Children who grow up in anxiety are even less confident and more anxious, which is the failure of education. Educational anxiety comes from parents' expectation of their daughters and children. They habitually compare other people's children with their own. When educational anxiety comes, I think it can be alleviated from the following aspects:

First, accept the reality and lower the high expectations for children. It is every parent's dream to expect a successful daughter and a successful child. Now every parent thinks his child is the most unique and lovely one. Therefore, some parents often think that their children will not be ordinary people in the future and will definitely make special careers.

It just ignores an important educational law, that is, parents are ordinary people and children are probably ordinary people. It is often painful for parents to accept this reality, but it is true.

Second, instead of wasting energy on anxiety, it is better to spend energy on communicating with children. Parents' educational anxiety is rooted in children, so it is more important to know where the children's problems are in order to alleviate their educational anxiety.

Anxiety can only create anxiety, and the simplest way to fight anxiety is to accept the reality. If parents set unrealistic goals and set too high standards for their children, they will definitely feel disappointed.

It must be bad to communicate with such anxious children. In fact, don't children just want to make progress? Of course, he wants to make progress, and he also wants his teachers and classmates to look at him with new eyes. However, if parents treat their children's problems anxiously and pass on their anxiety to their children, it will cause a heavy psychological burden to their children. On the other hand, it is not worth the loss.

Third, fully understand, respect and trust children. Parents' anxiety about their children's education comes more from their doubts about their children's abilities. Nervous, afraid, worried that children can't do well. We should believe in children, whose potential is infinite, and sometimes children are not as good as their parents' wishes, which is a matter of time.

As parents, we used to be children. If we put ourselves in others' shoes, we will understand children more easily. Everyone knows Helen Keller, a "bright role model". She conquered the world with a pen. Without the understanding, respect and trust of her parents, would she have achieved such success?

In short, parents and friends keep calm and have no anxiety. In the watering of "moistening things quietly", each of our children will have a bright future.