On the road of parenting, I have always advocated love and encouragement. My daughter likes dancing since she was a child. Every time I pass by the dance training classroom, I see the young ladies dancing in pink uniforms, always crying to go in. After consulting several training centers, they were rejected, and the unified answer was to come back after three and a half years old. Too young children can't understand the teacher's instructions. Finally, through the introduction of colleagues, I finally participated in the audition class of dance enlightenment class in March 20 18.
The first class dealt a great blow to my old mother, because she was the worst in this class. Children usually jump around with kindergarten teachers, and small dances are very different. Kindergarten teachers often praise her. I think my daughter is talented and an excellent dancer. At first, I didn't expect professional dance training, which was completely different. For children aged three or four, a month or two will make a big difference. Not to mention the children who try classes at the same time, they are all older than her. Older children have been able to understand the teacher's instructions and practice basic skills with the teacher in an exemplary way. My daughter is completely out of shape. She doesn't understand what the teacher is saying at all, even what the teacher says is stretching her feet. Fortunately, she knows how to observe the movements of the children around her. But it's always half a beat slow, which is particularly clumsy. It was not a little better until the little dance.
For a whole class, the children were confused and I was suffering outside. My parents stood in front of the monitor to discuss, and I could only keep an embarrassed and polite smile. I didn't expect to learn to be overbearing all my life, but I lost face on my children. The child's father was angry and only scolded: "I told you not to waste this money, you have to listen." Now you've been hit in the face by reality, haven't you Hey. "
The girl is still ignorant. When I was changing clothes, I was shown a 2-cent coin. He also asked me excitedly, "Mom, did I behave well?" I had the cheek to answer, "Yes. Baby, you are the best! " "Will you come back next week?" I asked. "Come back!" The girl answered loudly. The four-year-old child next to her curled her lips and said loudly to her grandmother, "She is not a good dancer at all." I can only be deaf selectively.
Audition class 1 time per week, totaling1time. Every time no matter how I perform, I always say to my daughter, "Baby, you dance very well, and mom is very happy." Although my heart is very fragile. My daughter always asks in a low voice, "Really? Am I a good dancer? I don't think I performed very well. " Although she is very young, she can already understand the reaction of teachers and children around her, and she always gets 2 points, which means that she is not doing very well (the best performer in each class gets 5 points). She won't be satisfied until I have the cheek to praise her repeatedly and swear that she is the best child in the class. The child's father snorted: "There are no rotten apricots in my basket."
Three months later, my daughter barely kept up with the progress. Although she never does exercises at home, she is happy to go to class every weekend. After all, all the dancers are girls of the same age, and they can go out to eat with their parents after dancing. Children's happiness is always simple. I always spare no effort to praise her, for example, the teacher says you are great. None of the other children came, only you insisted on class or something. At the end of the audition class, the teacher invited parents into the classroom to watch the children's performances. Although it is only simple basic skills and a few small dances, I have seen my daughter's progress. I can follow the movements and understand the teacher's instructions.
After the audition, I asked my daughter's opinion. She wanted to dance by herself. Of the 10 children who tried the class together at first, only 8 were left. The reason for leaving is that the child is too young to keep up. Although the training school is far from my home, we have never missed a class. Fortunately, the teacher is very experienced, and my daughter has always maintained an interest in dance. Although the father of the child continues to sneer at learning dance, at least when I have something to do, I can make up for it quickly and send the child to class.
Near the summer vacation, the training school organizes an art festival. In fact, it is an internal display of teaching achievements. Children in each training class have programs, from vocal music to dance, from the enlightenment class to the ninth grade class, and more than 100 children have come. This art festival is very important to me in personal influence. I didn't expect young teenagers' performances to be as effective as TV programs (it was later learned that they really often participated in various TV performances). During the waiting time, the children naturally cheated and bent over without the supervision of the teacher. It can be seen that their love for dance is from the heart. My daughter's initiation class, as a warm-up venue, also performed two small dances by MengMeng. It has been well received by teachers and parents. Of course, her performance continued to be poor. Refuse to take a nap at home, and close your eyes when you queue up to play. I squeezed hard in desperation, and my daughter came to the stage crying. Well, I did well on the stage. Of course, as usual, I'm bragging again.
Maybe it was infected by my sisters. After the art festival, my daughter began to understand a little, and her performance became better and better. Occasionally, she can get a three-point scholarship. Of course, I will still be distracted, and I can always hear the teacher calling her name outside the classroom. Last semester, the last class was reserved for summer homework, and the teacher actually chose my daughter to demonstrate three basic standard movements (five in all). As a result, she refused to do any basic exercises in the summer vacation, only willing to jump a little, and did not complete the punching homework required by the teacher. Time flies, rain or shine next semester. From the perspective of learning money, it is stable at two points. The teacher's evaluation is soft and the coordination is not very prominent.
The turning point appeared in a game in June 5438+10. The teacher organized a dance world national finals competition for the children. I thought my daughter had just learned dancing for a few months, and she was too young and weak, but in the spirit of the teacher, we signed up. It's good to stand on a bigger stage and see that the world doesn't rank. The only requirement of the teacher is that the children can participate in training for two weeks, two hours a day. Because the training is from 2 pm to 4 pm on weekdays, it is not convenient to pick up and drop off, and many parents have backed out. But it is this two-hour training every day that inspires children's strong interest in dance. The seeds of love germinated unconsciously. My daughter takes the initiative to practice dancing in training every night. When dancing, it's really good The whole family came to watch and gave a heartfelt admiration. Children are becoming more and more confident. After the training course, you can often get 5 points from the training teacher.
After the training, it coincides with the last dance class of this semester. At last, the teacher praised my daughter loudly and gave her a reward of 10 (all the other children got 5 points), and continued to choose my daughter to demonstrate the three most difficult basic standard movements in winter vacation homework. Next is the dance competition. Teachers are quite experienced, and babies are not afraid of stage fright. Finally, they actually won the gold medal in the children's group. As the youngest player in the competition, my daughter's performance is still not satisfactory. But on the big stage, the little babies realized the significance of dancing; The wonderful performances of the young ladies made the little babies feel the strength of the strong; Gold cups and certificates give real encouragement to the babies.
After the competition, my daughter will ask to dance once a day, then punch in and dance winter vacation homework. Without deliberate urging, the 2 1 day clock-in operation was successfully completed. Other participating babies also kept their excitement. What's more, they also had fancy dances to pay New Year's greetings on New Year's Eve.
Life is not a hundred-meter race, but a long marathon. Maybe the child didn't behave well at first. At this time, I especially need constant encouragement and applause from my parents. No applause. Mom and dad give you applause. In the hearts of mom and dad, you are a genius, and you will always be the best! Only in this way can we plant the seeds of self-confidence in children's hearts and be fearless in the face of any difficulties and obstacles.
There are thousands of ways to raise children, don't spray if you don't like it!