First of all, parents need to emphasize and implement strict codes of conduct. Make clear rules for children and let them know that hitting people is not allowed. However, forcing children to apologize or severely punishing them may make them more angry and stubborn. On the contrary, parents should make their children aware of the unexpected disadvantages of hitting people, for example, people may not like to make friends with people who hit people, or people may alienate them.
Secondly, parents need to explore why children hit people. If a child's aggressive behavior stems from his or her anger or emotional distress, parents should try to communicate with their children and help them find healthier ways to vent and manage these emotions. You can encourage children to express their feelings, and in some cases suggest some relaxation methods, such as taking a deep breath, counting slowly or exercising.
Thirdly, parents need to help their children improve their communication skills, which can help them better understand themselves and the people they communicate with. For example, not understanding others, not being able to speak or other oral obstacles may be one of the reasons that lead children to hit people. In this case, parents can provide support and help, such as encouraging children to participate in social skills training and improving their communication skills.
Finally, parents need to pay attention to whether their children have psychological problems, such as problem children, autism, depression and so on. These problems may lead to children's aggressive behavior, so parents should receive relevant psychological evaluation and treatment with their children in time to help them manage and deal with these situations better.
In short, when children are ready to hit adults, parents should take constructive measures to solve the problem. These methods include emphasizing the code of conduct, discussing children's situations, improving their communication skills and paying attention to related psychological problems. These measures can help children master appropriate communication skills, manage and deal with emotions and situations, and form healthier habits and behaviors.