So what's the secret of being a wise parent? Tan, dean of family education in business school, thinks there are only three things to do.
The first thing: cultivate a good parent-child relationship.
Good parent-child relationship is better than many educations. When parents and children get along well, then children's education will get twice the result with half the effort. So how to establish a good parent-child relationship? Dean Tan gave three dots.
1, learn to be a lawyer instead of a "judge". Parents should learn to care about their children's self-esteem, safeguard their rights and become their trusted friends. Children should be treated like "lawyers" of clients, understand their inner needs and always safeguard their legal rights.
2, improper "referee", learn to be a "cheerleader". As the "cheerleaders" of children, parents should give more praise to their children during their growth, and at the same time guide them correctly to prevent them from going astray.
3, improper "animal trainer", learn to be a "mirror". Children will care about their parents' feedback, so parents should learn to be their children's "mirrors" and constantly give them positive feedback, so that children will no longer be afraid of their parents' authority, thus establishing a really good parent-child relationship.
The second thing: cultivate children's good habits.
Habit determines the fate and future of children. Only when children have good habits of thinking, living and studying can they have a bright future. In this regard, Dean Tan still has three suggestions:
1, everything starts with cultivating habits.
Habits can't be formed in one day.
3. Cultivate casting character through habit.
The third thing: guide children to learn to learn.
In terms of cultivating children, what is really useful needs thinking and refining. As long as these three points are grasped, parents will certainly cultivate excellent children.