1. Ask your child what happened at school this day, or how it went. You have to be creative when you ask this question. For example, you can ask ridiculous things, scary things, terrible things, stupid things and so on.
If it is not convenient for you to communicate with the teacher face to face, you may wish to know how to communicate with the teacher by phone.
3. Participate in the activities organized by the school as much as possible. When parents actively participate in parent-teacher conferences or parent-teacher conferences, your children will also benefit a lot, because teachers can learn more and better about their children from their parents.
Second, you should urge your child to go to bed early and get up early, get to school on time, dress appropriately and bring all the stationery he needs. This makes him understand that school is very important, so doing homework is also very important!
Third, arrange a fixed time for children to do their homework.
It is the most ideal time to go home from school, because at three or four o'clock in the afternoon, children are still full of energy and have higher learning efficiency. If you can take care of your child after school and let him start his homework at this time, that would be great! If all the family members don't come home until 6 pm or later, you can ask your children to do their homework while you are preparing dinner.
Fourth, make some rules and put them into practice.
Insist that children finish their homework before going out to play, watch TV or make phone calls. Once the child runs out to play, or stays in front of the TV, it is estimated that it will be "difficult" to get him to take back his heart and start doing his homework! If your child has a lot of homework and you want him to have time to play, you can ask him to do 1 hour homework and play 1 hour, and then finish the rest of the homework at one go.
Choosing a fixed place for children to study there can also show how important homework is.
If children are allowed to study in their own rooms, they may feel a little isolated from the outside world. As long as your child is not distracted when studying, the kitchen table is fine. However, children of eleven or twelve may prefer to study in their own rooms.
6. Prepare all the school supplies your child needs.
Near the place where he often does his homework, a drawer or small box is specially set aside to hold pencils, bookmarks, erasers, staplers, glue, scotch tape, dictionaries, rulers, pencil sharpeners and other stationery. He is strongly urged to put these stationery away and put them in the drawer so that they can be found at any time when doing homework.
Seven, a few days before the start of school, it is necessary to find out the expectations and requirements of the children's teachers for homework.
1. How much time does she ask your child to spend doing homework every night?
2. How much help and guidance does she want her parents to give her children?
3. If your child does homework for more than the time suggested by the teacher, what will the teacher ask him to do? No matter how long it takes, do you always finish your homework, or hand in the unfinished homework and forget it? If this problem recurs, you need to evaluate whether the teacher judges whether the time required for children to finish these homework is accurate and reasonable, or whether your children are struggling to learn. In addition, I need to know how long it will take his classmates to do the same homework.
4. What will happen if the child doesn't finish the homework assigned by the teacher?
Show great interest in children's homework. Arrange time for children to go to the library to find information. Stick the homework that takes a long time to finish on the refrigerator. You should always remind him.
Nine, in order to encourage children to pay attention to the neatness of homework, it is necessary to praise the relatively neat and clean parts of children's homework in time.
Pay more attention to what the child did right, rather than staring at what he did wrong.
Eleven, in order to let the child finish his homework more independently, you can arrange for him to do a small number of simple exercises and ask you after he finishes. So that he can reduce his dependence on you. Some children ask adults to accompany him during the whole process of his homework. Such a request cannot be tolerated.
12. Make sure your child has other responsibilities besides studying at home.
To deal with the problem that children are unwilling to do homework is to let them be responsible for at least one housework at home. Doing housework helps to cultivate children's sense of responsibility and regards doing homework as an obligatory thing.