? How to correctly educate and guide adolescent boys?
1, strengthen communication. At this time, the child's self-awareness has increased and he does not like to communicate with his parents. At this stage, parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children, understand their thoughts and cultivate their feelings.
2. Accompany children, actively participate in children's activities, and arouse psychological resonance. Active communication in daily life and study is not enough. Children will have many activities, such as playing games and traveling in autumn and winter. Parents should participate as much as possible, complete activities and tasks with their children, and through activities, let the two sides psychologically tolerate each other, resonate with each other, and become true friends of their children.
3. Respect children's hobbies and try to help them finish what they like to do. Respect your child's choice and the child will respect you, so the advice or guidance you give your child is easy for the child to accept. This is also to establish a democratic and harmonious relationship within the family and further promote the warmth and happiness of the family.
4. Study problems or difficulties in study with children. Adolescent children, with immature minds, are bound to encounter problems or difficulties in their studies. Parents should study with their children, analyze problems, and then solve problems, so that children can experience the process of growth and get strong support from parents, thus enhancing their ability to overcome difficulties. Confidence!
5, adhere to the principle, let children slowly develop a good habit of obeying the rules. In family education, children should be polite and know how to communicate with others.
6, through words and deeds, let children develop a good character of honesty and trustworthiness and being kind to others. Parents tell their children how to be filial to their parents, respect their elders and be kind to others, so that their children can become the inheritors of Chinese excellent traditions.
7. Urge children to strengthen physical exercise. Adolescent children are entering a period of physical development, so they should be guided to strengthen physical exercise.
? Psychological changes of adolescent boys;
First, children's independence has increased. Children want to make their own decisions and don't want their parents to interfere too much.
The second is to increase children's self-esteem. Even if the child is wrong, you point it out, he will be anxious for you and won't admit it at all.
The third is to enhance children's rebellious psychology. It is at this stage that children usually don't listen to you and may even oppose you.
Fourth, children have sexual impulses and fantasies. Children at this stage are usually the most prone to puppy love.