Now, people's ideas have changed a lot. They call unrestrained women "women men". An introverted and timid man is a "woman's character".
Of course, many different things are making different differences.
The progress of the times has brought many previous relationships between men and women, and ordinary men and women can play together, which was not allowed in the past.
However, no matter before or now, men have to bear the burden of family and country. It seems this is a real man.
The status of women is constantly improving, and many of them are higher than men. It seems that this is in line with female psychology.
The difference between men and women seems to have a new meaning: men earn money and women manage money; Men save money and women spend money, which seems to be in line with the present society.
Of course, there are a few women who are better than men. However, there are too few compulsory games. Most men are afraid to speak loudly to their women, for fear that women will fall into the arms of others in the blink of an eye. Such things are also common.
Women are precious! Men can't afford to get hurt!
There are differences between men and women. If you are not a promising man, I'm afraid you can't talk loudly at home. If your woman is heartbroken, you really can't keep her.
How many men are real men now? How many people are courageous people? Once you want to be a gentleman, I'm afraid you can only do it if you are developed, otherwise your girl will follow others.
Nowadays, men and women are turning upside down. Men used to say that one is one; Now women don't nod and men don't look up; Now men have to pay for themselves, and women know how to live.
What will happen to men and women in the future Who can explain these clearly?
There are differences between men and women, and the topic is endless for unknown reasons. May men and women be truly equal, and may there be no difference between men and women.
I understand that it may be different in gender, experience, experience and knowledge! In addition, the purpose of giving and receiving is kidnapping and opening the distance between men and women with ethics.
Ancient people thought that men and women were different because they worshipped the wind and built a heart. It is impolite to meet and talk alone without physical contact and intimate behavior. Modern people still think that men and women are different. We don't talk about it physically. Since ancient times, men are yang and women are yin, men are heaven and women are earth, and yin and yang complement each other to breed human beings. How can there be no difference? It's just that modern people are open-minded, and it's common for men and women to meet, talk and eat, but not many people meet alone. It's not bad to fall in love and hand over special jobs. It is not normal for men and women who often meet alone. The saying that men and women are different makes sense in both ancient and modern times. We modern people should also adhere to this view. In modern society, many people despise (men and women are different) families that do not pay attention to moral cultivation, cheat in marriage, divorce, and raise chickens to find ducks. I think we should pay attention to (the difference between men and women), which will make the family stable and the society harmonious, and be good for the family and the country!
The difference between men and women is the bottom line of heterosexual communication outside marriage. Affection, love and liking are human instinct and cannot be closed. But we can't break this bottom line. In other words, obscenity doesn't care about the heart. People who love beauty are good people who do things quietly. People who don't practice to the highest level can't move their emotions. If they move, they can't calm down, and it's useless to be tempted to practice.
The difference between men and women is the first half, and the second half is giving and receiving.
Of course, this refers to adults.
Thousands of years of feudal ethics have been stripped to pieces by modern people.
The previous feudal ethics imprisoned people's souls, especially the most tortured women!
Modern people's sexual consciousness is too open, and some people's behavior is not ashamed of society.
Extreme left and extreme right are not desirable! In the free communication between men and women, we should not go too far.
Society needs positive energy!
Just can't be as feudal as the old society, and can't be as open as the western world!
There are differences between men and women. To what extent? People with a little culture can understand it! Most normal people know what they are, but some people just pretend to be confused about what they know!
The ancients said that men and women are different, and my humble opinion is mainly reflected in the contact between men and women. For example, in ancient times, young ladies didn't get off the embroidered floor easily, let alone get in touch with the opposite sex. Even ordinary women will not easily contact strange men and talk. Even if you are engaged, you can't see your fiance. They can't see their husbands until their wedding night.
As the saying goes, men and women are not close, which also illustrates this point.
Judging from the ancient marriage customs, it also reflects the differences between men and women. In feudal society, marriage was ordered by parents and arranged by matchmakers. Young men and women cannot fall in love. There is an old saying that there is no cloud or rain in the sky and no marriage on the ground, which also illustrates this point. Of course, there were differences between men and women in feudal society, and there were other aspects needless to say.
There are differences between men and women in feudal society, good and bad. For example, girls in feudal society can't go out into society, and marriage can only follow the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers. As a result, all shall be well that ends well, lovers are separated, and handsome men and beautiful women sleep with my husband, which has caused many love tragedies and marital misfortunes. On the bright side, men and women kept their distance before the wedding ceremony and kept the purity of love.
After the founding of New China, the government formulated the marriage policy of freedom of love and autonomy of marriage, and some young women went to the society to engage in their own work. They chose a wide range of spouses and had more contact with the opposite sex, all of which avoided the occurrence of love tragedy and marriage misfortune. It is also the progress of society.
In a word, we should abandon the bad aspects of various stereotypes in feudal society, and men and women should keep their own distance and purity of love in front of the bridal chamber, which is worth advocating and carrying forward.
At the beginning, the difference between men and women mainly refers to the relationship between husband and wife. If there is no difference between men and women, it will lead to what modern people call promiscuity.
Its essence lies in: a man must admit that his wife is different from other women, so he can't be a wife; And women must also admit that their husbands are different from other men, so everyone can't praise them.
In the eyes of modern people, men can also be wives and women can also be husbands, but this is a minority phenomenon, and there are still many places abroad that are working hard to legalize same-sex marriage.
The difference between men and women in modern understanding has another meaning, that is, the physical and psychological differences between men and women, even including the differences in intelligence, work, social and other aspects. There are differences between feminism and anti-feminism, but there are also similarities.
According to Cui of California, what the ancients said about the difference between men and women has at least two meanings. One is the physiological difference between men and women. The physiological differences between men and women still apply today. There is no need to elaborate on the physiological differences between men and women. The second is that boys and girls have different requirements for life planning. The requirements for boys are higher than those for girls.
For boys, responsibility education must be carried out from an early age. The first is responsible for yourself, the second is responsible for the family, the third is responsible for the society, and the fourth is responsible for the country. These four responsibilities can be summarized as: self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world.
The ancients' "son preference" is interpreted by modern people as son preference. This understanding misinterpreted the original intention of the ancients. Men are superior to women: men should have the ability and mind to take on great responsibilities; Preference for girls: girls make mistakes, forgive them if they can, and the punishment is lighter than boys who make the same mistakes.
The phrase "men and women are different" comes from The Book of Rites: Characteristics of Efficiency. The original text said: "Men and women are different, and then father and son are close. Father and son kiss, and then give birth. Yi Sheng, then Zuo Li. Ceremony, and then everything is fine. " From the perspective of feudal ethics, this paper expounds the relationship between father and son and the relationship between courtesy and righteousness.
The difference between men and women was always advocated by the ancients. In the past, women's status was very low. Is it contempt for women's social status to say that men and women are different? On the contrary, it is an affirmation of women's role in the family.
There has always been a saying that men are outside and women are inside. The actual situation is exactly the same. In the past, most men ran away from home as adults, either doing business or working. Even some officials, their children are not around. Everyone has seen A Dream of Red Mansions. Lin Daiyu's father is a small official. After her mother died, Lin's father sent Daiyu to her grandmother's house.
Therefore, children's earliest education begins with their mothers. Some people say that if you marry a good woman, three generations will prosper, and if you marry a bad woman, three generations will lose. It's a bit exaggerated, but it can't be said to be unreasonable.
We are familiar with the story of Meng Mu's three steps. It was Meng Mu's strict choice of children's living environment that finally settled near the school. The surrounding learning atmosphere had a far-reaching influence on Mencius, and made Mencius' extraordinary knowledge and wisdom. Another fairy mother is her mother-in-law. She tattooed the word "loyalty to the country" on the back of young Yue Fei, and her patriotic feelings took root in Yue Fei's young mind, thus becoming a generation of national heroes.
It can be seen that the mother's influence on her children is very important and far-reaching.
The difference between men and women is also reflected in the choice of occupation and the distribution of work. Proper arrangement can improve work efficiency.
Men are generally stout, and doing some manual work in rural areas is obviously better than women. Women, on the other hand, are clever, handy and do some needlework, which is superior to men. Using their respective advantages to arrange production and labor can obviously improve work efficiency.
In the choice of career, it will be very beneficial to develop oneself according to the characteristics of men and women. Women are rich in emotion, strong in perceptual cognition and good at communication. More suitable for the development of public relations, preschool education, nursing, accounting and other industries. Men pay more attention to rational cognition and are more suitable for lawyers, doctors and other industries.
Whether physically or psychologically, men and women do have something else. We should make scientific use of their respective advantages and characteristics, complement each other's advantages, and create better work and social benefits.
Men and women are matched, and work is not tiring.
(The picture is from the Internet, thanks to the original author. )