After the video, I couldn't sleep all night, and it didn't help to get up in the middle of the night and take a "valium". My daughter's frame-by-frame images are clearly visible in her mind, just like slides.
My two daughters are the pride of husband and wife in my eyes, because they are too strong and excellent.
The eldest daughter wants you to graduate from Inner Mongolia Agricultural University. He has worked in TCL Group, Li Yang Crazy English and Global IELTS successively. But she always wanted to go abroad for further study, but she was dissatisfied with the status quo. With her hard work and hard training, she just passed the language exam. In 2008, she was admitted to UTPB University in Texas, USA, and studied for a master's degree in education management. In a short period of one and a half years, my daughter completed all the courses of 16 required by the master's degree, participated in all the courses of the teacher's professional qualification examination, obtained the mathematics teaching qualification from American public elementary schools to high schools and the Chinese teaching qualification of all grades, and graduated with straight A in August of 20 10.
During the study period, my daughter worked while studying, which won unanimous praise from the teachers and students of the school. Not only did she get a high scholarship, but she also charged the foreign girl all the tuition fees according to the standards of domestic students. This may be the only exception in this school. Our daughter's success also saved our parents a lot of money.
After graduation, my daughter was hired by a public middle school in Texas and became a qualified math teacher. At the same time, he was admitted to Texas Tech University with excellent results to pursue a doctorate. Children work while studying. It is conceivable that it is difficult to accomplish these two tasks without strong will and perseverance. Especially how difficult it is for a China person to teach a group of foreigners to learn math! However, her witty, humorous, flexible, generous and gentle teaching method has won the praise of Americans and the love of students. The local TV station in Texas made her teaching method into a propaganda film, which was broadcast on TV every day. My colleague said humorously to her daughter, "You are a superstar this time."
In addition, my daughter took advantage of her Chinese and opened a Chinese class in middle school with the consent of the school. More than a dozen American students were recruited to learn Chinese, and all of them liked it very much. After a year's study, many students can keep diaries in Chinese and have simple communication. Here, she not only found her stable career, realized her life value and ideal, but also found her ideal love and got her own house and car.
After graduating from Beijing Forestry University, Blair, the second daughter, was admitted to People's Public Security University of China and graduated on 20 1 1.
Hard work pays off!
Where there is a will, there is a way!
I am proud of the strength of my motherland in the world!
I am also proud of my daughter's outstanding talent!
I often think that if there is no institutional reform of 1992 Dalat Banner, if I don't listen to the leadership at that time, if I don't obey the organizational distribution, if I don't insist on going to sea, if ... then I might become a director and a flag bearer, and my daughter will still suffer this "foreign crime"! Like many "official second generation" now, they have a fixed and enviable career, and they have already married and had children, and they are happy.
However, everything is a "if", and I shouldn't have gone into the sea in the first place, from which I also realized a truth:
The most important thing in life is not hard work, not struggle, but choice!
Men are afraid of choosing the wrong line, while women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. Old sin makes new shame. At that time, a wrong idea of "going to sea" ruined the future of my daughter and me in the eyes of most people today. However, there is no regret medicine in the world, even if there are 10 thousand "ifs", it is too late to regret!
After graduating from agricultural university, I also fantasized about finding a good job for my daughter. I wanted to see if I could help my daughter squeeze into the civil service through some connections when I worked in the administrative organs in the past. However, no matter how great the power and the stage are, they have become "the past" and "once owned". Nowadays, people in society are cool in tea, and the world is cold!
I also believe that "money makes the mare go", but my daughter firmly opposes it. She said that if this happens, we will lose our integrity as human beings! Besides, she said that she didn't like working from nine to five, drinking tea and reading newspapers. She thinks it's a waste of her youth, and she wants to do her favorite job. In this way, with a self-reliance and perseverance, I resolutely went abroad.
I often reflect that my father is an incompetent father. I have never asked too much about my two daughters' study, life and work since childhood. Someone asked your daughter how to educate her when she studied so well. I say so. I have never interfered with my daughter's study. I just create a good learning environment for them and cultivate their interest in learning. In my home, I specially set up a study and bedroom for my daughter. When couples watch TV, the volume is turned to the minimum, and we dare not speak loudly, trying not to affect or disturb them.
The two daughters seldom watch TV. Every day, except for necessary play and activities, they spend the rest of their time studying. Especially the eldest daughter doesn't go to bed until eleven or twelve every night. Therefore, in the 12 years from primary school to high school, the two children have been among the best in academic performance and have been working as monitor, announcer and secretary of the Youth League branch in the school. Every composition is read and explained by the teacher as a model essay in class, and even their daughter's third-grade composition is taken to the sixth-grade class as a model essay to interpret. It is no exaggeration to say that they are two small "stars" in our local area, and their popularity is quite high.
My two daughters have loved reading since childhood, and almost read all the books on the shelf. My eldest daughter has many interests. In the third grade, she begged me and my wife to enroll her in an art class. Later, her sketches were exhibited by the teacher in the senior class. Her paintings are not only exhibited the most in school exhibitions, but the most surprising thing is that she won the National Children's Art Shuanglong Cup Excellence Award. It's a pity that we didn't keep her works since childhood, and they were unfortunately lost in several moves. If only I could repair all her paintings and give them to her now!
When I was in junior high school, my eldest daughter made her own clay figurine, painted it with colored pens and then painted it with varnish, which was very realistic and lifelike. My naughty second daughter quietly took it away as homework. As a result, she hit the nail on the head and won several prizes in the school exhibition. Unfortunately, it was stolen after the exhibition, which made the eldest daughter very angry and shouted at her sister.
My second daughter is lively by nature, and I have given them the opportunity to host programs together on holidays since I was a child. I remember the family reunion on 1990. We held a family reunion as usual. The eldest daughter and the second daughter were eloquent and humorous, which made the whole family laugh. Now there are videos of them hosting the show at home.
When the second daughter grows up, she will host the whole school's cultural performance at school every year! All the event hosts, big and small, can't live without her, and her courage and vivid lines make the audience full of praise. In addition, she also works as an announcer at the school radio station. Every day during recess, her sweet voice ripples all over the campus!
My second daughter has been naughty since she was a child, but what makes me happy is that while she is playing happily, her academic performance has not been high. In junior high school, my daughter was not only the announcer of campus radio station, but also the host of school activities, and also the monitor and secretary of the League branch. She is an out-and-out "little star" in school. She also has a large group of good friends who go out to play on Sunday. In my impression, I don't seem to see my daughter studying hard, so I'm really worried about her. However, during the senior high school entrance examination, my wife and I were not worried about anything. The second daughter was not only admitted to Dalat Banner No.1 Middle School with a good score of 24 points, but also entered the best rocket class. It's really a blockbuster, and it's true.
From the recent chat, we know the psychological course of children's struggle after entering high school. Although the second daughter has achieved a good score of 24 in the whole flag when she entered school, her goal is by no means limited to this. The child made a detailed plan for his three-year study in senior high school. There are six semesters in total, and each semester must advance five times, and finally he must be the first in the school. According to this "grand" plan, my daughter jumped to sixth place in the final exam after the first semester of senior one, and finally realized her dream of being the first in the whole school in the next semester of senior two. My daughter's step-by-step and down-to-earth attitude has made her progress much faster than planned. In this way, my daughter's grades are in the forefront of the grade and she has never made any mistakes. In the end, she won a three-year tuition-free award from the school and many scholarships (30 students in the whole school are free, and 0/7 students in the School of Science/KLOC-0 are free according to the number of students).
After years of study, my feeling is that my second daughter is calm on the surface, but in fact she is a child with firm beliefs, clear goals and practical actions. Not far from graduating from college, she has been entangled in the choice of postgraduate entrance examination and work. Finally, in order to improve her competitiveness in employment, she resolutely chose the hard road of postgraduate entrance examination. At this time, there are only 70 days left from the national unified postgraduate entrance examination. In the rest of the time, the children get up at 6 o'clock every day, simply wash and eat, and then run to the classroom to start a day of study. At noon, she is still racing against time. When she was really sleepy, she took a nap in the classroom with her arms in her arms and went back to the dormitory at night. Other students are asleep, and she has to burn the midnight oil to read until 2 am. Many things happen. In such a short time, my daughter was successfully admitted to her ideal school, People's Public Security University of China, and obtained a master's degree in the Department of Traffic Management of Public Security University.
It is no exaggeration to say that my two daughters are "talented women" who are versatile, good at singing and dancing, and fully developed morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically. The second daughter, led by her sister, has always loved basketball. She has been a member of the school basketball team from junior high school to graduate school, and she is also good at table tennis. When the eldest daughter was in high school, the second daughter was in junior high school. The two sisters won the second place in the senior high school group and the second place in the junior high school group in the table tennis competition for middle school students in the whole flag.
Ordos is called "the ocean of songs, the hometown of wine", perhaps influenced by this regional culture. My two daughters have a natural good voice and are the backbone of the school's cultural performances. The eldest daughter's solo "Qingqing World" was well received in junior high school, and later she imitated the singer Tian Zhen. The second daughter is not only the host of the May 4th performance, but also participated in several dance performances. Entering the university, they have a broad stage. Participated in the top ten singers competition on campus, won the winning prize, and had their performances at every party. In addition, the eldest daughter also likes guitar and calligraphy, and the second daughter also likes reading aloud. He is good at sports and cultural performances. The eldest daughter has always been the school's high jump champion and long-distance runner, and the second daughter is the school's shot put champion and sprinter.
The healthy and all-round development of the two children has been well received by schools, teachers and classmates, and their studies are covered with awards and honorary certificates from various competition organizations, schools and classes. When other people know that I am the father of you and Blair, they are all surprised and envious. Usually, when our eldest daughter, who ranks first in the whole flag, takes the senior high school entrance examination, the former No.1 Middle School of Yikezhaomeng (now Erdos City) offered free admission, but we still chose the nearest No.1 Middle School of Dalat Banner. In the college entrance examination, there is no doubt that she was admitted to a key university with her usual grades. However, serious human errors in the college entrance examination made her miss out on key universities. However, the daughter was not discouraged. She in turn enlightened us: "I will definitely realize my ideal!" " "
The ancients said that "a wife is proud of her husband, and a father treasures her son". My daughter's Excellence has brought us infinite happiness and made me proud! Make me proud!
My demands on my two daughters in life are almost harsh. As the saying goes, "the rich raise daughters and the poor raise children." My family was poor at that time. In the early 1980s, my wife and I earned less than 100 yuan, and there was a famine in building a house. We scrimped and saved everywhere and didn't dare to spend a penny. Up to now, children still remember three meals a day and fry cabbage almost every day. It makes me sick to see cabbage now. On the one hand, because of poverty, there is no money to meet her daughter's requirements; On the one hand, this frugal housekeeping culture can also cultivate children's moral sentiment and self-reliance ability.
Other people's children are all brought up by grandma, and my two children are relatives. Three days and two days, sometimes left to neighbors when no one is watching. When my second daughter was born, I vacated my south cool room and turned it into a tofu shop, taking in a family to make tofu. While my second daughter wasn't looking, I left my second daughter in the tofu shop. Children usually play in the tofu mill, and when they are sleepy, they sleep alone in the tofu mill. They never drag adults down and don't cry.
All the girls in other people's homes are beautifully dressed, but my daughter is rustic. The big one wears the second one, and the tiger goes down the mountain with a piece of skin. Even the happiest thing that the two daughters recall now is that their second uncle bought a floral dress for the two children during the Spring Festival.
Other children have many toys, but my children have never seen what toys are. Speaking of it now, the two children still remember the only small tricycle and a doll that can't move in the size of a palm when they were children.
Other children can buy whatever they want, while my children can only buy what they want. Because of the poor family, the sound of selling ice cream and popsicles made the two children drool, but the two sensible children went to the ice cream seller and said, "We won't eat, so you should go." If I eat cold, I will have diarrhea. " The eldest daughter didn't eat the first packet of instant noodles until she was in junior high school. The taste made the two children salivate, which is still unforgettable. Although I occasionally buy snacks for my children, the first thing that children think of is mom and dad, so let mom and dad eat first;
Other people's children all go to the barber shop to have their hair cut, and my children are all cut blindly by her mother with scissors. They look like two bald boys. The eldest daughter is a typical hijab, and the second daughter is often short while long.
Other people's children are picked up by adults when they go to school and leave school, but my two children are not picked up when they come out of kindergarten. No matter whether it is cold or hot, the two children are like two young adults. Every morning when the alarm clock rings, they get up on time, make some milk powder and eat steamed bread slices, rain or shine.
Once my eldest daughter forgot to turn on the alarm clock, and she was going to be late for school. The child begged: "Dad, send me!" "I said," no, you run. "In retrospect, I really regret it. I am cruel as a father!
In this way, my two children have developed a self-care ability, doing their own things and never relying on others. Including my daughter's study in the United States, all the formalities were handled by the children. As a father, I didn't give any help. At that time, I told my eldest daughter that when you go abroad, I can only give you financial support, and you can only do the rest yourself. I am so busy that I can't even find the door. Therefore, from the embassy visa to the Xinjiapo exam and then to the United States, the daughter did it herself. I didn't even take it to the airport by train. Looking back on this matter, as a father, I am a little unreasonable! Now I am ashamed of my daughter!
Of course, this kind of education does exercise children. My two daughters have courage, courage and hard work. I think many boys can't compare with them. During their college years, they dared to go out to the south and visit some famous cities and scenic spots in Shandong without telling adults. In order to save money, they go it alone, stay in the cheapest hotel and eat the cheapest meal. Tell us later. I'm worried about them. But instead of blaming my daughters, I praised their courage and courage.
The eldest daughter works in Guangzhou, and the second daughter just went to college. During the summer vacation, she went to Guangzhou alone to find her sister. Two people went swimming in the sea, and were soaked in hot summer, exposure and seawater. When they got home, they became two "African blacks", with a layer of skin shed all over, and their immature faces became two little faces. I make them laugh, but you two can't get married!
During her work in Beijing, the eldest daughter lived in the basement, squeezed the bus and subway, got up at five o'clock every morning, cooked her own meals and took care of the housework by herself. In order to promote Li Yang Crazy English, the children posted posters and distributed leaflets by themselves, and gave lectures in English to students in all famous universities in Beijing. The children's fluent and authentic American English and passionate vitality attracted the attention of many college students, and also earned enough popularity and brought benefits to Li Yang's Crazy English. My eldest daughter majored in computer science in college, and her English level was completely self-taught. Without enough self-confidence and superhuman courage, it is impossible to give a speech at a prestigious school in Beijing when you leave school. I hope you once said that the bigger the stage and the more people there are, the more passionate and confident she will be. I once listened to an English lecture given by my eldest daughter in her hometown middle school. Her fluent and proficient spoken English, passionate and cadence speech were very inflammatory and attractive, and won applause from teachers and students.
When the eldest daughter was studying in the United States, she drove hundreds of kilometers to major cities in the United States every day to apply for a job. Self-driving and roommates traveled all over the major cities and landscapes near Texas; Drive from the southern part of the United States to the northernmost part of the United States with friends from China, and visit Las Vegas, the world's most famous casino, and Colorado Grand Canyon, the world's most famous grand canyon. ...
Our daughter's promise makes us adults proud!
My two daughters are very understanding and reasonable. I have taught them since childhood that "only by suffering can they become masters". Losing is not losing, it is a blessing. Be sincere in getting along with others, consider people and things from each other's point of view, and learn to put yourself in each other's shoes.
The eldest daughter temporarily stayed at her aunt's house after graduation. On the issue of faith and object, my aunt and niece disagree, and some words of my aunt are unacceptable to my daughter. Although my daughter is full of grievances, it is not my heart to say what my sister said, but her heart is right and it is good for me. She was afraid of quarreling between our sisters, and in turn advised us to leave others alone. After all, my elder sister-in-law has helped me a lot abroad and in my life. We should remember others for life.
Her heart is so kind, so understanding, so reasonable. Therefore, she has also won the love of many Americans. On the recommendation of the second menstrual student director, she got the work-study program. At the beginning of the second year, the eldest daughter found a very profitable job after a competitive interview, boarding, staying in school for free and paying. Many Americans invited her home and gave her food and clothes. Some American mothers admitted that she was their adopted daughter. Many people in China also gave her meticulous care, and she made a large number of Chinese and American friends in the United States. She often tells us that "there are so many friends who care about me and love me, don't worry" and "fools have their own blessings".
Yes! My silly eldest daughter's simple, honest, kind and straightforward personality embodies her great wisdom, courage and happiness!
Honesty and kindness is a realm of being a man and a wisdom of dealing with life. To be convenient to others is to be kind to yourself, and to respect others is to respect yourself.
Although she lives in America, she has never forgotten her relatives, classmates and friends in her hometown. She often calls her grandparents to say hello and often chats with her classmates and friends online. Seeing these actions, we parents are really happy for her.
Regarding the employment of my two daughters, I have said many times: "Don't count on your father for employment, go your own way." Besides, honesty and frankness, integrity, kindness, honesty, strength and progress are the blood of our Wang Xing family. In my philosophy of life, I never ask for help as long as I can do it. When I was in politics, I served many leaders, but I never told them what I had done for myself. After I went to sea, I also worked under several big bosses, but I never bargained with them because of personal problems such as treatment. I firmly believe that there is always a reward for giving. The boss can only give you a position, but can't give you a future. Go your own way.
Like father, like son. My two daughters have told me many times about employment: "Dad, you don't have to worry about work." My eldest daughter chose to go abroad for further study. From my heart, she was forced. If she has a good job in China, I won't let her go. If forced to stay, wouldn't it ruin the child's future?
The second daughter will graduate in the summer of 20 1 1, and the employment problem is also on the agenda, but the second daughter is very confident. She said, "Don't worry about my job." According to her major, there is only one way for civil servants, so the second daughter took the national civil service exam this year.
As early as the summer vacation in 2009, in order to pave the way for her employment, she went to the Public Security Department of Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region and asked for an internship at the Public Security Department. The public security department readily agreed to her daughter's request. Through two months' internship, the second daughter's insight into the world and understanding of human feelings have won high contacts in the public security department and received good comments. Before leaving the internship, friends from the public security department also held a farewell banquet for their second daughter.
20 10 The Public Security Department of Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region has specially set up 8 posts for the graduate program of Inner Mongolia, which is about to graduate from 2010 Public Security University, but it must pass the national civil service examination. I was overjoyed and flattered to hear the news! It seems that there is really fairness and justice in the world!
20 1 1 After graduation, the second daughter was successfully admitted to the Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region Public Security Department, and now she is an official police officer of the Republic!
For my two children, we didn't let them deliberately play the piano, nor did we let them deliberately study art, let alone accompany them to school. What we can give them is a sound personality and basic cultivation. How to go in the future, or that sentence, go your own way, a bright future comes from self-reliance and self-reliance, and find your dignity and happiness with your own efforts. I believe they will, they will find their own life coordinates and realize their own life value.
(Note: This article was written on 20 1 1 and released by local media and WeChat official account. )
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