What do girls know when they have boyfriends?

1, men's brains are basically controlled by the lower body before sleeping with you. Whether it's sweet talk or all kinds of romantic surprise gifts, their fiery hearts are on you, so don't think it's true love.

After going to bed for a while, they will calm down and start thinking about the pros and cons of this relationship and your own value. Many people choose to leave after having sex, long or short.

3. It is easy for girls to have the idea that "I am his person" after having sex, and it is the opposite for boys. At this time, their first goal has been achieved, and they will become relaxed and relaxed. You will find that he is getting colder and colder and questioning him again and again. In fact, this is just their normal state. The sweetness and enthusiasm at the beginning of a relationship is the product of hormones and sexual desire.

Never use sex to bind men, which will be counterproductive. Men like the fun of hunting if they can postpone sex as much as possible. Although they are eager to get you as soon as possible, the longer they get along, the more they will pay attention to you.

5, girls should think clearly before having sex, and the situation of half-pushing must be avoided. Because men are bound to be cold to you after having sex, this is a predictable situation. Compared with the love period, we should take countermeasures.

6. The best way to deal with it is to do what you want. Don't rely more on boys, it will only backfire. A boy with complete psychological ties must like a girl who can be evenly matched with him. What do girls know when they have boyfriends?

7. Only men know men best. Even your closest boyfriend has something you don't know but his brother knows. This is a secret between men, and they will never tell girls.

8. Korean dramas are deceptive, just as av is deceptive.

9. Don't believe a punctuation mark that a man says in bed.

10. Boys who have really experienced the first love or the second love can no longer believe the sweet words and promises they say. They passed the period when they were ignorant and infatuated with women, and everything was repeated afterwards.

1 1, boys in their teens and twenties are basically looking for partners to satisfy their physiological desires. At this age, they are immature and don't understand love, but girls at this age have infinite fantasies about love, which is caused by different gender education and physiological differences. Very realistic but also very helpless.

12. After talking about love several times, you will understand that imaginary feelings do not exist, and even love is just a condiment of life rather than a necessity. The promise of a lifetime will only be mentioned during the love period, and everything will disappear with the passage of time.

13, the spirit of contract is very important, so I hope that girls don't pay so much attention to the so-called emotional intelligence and girls' skills when looking for a boyfriend, and give more opportunities to some science and engineering boys who are not interested. They may not be as deceptive as boys with rich emotional experience, but they will probably not do you much harm.

14, the most important thing in feelings is personality, and personality is more important than anything else. The beginning of love can be due to hormones or some so-called routines, but what really determines whether two people can go on must be personality and character. Because enthusiasm will gradually decline, the increase of dopamine caused by hormones will disappear, and the relationship will inevitably become boring and unknown for a long time.

However, it is difficult to change a person's personality in a short time. A boyfriend with a good personality will try to solve the problem instead of abandoning it. After the novelty wears off, he will try to make some sweets instead of cheating, because his family education and moral cultivation did not allow him to do so.

15. It is suggested that girls make a detailed investigation of each other before each relationship begins, especially simple girls. Investigate each other's hobbies and social circles, as well as family background/education level/past emotional experiences and the reasons for each relationship breaking up, and even whether the ex-girlfriend has an abortion.

It is best to ask reliable friends of the same sex and the opposite sex around you, and it is not too much to ask private detectives when necessary. It is extremely irresponsible for you to blindly enter a relationship before you fully understand each other's personality. Too many girls who were hurt by love rat suffered a big loss because they didn't understand this.

16, feelings are not the whole of life. Whether you are single or in love, you should always keep an enterprising heart. We are in love to enjoy the experience of intimacy and enjoy this beauty, not to bind each other for personal interests.

17. No matter how loving your relationship is, you should leave yourself a way out. It can be a proud career, a beautiful resume or a satisfactory report card. Be prepared to muddle through. This is responsible for yourself.

18, two people who love each other again should also have their own private space. After all, you appreciate each other's independent and charming personality.

19, don't stay when the relationship comes to an end, it's meaningless. People who know how to gather and disperse know how to love rationally from the beginning, not to lose love.

20. It is an eternal theorem to love yourself and always be yourself. Too much hurt in feelings is because you don't love yourself enough.

2 1, none of the above is applicable to love rat. After all, love rat wanted to have sex with you from the beginning, and no amount of skill will help them. The best way to distinguish love rat is to prolong the pursuit period. As short as one or two months, as long as three or five months, they will be well-advised to leave. In addition, boys who propose to sleep with you within three months of love should be vigilant. If he explicitly refuses, the other party will still pester you with this matter and even threaten you, and love rat will run away after going to bed. When you meet such a person, you will thank yourself for your decisiveness.

22. At the end of every love, we are all talking to ourselves. We find our own shortcomings in love, the beauty and ugliness of human nature, the only controllable factor is ourselves, and many things in life are futile.

23. I don't believe in so-called love, either now or in the future. This is not a negative thought, but an optimistic attitude. The more you live, the more important you find yourself. All the efforts in a relationship may be futile and meaningless.

24. Love is just a kind of interpersonal relationship. Before marriage, it is a self-satisfied interpersonal relationship, and after marriage, it is a partner in interest. We believe in love because we believe in the beauty of human nature, but the world exaggerates the so-called love, allowing countless people to invest in it and countless people to invest in it.

25. Breaking up is not a bad thing, and being loved is not a particularly happy thing. The most important thing is whether you have grown up in this relationship and know yourself better.

26. In love, selfish people are often cherished. The more you love yourself and invest in yourself, the more you will be loved.

27. When girls are in love, their mouths should be sweet, their eyes should be charming and their bodies should be sexy, but their brains should be rational and their hearts should be good. Put the pros and cons in your heart, feelings and love in your heart, and sexual desire in your lower body. This is what men usually do. If women learn this, the chance of injury is very small.