Case:
There is a child prodigy in our community. Why do you call him a prodigy? The reason is that the child's IQ is particularly high, especially smart, and his memory is particularly good. He can remember the names of all the owners in the community, so the parents in the community are particularly envious of the parents who gave birth to this prodigy. But this prodigy has a problem, that is, his concentration is not enough. The prodigy's parents told me that we all want to ask the doctor, because my children are always half-hearted when playing with toys and can't concentrate. ? I said:? Then go and see. After all, concentration is very important. ! ?
In fact, there are many children with high IQ but inattention in real life. They are usually smart and can get good grades in exams, but such children may not succeed when they grow up. Because the factor of success is far more than intelligence, and the factor of success is still concentration.
First of all, concentrate on letting children go to Guangdong two books.
Children with high IQ may have a high starting point, win more applause at the starting line and run faster than children with low IQ. But life is a long-distance race, and winning at the starting point does not mean being second-class in Guangdong. If you want to be second-class in Guangdong, you have to be determined. Because concentration is the key to test whether a person is serious, has endurance and has high quality. If you are intelligent and impatient, people like Xin will not be welcomed by the boss when they enter the workplace. Because the boss only looks at the results of doing things, not at whether you are smart or not, people with high concentration have higher quality of doing things and are more valued by employers.
Secondly, concentration gives children willpower.
Since life is a long-distance race, one's tenacity and willpower are also very important. There are many factors for success, but IQ is not the only factor. If a person is just smart, but has no willpower and doesn't persist in doing things, it's no use. Because the most important thing is to finish what you started. If you are smart, but you can't stick to it, then this cleverness is negligible. Therefore, it is best for parents to exercise their children's willpower when they are young and let them know the importance of persistence, so that even if their IQ is not high enough, they will make great achievements in the future.
Finally, concentration makes children do things with higher quality.
Although high IQ can give children an advantage in doing many things, a person needs not only high IQ, but also high EQ. Only people with high IQ and EQ are more likely to succeed. People with high EQ know better how to deal with people and how to communicate with them. Such people can often live a better life in today's society. Usually, people with high emotional intelligence have stronger concentration, and a person's concentration will make him do things more efficiently because he knows what to do in a certain period of time. People with high concentration not only do things quickly, but also do things with higher quality, so parents should not underestimate the ability to cultivate children's concentration. Don't just think about how to cultivate children's IQ, but also work hard in this focused field.
Children's high IQ is a thing that can make parents 100% happy, but parents should not think that high IQ is above everything else. Because there are many stumbling blocks on the road to success, smart people are often more flexible and vulnerable to temptation. Parents should take advantage of their children's high IQ and cultivate their other abilities. Only with strong comprehensive ability can we gain a better foothold in society.