1. Parents should help their children set learning goals rationally: parents should monitor their children's learning situation at any time and help them set scientific learning goals. When a child fails in the exam, parents should pay attention to the emotional changes of the child, help the child adjust his learning state in time, and explore and analyze the main reasons leading to the failure of the exam.

2. Cultivate children's ability to withstand stress: poor adaptability, can't stand a little frustration in study and life, and have a weariness of learning. Parents should cultivate their children's ability to live independently and communicate with others from an early age, so that children will not give up learning when they encounter setbacks in their studies.

For junior high school students themselves, junior high school students have more ways to adjust their stress. From the cognitive point of view, in a competitive environment, it is inevitable that some people will rank lower in academic performance.

3. Create a good family atmosphere: Living in a family where disputes often occur, children will concentrate on their homework. Family security can make children have a pleasant experience and have confidence in learning.