With the help of external force
School and social practice are precious opportunities for children to learn to be human. Parents can encourage their children to seek help from teachers and coaches, which can give them valuable support and guidance. For example, if a child accidentally scatters grilled fish, parents can guide the child to apologize, let the teacher or coach guide him, and let the child understand the meaning of apology.
Make good compensation
If children make mistakes and cause property losses, they should be helped to make compensation. For example, if a child makes trouble in a flower bed in a park, parents can take the child to buy flowers for compensation, so that the child can experience the consequences of his actions and learn to be responsible.
Reward and punishment complement each other.
When children do good deeds, they should praise and reward them in time to stimulate their enthusiasm and awe. For example, if children behave properly in public, they can be given pocket money or taken to the playground as a reward.
Listen to the children.
Education is not only preaching, but also listening to children's voices. Understand children's psychology and emotions, respect children's choices, and help children find solutions to problems. For example, when a child makes a mistake, encourage him to sum up the reasons for the mistake and give guidance and suggestions at the same time.
Encourage correction
When a child makes a mistake, he should be guided to understand the harm of the mistake and think about how to avoid making it again. For example, if a child breaks someone else's carpet, in addition to compensation, he should also be allowed to clean his shoes to ensure that he will not make the same mistake again in the future.