As long as children focus on sorting, they will use their brains to measure which one is easier to write and which one is slightly more difficult. Parents can tell their children to write the easy ones first, and a mother can help you write the slightly difficult ones. When children explicitly choose homework items as their goals, they have actually entered the state of writing homework. For questions that children think are slightly difficult, they can be taught to read, think, answer in writing and check the steps and methods correctly. When children implement it step by step, it is easy to form good study habits by repeating steps.

Conclusion: Parents who are easy to get angry and get angry often ignore what I said. They are ignorant, empty-minded, and do not know how to cultivate children's awareness of obeying rules. Naturally, they can't build an inner sense of order for their children. Children with poor sense of order are not easy to find clear work goals and will not develop good work and study habits. Such a simple logical thinking, if parents understand it, I'm afraid you won't blame the children, but deeply reflect on yourself. What are my shortcomings? How to improve your parenting quality through in-depth study?

Correction: I can only make my mother angry as a "bitch" [cute]

As for what to do? The first step is to take out your mobile phone and exit the child's room, call your mother and ask your age at that time. The second step is shown in Figure [Yes]

Some people think it's normal to get angry when helping children with their homework. There are also many parents who blame their anger on their children. There are also many jokes on the Internet about parents helping their children with their homework. Why don't you do your homework? When you do your homework, your father hugs you. Even some parents got heart disease and cerebral thrombosis because they helped their children with their homework, and many parents got "phobia".

In fact, this kind of tutoring is more harmful to children. If you are angry when you are tutoring your child to do homework, then you should not tutor your child at all, or you are not qualified to tutor your child to do homework, because your behavior will easily make your child tired of learning and affect his life's development and progress.

Everyone is familiar with the word "memory". Memory is the most commonly used way of learning. Exams need to be recalled, homework needs to be recalled, and learning new knowledge needs to recall old knowledge ... but it is difficult for someone to explain clearly what memory is. Some people say that memories are not simple? Just think about it, then what is thinking? As for memory, I have looked it up in the dictionary. Xinhua dictionary has only five words for memory: "Memory is memory". I really don't have the courage to look into it. I'm afraid it tells me that "memory is memory".

In fact, it is very simple to figure out what memory is. You can recall the scene of eating breakfast and see if there is a picture, a sound and a feeling (delicious or not) in your mind when you recall. Therefore, memory has three elements: picture, sound and feeling. It is important to note that memory contains feelings.

Then parents constantly criticize and even beat and scold their children when tutoring their homework. How will the children feel? This feeling is also packaged and stored in the child's brain with knowledge. When he recalls what he learned, his feelings when he learned knowledge are also recalled. And this kind of memory is painful, and gradually children are tired of learning. Parents can easily understand this, because this painful feeling is also packaged into your brain with "tutoring children". Think about it. Do you feel uncomfortable tutoring your children?

So I think the so-called children are tired of learning, not that children hate learning, but that they hate the feeling when learning.

Therefore, if you want your child to love learning, you must give him a pleasant feeling when he is learning. This kind of feeling has both the sense of growth brought by internal learning and the support, help and encouragement of external parents. This is how the interest in learning is cultivated.

To sum up, parents should be supporters of children's learning, so that children can learn in a relaxed and happy atmosphere, rather than blindly criticizing and denying children, so that children can associate learning with pain.

Haha, very realistic question.

Parents are similar, and they are not patient enough. We should be patient with children's homework.

The best way is to form good habits from an early age, otherwise you will really become a "bitch" when you are old.

I admire parents who are so patient with their children, because we tend to be more patient with others, but less patient with our own children.

The most important thing is to form good habits from an early age!

Hello! Let me answer this question.

Look at your requirements for other children's homework. It must be everything. Some children around do their homework, and parents work hard, staring at all kinds of shouts! Angry hypertension is committed. Some are what parents call "other people's children". This is definitely a reward!

If your child has difficulty in doing homework, you still need to analyze the reasons with your child. Can't write, or procrastination or inattention? Simply yelling at children won't solve any problems! Make different strategies according to children's situation.