Educating children is a big deal. Some parents use incorrect methods when educating their children, which leads to their increasingly stubborn personality or inferiority complex, which is not conducive to their future growth. However, some people find that some mothers are very smart. When educating children, they know how to show weakness in front of them, and often they can skillfully solve some difficult problems. The children educated by this family are often excellent and have a bright future. So today, let's see if parents will show weakness in front of their children and whether their children will be stronger. Why?

1. Children will be more independent and responsible.

Hook said in a program about parenting: "A boy's mother must know how to show weakness and give your son a chance to grow into a real man." She does the same thing in real life. For example, if she is tired of taking care of two children, she will tell her feelings truthfully: "I am very tired today, and I need you to help my mother do some housework, ok?" After listening to this, the children are not addicted to playing, rushing to sweep the floor and wash socks, and are very active. Children's ability must be tempered by repeated trials and hands-on practice in order to gain valuable lessons, whether boys or girls. Parents are good at showing weakness, that is, they realize from the deep heart that their children will become stronger and stronger as they grow up. Respect him, trust him, give him more room for growth, and give the initiative and opportunity to the children.

2. It will make children more responsible.

Speaking of the relationship between Huo Siyan and his son, many parents may like it very much, thinking that Huo Siyan knows how to use "routines" when educating his son. You know, when she is educating her children, she knows how to show weakness and show her weak side to them, so that they can see where their parents need protection, thus making them feel responsible. This is also the important significance of weak education for children's growth in modern society. Because they can make children understand the meaning of responsibility earlier. Children can also inspire their sense of responsibility through their parents' weakness again and again.

3. Parents' proper weakness can stimulate children's inner self-confidence.

Some parents look smart, like to do everything for their children, and don't allow their children to make mistakes. However, children can't see the gradual improvement of their own abilities, and without the process they have experienced, their self-confidence will be difficult to improve. It is also helpful for parents to show weakness in front of their children and let them have the desire to protect adults.