When asked the question "What is a child's job", most parents feel at a loss. In China people's mind, work is a job for adults to earn money. In fact, children also have jobs, and activities for their own internal development are their jobs.
Children are a living body, but seemingly unrelated things such as masturbation, sexual fantasy, work, reading, telling stories and learning cultural knowledge are closely linked in their lives. The balance between children's physical development and spiritual development is closely related to their living environment. Parents and kindergarten teachers are children's "living environment". When a child's behavior deviates, adults should first examine themselves!
Your child is not your child. Life longs for children. They came because of you, not because of you. Although they are with you, they don't belong to you.
Think twice before doing things, and don't dig wells when you are thirsty; There must be a road to success when you grow up. Don't be lazy when you are young. Efforts will succeed, and ambitions must not be allowed to sink; Be polite, civilized and helpful.
Good grades are made. The most important factors, such as will, morality and mind, are not through the "explicit education" such as parents' preaching, but through the parents' behavior, that is, "implicit education", which enters the child's flesh and blood and can produce results. Besides setting an example, the best way for children to develop a big mind is to let them read more famous books and biographies of great men, and let them learn to look at society and themselves from the perspective of great men.
Excellence is a habit. If you want your child to be excellent, you must gradually cultivate him to form good habits.
Good grades are helpful. Helping children adapt to exam-oriented education has become our parents' obligation, and the best way to help children reduce their burden is to make our parents increase their burden, that is, to make our parents become tutors for their children's learning.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Most children live in the family from kindergarten to primary school and middle school, and this is the period when children grow physically, acquire knowledge, cultivate character and morality, and lay the foundation for forming a world outlook. Parents' words and deeds have a profound influence on their children.
We can't mold children according to our own thoughts and expectations, but let children take the road that is conducive to healthy physical and mental growth and self-development!
Every parent who is responsible for their children's future should firmly remember this important parenting principle-doing what they can for their children is the biggest blow to their enthusiasm.
The art of education lies not in imparting skills, but in struggle, awakening and encouragement.
When parents educate their children, they usually just let them adapt to the current world-even a degenerate world. This is a true portrayal of many parents in China. The continuation and survival of offspring is of great significance to animal evolution, but unlike human beings who only pursue it. Having children will only add to the difficulties of slave owners. Such parents are not worthy to say that they love their children.
Taking family education as the center and school education as the radius, family and school education jointly draw the most beautiful circle in the world _ my next generation.
Family education is not an ignorant sermon, and parents should play a more important role.